aunt wendy taught me how to be media trained without her knowing.
there is some shit you say/font out loud and other shit you keep at the kitchen table.

kitchen table talk (v): when you are spilling tea with your people with the intentions of it staying between ya’ll and Jesus.

that is when you spill that you fucked someone and it was terrible or mind blowing,
or my personal fav:
“YOU FUCKED HIM?!?!?”

that being fonted i have A LOT of kitchen table font with my Foxholers.
i always ask if i can share because sometimes the tea is PIPIN’.
that being fonted:

many males,
especially straights,
love to talk and font for brownie points outside of kitchen table talk.

(ex)-boxing jackal,
adrien broner,
has allegedly fucked a lot of pretty attentionistas it seems.
he decided to expose everyone he fucked on his IG with “the toxic test“…

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wow.

sidebar: people are shocked he had sex with all these vixens because of who he is or how he looks.
i keep fontin’ ya’ll that you would be surprised who has fucked/is fuckin’ who.
it could have been pity sex,
“keep it on the low” sex,
vulnerable sex,
or “i found him really attractive in that moment” sex.

i always like to ask:

“why did people end up fucking YOU?”

…because people will wonder why “such and such” fucked you too.

|thank you.
you know what i find interesting?
many gay males (not gay jackals) will spill at the kitchen table they fucked so and so.
some may not even spill at all because we are happy to getting dicked down by our fantasies.
i believe its because being gay is still looked down upon and many of these males are closeted.
there is an unspoken “gay bro code” that we follow.

if you been around straight males,
they will SHOUT outside the kitchen table the vixens they have fucked with no filter.

i think its because they don’t follow any code because they look at all vixens as hoes,
unless the vixen is “wifey” so she gets a pass.
i believe:

it comes from a place of what we were taught growing up too.

remember:
a lot of straights,
including gays,
were taught by older male figures that who and how many you fuck means you are a male.
masculinity to close minded people is defined by sex.
so when a males can put baddies on their trophy cases,
both male or female:

that reflects to other males in the animal kingdom how much of THE MAN they are rather than being A MAN.

nope.
that just means they have big mouths and they can’t be trusted with any secrets.