so you’ve been outed!
wow that sucks.
no seriously, thats fuckin’ sucks.
who did it?
when are we shooting them?
in this lifestyle,
there are many ways that you can be outed.
there is the messing with the messy.
this one i never understood especially when all the signs are usually there.
some queen (masc or fem) you fucked,
or fucked you,
decides to put all your bedroom biz out.
uploading your sex tape online or blab about it on some blog/message board.
there is the angry or nosy vixen way.
she gets mad and decides to go on attack mode with your sexuality.
her excuse is you were cheating with a man and the world needed to know.
could be true or could be that you ended it and she couldn’t handle the truth.
other vixens simply have no reason and just like to cause drama.
lastly there is the ex friend(s) you had to get rid of.
you started to see that you outgrown them.
they see that you are moving on so they pull you out the closet as revenge.
you didn’t clap back to provoke it.
some people are just way too spiteful and bitter.
whatever the reason,
being outed sucks and seems to be the new thing for this decade.
i often wondered how do people really handle being outed?
thoughts of mass murder?
as a celebrity or baller wolf,
they have a good team that can spin the story.
many of us aren’t celebs and can’t afford ( x these lovely people ).
i’m all for exposing someone who was doing evil,
passing along hiv and such,
but i had to wonder…
Why punish someone by outing the innocent?
i feel like if anyone outs someone that didn’t deserve it,
man or vixen,
they need to be punched in the face.
what does the outer really get?
it’s pretty pathetic when outing someone leads to popularity.
this virtual world we live in reminds me of high school.
everyone wants to be accepted by a bunch of strangers.
all over the united states and the world.
like attention whoring,
is one of the easiest ways to do that.
especially if it happens to be a celebrity or baller wolf.
what better way to try and gain new fans by saying you had fuckin’ you stupid:
if you notice with my blog,
i don’t condemn anyone who gets outed.
well unless proven to be an asshole.
i never shame or make them feel like they were the enemy.
how can i when i’m in the same boat?
i would never use my platform to personally out anyone either.
if i mess with anyone due to this site,
i may talk about the logistics of the sex or the issues,
but it won’t be obvious.
i’d also ask if i could write about it and send rough drafts.
i know what i’m doing.
i don’t want to be known forbad behavior.
JAMARI FOX OUTS BALLER WOLF!
PUTS SEX TAPE UP!
NOW LETS READ HIS SHIT BECAUSE HE COOL NOW…
the thing is with that,
all the great shit i write would be for nothing.
people will only be looking forward for the next person i out.
vixens will only be my friend because i have a big mouth.
the messy gays will love me because i was bold enough to it.
don’t even get me started on the potential great meat that wouldn’t look at me twice.
yeah completely NOT interested.
the new “in” thing.
we always look at the person who outs someone,
but we never really pay attention to whats happening to the outed.
its not like it was revealed they like to dress up in a diaper and be spanked.
it’s more emotional.
people stay in the closet because they are scared.
“he needs to come out so he could live more freely,” says the vixen.
is that really true?
again are we looking at a virtual world or real life perspective?
some people will be treated differently at work,
and even family and can’t handle that.
when that person is shunned,
can they come live at your house and be your friend?
its my same stance on abortion haters.
are you going to help take care of that fuckin baby?
then shut the fuck up.
not everyone is meant to take the starring role as “the out”.
i feel someone may have to get murdered for outing someone for people to chill.
so i had to ask you.
reading this right now…