“There are people who are scared to speak to you again.
They know they treated you bad,
but you def have glo’d up and doing your thing now.
That can be intimidating to people.” – The Pretty Vixen
it’s similar to when we have an ex/ex-friend we know we fucked up with.
we see them looking good after us,
living their best life,
and we want to contact but we are scared too.
it’s the same with past friends/people who did us wrong.
kenya moore and vivica a. fox had beef after “the apprentice” in 2015.
you’d think they would never speak again.
kenya went on vivica’s show,
“cocktails with queens“,
and this is how it went down today…
i realllllllly liked this.
kudos to them.
you can tell kenya has matured since she had her daughter.
vivica always strikes me as a strong but forgiving person.
ill allow it.
I don’t want to live my life being bitter with people.
there are some people who broke me that ill never speak to again.
i will always be cordial but thats where it goes.
if i feel you aren’t a good person,
i won’t be speaking to you again.
i know exactly who they are and they are banished.
they hurt me to the core and treated me like trash.
those who knew me and knew what they were doing get no second chances.
there are others tho,
that we had a falling out,
that i have no issue recconnecting with.
the situation was silly and probably ended due to miscommunication.
people grow and change.
some of us have done the same.
therapy has helped me see things differently.
Only you know what you are willing to forgive with others.
i can be down for a conversation.
ill know by the energy if i’m willing to forgive and reset.
lowkey: there was someone i’ve had a conversation with recently.
it felt good to reconnect back with them tbh.