i’ll never forget back in the day,
when i was a new little fox in this forest,
i argued with some pornstar on social media one time.
one of the Foxholers came on here and said:

“i was really disappointed seeing you do that.”

…and that sat with me forever.
blocked the pornstar and never did that again.
you never realize how highly people actually view you until you go off script.

some people cannot control their anger,
which is why they fall into traps set for them.
you don’t need to always show up for a battle.
most shit can be ignored especially when you have a career.
i was shocked to learn naquan palmer aka the dl whisperer is currently locked up…

…all because he chose to over-beef with ts madison.
according to out,
ts madison had to set up a restraining order first because:

“Ts Madison has obtained a temporary restraining order against a content creator who filmed himself driving by her Georgia home while shouting threats of violence, according to Madison and court documents.

The court order against Naquan Palmer, also known as the DL Whisperer, comes after months of online commentary that devolved from verbal abuse online to in-person stalking, Madison says. In an exclusive interview with Out, Madison describes the escalating threats as terrifying, exhausting, and emblematic of the particular vulnerability Black trans women face when visibility collides with unchecked hostility.“

watch this:

…but now,
DL whisperer is in jail and facing up to 10 years via “gaye“:

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so ts madison is smart and i’ll font you why.
ts madison has the means and clout outside of social media fame.
she was just in a tyler perry production too.
she is probably more well connected than dl whisperer.
ts madison is going to fuck up a good thing by fighting.
she might get into it with you BUT she has more to lose than he does.
not only that:

he was driving by her spot and live streaming his crimes.

…so she had no choice but to handle it like anyone with means would do.

let the law handle it.

we are living in a time where trans vixens are being harassed/deleted for being who they are.
this was not the moment to be made an example.
dl whisperer had a good thing going on.
all he had to do was ignore or move forward.

he chose to handle it like a stereotypical “hood rat”
she chose to handle it like a stereotypical “karen”

…and that isn’t shade to her but he fell in a trap she can afford.

i never understand why people choose to fuck up their careers.
they work so hard to put themselves out there,
climb the ladder,
and fall face first because they can regulate their emotions but tbh:

if it wasn’t this mess,
DL whisperer would have faced a scorned DL hyena looking for revenge.

ultimately,
he picked his poison.

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