you know what i think is sad?

People who have children but only did it because they were supposed to,
rather than actually wanting them.

when it comes to males who are forced into these situations,
or the ones who have kids to prove their straightness,
i have tremendous empathy for them.
it couldn’t be me.
a child is not a pokemon card.
you can’t trade it in once it slides out.

Sidebar: these vixens who have out of wedlock kids with these jackals,
but then get on social media to yell at us about how they are single mothers now.
The dick was good until it wasn’t.

when i was younger,
i never dreamed of wanting being a father.
i mean,
how could i?…

I was so confused in who i was.

there was a huge part of me that did not like the opposite sex in that way,
while there was another side that was yearning to be loved by the same sex.
i grew up seeing images of “the straight happy family“,
but even in seeing that,
i knew that wasn’t what i wanted.

I figured I needed to be a vixen to marry another male and since I wasn’t that,
I felt very lost.

in a 2025 forest where gays can have kids now,
it is still something i don’t want.

…and that is okay.
It’s okay to be child-free.
It is not okay to be bullied into having kids.

miley cyrus said it best in this interview with “interview”:

“In an appearance on the New York Times’ Interview podcast, Miley said: “My stepdad asked me the other day: ‘Why are you the only one without a makeup line?’ I was like: ‘Cause that’s not my passion.’ He goes: ‘That’s the right answer.’ And it made so much sense. It’s like: ‘I don’t have a makeup line because I’m not a makeup artist.’”
“I feel that way about motherhood,” she then added. “It’s just never been something that I’ve been overly passionate about. “It’s a lot of responsibility and devotion and energy, and if you’re not passionate about that, I don’t know how you do sleepless nights and 18 years of what my mom dealt with,” Miley concluded.”

110%.
i had someone say to me a few years ago:

“You are getting older and should have kids.
Who is going to take care of you when you are sick?”

…and i thought that such a selfish thing to say.
it really offended me.
the only reason i’m having kids is to force them to take care of me once i’m old AF?
i responded:

“What if my kid hates me and have no qualms of throwing my old ass in the old folks home?”

they were quiet as they should be.
the way my dick gets hard when i decide to shut someone down.
i can fuck for hours.
this is me:

Foxhole,
as we get older,
the conversations of having children start rising up.
parents want grandbabies; your friends start getting saddled with children.
you don’t want any of that and being made to feel like you are doing the wrong thing.
society assumes if you don’t have kids you are gay,
and most likely you might just be,
but i’d love to challenge that:

“The straight males who have kids don’t even take care of their kids.
How many straight males done up and left many of our single female friends after the kid was born?”

i know quite the few single vixens who regret having kids with “aint shit manz #913213123”.
when it comes to the other side,
i have another POV too:

“All the DL males are having kids to fit in societies standards.
At the end of the day,
they are still gay and will resent them as they get more comfortable in their own skin.
Imagine a father coming out as gay in his older years,
but admitting he did all of that as a front to throw people off from his sexuality?”

in other font: just because i can do something doesn’t mean i should.
i don’t want fuckin’ kids.
that may be scheduled to change but as right now:

I’m good over here.

…and if you are about kids,
stand in your truth too.

lowkey: i wish more males were confident to put their foot down on being child free.
it’s okay to live a life where you are selfish.
it’s not okay to live a life where you are selfish with your children.

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