There is something serious you need to avoid in this community.
Tight sequin pants and USPA (US Polo Association) are two…
…but something tragic also effecting Foxes.
It a disease that infects slow and spreads quickly.
You can try to avoid it and play it safe,
BUT statistics show that there is no real and true way to avoid it.
From official dick eating hoes to virginal good guys – no one is left immune.
I use to only think Vixens dealt with this issue.
But, anyone with a hole being stuck can be a victim.
Is there medicine?
Books to read?
Shit, a cleansing of the chakras?
How does one not become PIPE-matized?
I never want to be “one of them”.
A Fox who gets some mind-altering strokes that causes me to become PIPE-matized.
Can’t even focus on anything else but how official his pipe is.
Calling a nigga phone talking-bout:
“baby… this is Jamari… hi… how are you…
you haven’t called me in a few days…
just calling to say “hi”…
can you call me please?
oh btw, this is jamari…
ok… bye.”
Got a Fox mentally trying to make a Wolf call.
I had a friend associate acquaintance who dropped me over some good dick.
He went from not fucking anyone for a year to getting his back broke every night.
His Wolf was fresh out of jail, which was the crazy thing.
They met on an online site that day and fucked that night.
From there, friend associate acquaintance was paying his bills were paid .
He even went as far and bought him a cell phone.
I would go over to his crib to chill and of course, the Wolf would be there.
He would leave me in the living room and would be getting fucked stupid.
They would be wearing that head board OUT.
He was pipe-matized.
Last I heard, he moved him into his crib and he cheats on him left and right.
He lost me as well as his sanity.
What is it about good back shots that makes Foxes lose their minds?
I often ask if it is because a majority of us spend large amounts of time being lonely?
When we finally meet someone with some average rated 7 dick, we instantly become PIPE-matized.
But, it is far worst a pipe that speaks to you and knows your body language.
He just met you, but he knows every spot on your body.
Mofo has no problem in banging you until you cry tears of almighty joy!
I have standards,
but I often wonder if those standards mean nothing when it comes to sex?
Sure, my dream Wolf eats it good and is all about satisfying me.
He doesn’t have excuses why he doesn’t call on time and drops those Benjamins.
He also is addicted to me; as I am to him.
Where are those Wolves at?
Why does it seem these Wolves are only mind fucking us into thinking there is more?
I guess it is okay since you are at least getting pipe on the regular.
Or is it?
Like my friend associate acquaintance,
is it much easier to fall into the Venus Pipe Trap?
You never know when you will get a hit of some good dick that will have you doing stupid things.
It is wise to just hold out on sex until you meet someone real?
Or, do you try to program your mind to not fall so fast for some prime meat?
I couldn’t help but wonder…
You are quite funny and appear to be an interesting character. I can use someone with your skill set. Now, can I get a picture to go along with your resume? LOL!
Look at all of yal tryin to hook up lol
Lol G-rated or XXX-rated? Lmao!
Whichever shows your best features.
I’m officially turned on.
Can I ride your face?
LMAO!
Why yes…yes you cam. Lol
Yeah, I’m all the way in.
I think its the broad shoulders. Puberty hit me and I got wider with more mass, rather than taller. I mean I could tone up in some places but I wouldn’t want to be skinny. Just the right amount of thickness is everything!
Oh, so you’re one of those.
Been around the block a couple times, Jay.
It’s okay. I won’t judge you—harshly. I’ll reform you into a nice, committed wolf. We’ll have wonderful sex and travel the world.
What makes you think you have to reform me though? Lol
I’m all about adapting. When I first started messing with men I had to adapt (especially with the kind I’ve dealt with) and change my approach.
I don’t see why I can’t do the same if I’m faced with someone I truly like and want to be with.
I’m already a nice guy…most of the time and I’ve never had the opportunity and the right person to be committed to. Lol
Well, you have to be willing to commit first then work forward from there.
You sound like my ex. He eventually worked through it though. Mainly because I’m so affectionate and pull it out of whomever I’m with. So expect random kisses, Jay.
—with tongue.
Lol, nope. I’m fine. Although Jay’s message got me a tad flustered.
I do that already, so no problem.
I enjoy athletic activities like running through the park, basketball, and sporadic games of touch football on Sundays. I like good surprises like coming home to a meal you’ve made yourself (even if you can’t cook) and random notes left around for me to read like, “I love you” and “I miss you”. And when I’m feeling wolfish, I’m going to want to eat and beat. Emphasis on the eating part, so please be clean.
Thanks in advance, babe.
-HHIC
I write better than I verbalize my feelings anyway and my bathroom cabinet resembles a cologne counter and a drugstore. I keep the hygiene products fully stocked.
I LOOK like a football player, but my parents pushed me into sports like Soccer and Tennis and basketball growing up. The shit gets mad annoying when the first thing people ask me when they meet is is what position do I play in football. Like seriously…EVERYONE!
