when we live our lives in secret,
and we are outed,
i feel like it’s the Universe putting us to the test.
Do we take our own lives?
Do we pretend it never happened?
Do we deny, deny, deny?
our answers depend on our personal strength levels.
we know life is going to change,
whether we like it or not.
pastor dwayne dawkins,
who was ( x famously outed on someone’s ig ),
has emerged from the shadows.
he went on larry reid live to discuss the aftermath of the outing…
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He wanted to take his own life
He chose to stay for his sons
He was banished from his church and circle
He teaches and does side hustles
like any other males in this predicament,
dwayne was never gonna be truly happy married to a vixen.
it is cute for the first couple of years but once that itch starts…
i know church males who are with vixens and sneak around with males.
its the nature of that environment or what i like to say:
“What they are supposed to do.”
the biggest take is he decided to keep on living.
regardless of how the outcome ended,
there is always a new beginning taking shape.
he doesn’t have to hide his phone,
figure out creative ways to “leave” at certain times,
and he can release his sexual desires without feeling shame.
if people leave our lives because we have to live our truths…
Do we really need iffy people in our lives anyway?
i want soldiers who are gonna stand by my side.
i don’t need weak bitches.
kudos to the new pastor dwayne dawkins.
lowkey: the jackal who outed him is still trash tho.
he needs to be brought forth for foxhole punishment.