I’ve always had a soft spot for the old school hoes.
the ones who knew how to move in silence.
not just the 90s rappers and actors,
but the seasoned professionals of all careers.
the ones who knew how to keep things tight,
classy,
and above all,
private.
i wasn’t taught the game by attentionistos/nistas.
i learned from the real gold diggers.
the ones who bagged the blue checks or the finest of the fine,
whether they were straight or gay,
and like denzel said:
.they moved by a code and had poise.
when it was over…
they didn’t cry on IG live.
they simply moved on to the next contender like it was just another tuesday.
Love?
Optional.
Discretion?
Mandatory.
Exit strategy?
Required.
these weren’t bitter lessons; they were survival tactics.
jay-z once said,
“i’ll show you how to do this son“.
they lived that.
Something shifted in this new era tho.
it seems the currency isn’t discretion; it’s exposure.
one viral moment,
one dropped name,
one blurred face after they sucked some dick and got fucked.
Jamari Fox: “How can I get this mofo to be one of my biggest allies?
The New Hoes: “How can I out this mofo for some attention?”
the latest that an F-BI sent me is…
Bossman Dlow
he got outed for allegedly hooking up with a trans she-jackal.
it wasn’t about justice or truth either.
it was about views,
likes,
clicks,
or a spot on someone’s messy podcast.
part of me still misses the old school hoeing shenanigans.
the thrill of knowing his secret and never needing to prove it.
once you’ve shown all your cards:
The intrigue is over.
everyone wants their name in lights.
me?
I still think the real power move is knowing when to keep the lights off.
lowkey: nicki tried to teach these new hoes and they still struggling.
these new hoes wanna get bred first; end up baby mamas after.
These stories always cause a person to go viral for a second and then they fade back into obscurity like what gain did you get if people forget you afterwards and you didn’t gain financially?
Remember the guy that exposed Porsha’s ex? Or the guys that slept with Blac Chyna while she was with Rob? Outside of Sidney Star, who is struggling to maintain fame, once it’s over people don’t care about you.
There are reasons to out anybody….. This ain’t one of them though!!! I fact this person just messed up cuz nobody gonna wanna deal with them no more because they may run their mouth for absolutely no reason.
I have never understood the reason behind outing someone.