I don’t require a lot of attention, but I appreciate consideration. If you’re busy for school or work for three days and all I get is a few texts I’m good. I have a life outside of you. As long as you some how show you’re thinking of me.
You look like a football player? DAMN….Touchdown. 🙂
@Random you sound a lil hot over there u need some ice and a fan lol
What do you mean it gives you something different?
I’ve never had sex with anyone I’ve been into per se.
So sex doesn’t necessarily come with deep feelings for me.
I will say sometimes I fuck when I’m not even horny just for the contact.
I rarely engage in the everyday affection typical people do with people they know. I can’t remember the last time I hugged or kissed anyone. I kind of have walls up so sex is the time to let go and fill that void.
Now that’s if I’m in my feelings, where as sometimes I just want to pin you down, have my way, and get dressed in record time and leave. Lol
For the record though, I’m not a hoe or sex addict by any means.
I thought I was, but 90% of the time I back out of sex at the last minute and come to my senses. If I had went ahead and fucked all those times I had intended to I would be a super hoe.
You should see the look on someone’s face when they think they’re giving some bomb head (and maybe they really are) and out of no where I’m like “You good. I can’t do this.” and proceed to exit.
That shit is like the ultimate mind fuck. Lol damn this
conscience.
And me being me, I’d stand right up on you. 😉
Do that if you wanna, I will not be held responsible for what may happen to you…well, maybe I will since you’ll enjoy it 😉
I’m the same exact way. My friends always question my sex drive because I can go a really long time without having it or thinking about it. The thing is though, when I’m in a relationship, I’ll want to have it whenever and however. So, it’s not that i have a low sex drive. I just don’t care for sex with randoms.
I absolutely hate it.
I always feel like I could’ve done better with my hand.
Jay. This is going to be a really good marriage between the two of us. 🙂
Lol, fyi I enjoy long random debates in the dark before bed and waking up to kiss on the cheek or some morning head, followed by you cooking me breakfast half naked as I watch the cartoon network.
Thanks,
Mgmt
So, Jay…how long has it been? 😉
2-3 months? Look at me talking shit about the celibates and I’m damn near celibate my self.
I usually hold out for as long as I can though. Lol its about that time.
Wait! Where are you? I many need to book a flight.
Whew been reading this thread and it seems Jamari stroke up a good discussion.
I agree with Random. #3 is always the best one. I feel that you shouldn’t give it up unless the person is really worth it. The longer you hold off the better. I hate meaningless sex.
I’d love to be a fly on the wall when this happens…
Right? I think if we time it correctly, we could bring out some of his hybrid tendencies…lol
Yes, sir!
Lmao! That and some pornstar tendencies. Lol!
Hell I’ll just watch the action goin on pop a bag a pop corn and pop open a carona lol
It’s a different way of thinking.
I understand what you’re saying when you say having sex regularly negates that need, but it creates more of a headache than the nut is ever worth.
For me, the longer I’m celibate, the less I desire sex.
So, if I haven’t had sex in a very long time, there’s really nothing you or anyone else is going to be able to do that’s going to make me want to.
Well I’m different. The longer I cage the beast, the wilder it will be when it’s inevitably released.
I think sex gives me something different than other dudes though.
I’m like that. Actually, the more I have sex, the more I want it. But if I’m celibate, I’m cool. I don’t even watch porn or barely masturbate during those times. It’s all about what I focus on for me…give me enough breathing space & my erection will go down lol
Omg I thought I was the only one! Lol The less i have it the less I care for it. I go months on end without it and I’m totally fine. I used to question if my sex drive was low or if something was wrong with me until I learned to accept it
My friends ask me that.
But honestly, no. Once you realize what sex really gives you, you realize it’s not as important to you as the intimacy. For us Foxes and Hybrids, sex to us is about intimacy. A random nut will never be AS satisfying.
It’s not hard.
The problem with us foxes and hybrids is that when it comes to wolves, we’ll take one that doesn’t have absolutely everything we need because so many of them come to us incomplete anyway. Usually our train of thought is that it’s okay, we’ll “work with them”. Despite the fact when it comes to a wolf looking for a fox or hybrid, we have to be damn near perfect.
So, to have a roster, you need to change that mentality. Stop looking at an incomplete wolf as a construction project and instead look at him as just another piece to your puzzle.
Maybe wolf #1 has a great personality and decent pipe, but no drive or career goals.
Wolf #2 has a great career going, so he’s able to take you out and do recreational activities with you, but his sex game is disappointing.
Wolf #3 has crazy pipe game, but has no job and a personality about as interesting as a tadpole.
Well, separately, none of these wolves measure up. So typically, what we’d do is choose one and try to create him into the one we want. Either that or settle for what he gives.
What a wolf/hybrid with a roster does is take what each of these wolves are good at and use it to his advantage. Separately, they’re an incomplete puzzle. Together, they’re the perfect wolf.
