this body language <

when two people are interested in each other,
there is an energy they both carry.
there is a spark or even heat if its really intense.
offset and her had a lot of chemistry because there was genuine interest:

this is why i’m not convinced with cardi and maduka yet.
we know when she is interested because she can’t hide it.
i mean,
if it was any one of us who bagged NFL baller soccer wolf,
maduka okoye,
the roof tops would be shouting.
i mean,
look at the material:

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some of y’all wouldn’t be able to keep your mouthes shut.
in more ways than one.

question: do you guys think he has a big penis?
and a good stroke resume?

anyhoo…
cardi was spotted with maduka in italy,
and allegedly they went on a date,
but here is the thing…

i’ve had situations where DL wolves flirt with me privately,
but as soon as they were around others in public,
they were acting like i was the source of covid-19.
if they even acted like they were cool with me,
it would put a spotlight above our heads.
it annoyed TF outta me because it always made me feel like i was the problem.

NAH,
I WASN’T THE PROBLEM.

if he thought i was gonna try to tongue him down in public,
he clearly didn’t know me well enough.
i know how to conduct myself in public.
the thought i came to recently is:

HE wanted to tongue me down in public.
HE wanted to be himself with me but he was scared others would see him.
HE wanted to be comfortable but he knew he would expose himself.

so it had nothing to do with me; it had everything to do with those males.

i’m another male who is attracted to other males tho so its different for me.

i always ask this question and i never get an answer.
so i’ll ask it again because may this time i will:

if a trans vixen is considered to be a biological woman,
a straight wolf hitting on her is par the course,
right?

straight wolves hit on vixens all the time,
so for laverne cox to tell keke palmer on her podcast that…

i was gonna post my fav pic of lance gross for this entry,
but i can’t find it.
ugh.
so we’ll use this:

…as back ups to prove no point other than “dark chocolate is good for us“.
lance has a good eye for clothes cause i always love many of his looks,
but unfortunately:

he doesn’t have a good eye for hair color

i’m with his mother on this one…

i don’t know what came over me last year,
or maybe the year before,
but “jolene” from dolly parton was my top 5 song.

when i font you that i was OBSESSED.
when i read bey was gonna redo the song,
i was high key hyped:

…but her version fell flat in my expectations.
it was cool but i don’t revisit it.
i’m fonting all of this…

his tag is “O GIGANTE”.
i don’t know what that means in brazilian but after the following,
yes,
yes it is…

next to dominicans and ricans,
brazilian wolves been on my hit list.
i’ve met a gorgeous brazilian vixen but never a male.
i need to put that on my “to-do” list.
you already know the brazilian wolf i’ve posted about in the past that gets me hot instantly.
( x see him here )

side question: like DR,
is brazil the next best place where “money can make a male do anything”?

anyhoo,
leo santana is a brazilian singing wolf that has been in the business for 25 years.
in 2026,
sometime this week,
he made his actual debut cause…

you already know we don’t know what is truly going on in other people’s lives.
for instance,
i saw a picture of me the other day that someone sent me from a few years ago.
hated everything about it.

i was stupid thin.
like,
i looked unhealthy.

at that time i took that picture,
i remember people asking me if i was okay.
the reality was:

i was really stressed out around that time,
and when a Fox is stressed,
his weight drops as well.

thankfully,
people still gave me grace but for someone like ariana,
i can see why everyone is concerned.
although i love her new album,
“petal“…

and i loveeeeeeeeee the song for the title track…