everyone in your relationships are the problem once you’re (ben) affleck-ted
here are two red flags some people don’t ever notice from others.
this is the first one for content creators:
Be careful of people who claim to be cool with you, but the moment you say something they don’t agree with, suddenly they turn on you. They start making shady comments and being lowkey nasty. I’ve encountered that A LOT in the foxhole. Folks who are cool with me until I write about something/someone they like.
“And this is why you’re ugly and your mother is dead in hell.”
this is why it takes me a while to warm up people now.
you gotta prove you’re genuine even if we don’t see eye to eye. the second thing is:
People who are constantly the victims in a breakup.
ben affleck showed me what a red flag he is when he leaves a relationship via “tmz”…
Ben Affleck says his marriage to ex-wife Jennifer Garner helped kickstart his alcoholism — claiming he turned to booze to cope with feeling “trapped.”The actor — who’s now with Jennifer Lopez — didn’t hold back while talking to Howard Stern about his drinking problem and his time with JG, which he made sound pretty damn miserable.He says if they would’ve stayed together, they would’ve been “at each other’s throats,” and not just that — but he even speculated if he was still married to her, he’d still be boozing.Here’s another telling quote from the Tuesday interview … “Part of why I started drinking was because I was trapped.” He adds, “I was like, ‘I can’t leave because of my kids, but I’m not happy, what do I do?’ And what I did was [I] drank a bottle of scotch and fell asleep on the couch, which turned out not to be the solution.”On the surface, it’s a pretty galling statement for Ben to make, considering how supportive Garner was through his bouts with the bottle.She famously took him to rehab in 2018, and remained a pillar for him.
this will always be my favorite picture of theirs:
“I don’t even want to look at you right now.”
it’s funny because the first time he left jlo, he said this via “contact music“:
Affleck is adamant he should never have got involved in the first place – because the publicity surrounding their romance tainted his career.
He says, “I was no longer in control of my life. I thought I wanted certain things, but I didn’t. I got lost. I felt suffocated, miserable and gross. I should never have gone down that route or got sucked in to all the publicity.
“I was typecast as myself. Too many people weren’t getting past what they read about me. That was damaging. I can tell from experience it’s bad for you, and bad for your career. So I took a break, went away for a while and let things calm down.”
And he admits he is much happier with his wife Jennifer Garner and their two daughters, three-year-old Violet and six-month-old Seraphina to look after.
He adds, “Work has taken a back seat. My job is not as important as it was. Saying that having a family changed my life is a cliche. But it’s true – it re-arranged my life and made me see clearly.”
ben must have some stupendous dick and lays the stroke down.
he continues to be the ultimate fuck boithat loves to trash his exes once he leaves them.
when i had low self-worth and a wolf (or even a “friend”) would tell me these sob stories,
it would make me think i was special and better than their last.
I WAS NEXT IN LINE TO BE TRASHED AND I WAS.
i feel like once the novelty wears off from jlo again,
he will reveal himself. she cleans him up but that mask of his will slip off sooner than later. the fucker in your life’s mask will slip off sooner than later too.