I mean I get that part. Im not really looking for the total package of great career, stand up comic sense of humor, Greek philosopher, and a high roller. My thing is PHYSICALLY I don’t come across too many that I can ‘deal’ with. I’m not looking for perfection but based on what I’m bringing to the table the least you can do is be a 7. that’s what I mean by my standards being high. I have a hard time being intimate with someone I’m not attracted to because I can’t separate your penis from the rest of you. Hence I wonder if my standards are too high lol
I get this post but the other way round. About three years ago I met a fox that completely rocked my world!!! Man, in the words of Della Reese in ‘Harlem Nights’, – “that pussy was like sunshine”! I was hooked – line and sinker!!! I would have done anything, bought him anything, he was like my drug. I finally came down from the high after a couple of months, but what a fucking ride!!!!! I must have been doing something right, because he tried to contact me on a regular basis for a good month afterwards.
Do I regret it – hell no, I enjoyed every stroke and then some. He’s one of the few that during those private moments, I can think about and pop in seconds.
^is it different for Wolves is the question?
Because it seems Foxes and Hybrids get stuck on stupid faster than the aggressors.
Sorry, to me, it’s no different.
I think that when we find what we want – we’ll be stupid(er), because we get laser-focused on that, if that makes sense. So it may not happen as often, but when it does, we’ll lose our minds too
I done been pipematized aint go lie but didnt do no stupid stuff…well maybe one thing but it wasnt major.? My solution build up your will power so in case youdo get infected with this virus youll be able to get him out your system quickly, oh and if he does know how to please your body right, well run to the nearest convent and become a monk LMAO
Good sex is great but it’s not everything. What’s so hard about this life is the lonley feeling. If you haven’t experienced it you woul one day it feels like you can’t find anything out there that meets your standers. And to the ones that’s getting pipes down in a regular their gona cheat or move on real talk. Shii I just want somebody who I can cuddle with and lay my head on they cheat or vise versa
Good sex is not everything. This is true. But it’s necessary. I need someone that I can talk to about any and everything. Someone who likes to travel, shop, eat out, loves family, etc. Where the hell are these types? There is so much fronting now that it makes me sick.
These types are out there. Most are afraid to approach you while others are afraid to commit. They don’t want to invest the time and energy that’s required of them to keep you around. Or they’ve had one bad experience, got their heart broken, and subsequently said ‘fuck love.’ but they’re out there. You have to put yourself out there and approach the ones you think are cute and hope one sticks around.
@BBB yea there is a lot of fronting out there which ties into how I feel about Vains comment. Yes I know they are out there but there are so many fakers out there that it gets in my nerves. Honestly how many times have we meet someone who seemed like they were a good catch and come to find out they just a queen looking for sex themselves and after it was over its like they feel if the face if the earth?
I cosign on this one. So many say they want a relationship when in reality they are just looking for hook-ups. In some cases, the ones that say they are, are the worst ones.
^ “I want a relationship.”
Equals….
“A comfortable fuck buddy.”
I was thinking in terms of the 3-step action plan that was posted. I have went the celibate route several times because I didn’t find anyone who was worth sharing my body with, but at some point, I said that “I need this for me,” and had sex with someone. Have you ever reached this point? When you are celibate, do you restrict yourself from just penetration, or is everything off limits?
I’ve gotten to that point a few times and slept with or had some type of sexual contact with someone. But then when it’s over and I go home and think about it I realize it wasn’t really that serious. I remind myself that sex isn’t as important to me as intimacy is. I think because I can find sex and everything included so easily I don’t really view it as a necessity and hence don’t fiend for it. As crazy as it sounds to me It’s just sex. I need someone I can connect with mentally. I get off on the fact that a guy thinks I’m special and interesting and wants to spend time with me more than I do him thinking I’m sexy enough to sleep with. But don’t get my wrong, there is still a part of me that just wants to feel his weight on me. Lol
Lol it’s usually the ones that haven’t had any sex in a minute that fall the hardest though!
If you’re getting your pipes cleaned on the regular you’re not as susceptible.
i cosign with Random…im currently practicing #3
#3 better to be safe than sorry! This is coming from the virgin.
1) Deal with wolves who are just enough your type to pipe, but not enough to get emotionally attached to.
2) Have a reserve. Create a roster. That way when your star player is messing up, you have someone else always ready to step up to bat.
3) Be celibate.
I usually opt for #3.
#3 All the way!
Too many wack ones out there to be given it up too easily. The good ones are often no where to be found. I don’t know how foxes can have a roster? My standards are way too high.
Do you ever say to yourself, “Tonight, I am just going to live a little?” and try something different?
What do you mean BBB?
#3 is the best choice cause sex will get old and your gona find yourself at square 1 again.
Good dick is like love. It sneaks up on you and you can’t help how good it feels. Don’t fight it, unless the relationship is unhealthy for you. Live a little.