one of my favorite tv couples is randall and beth from “this is us“.
i’d love to be the “beth” to someone’s “randall”.
so they both have this game they play called “worst case scenario“.
it’s where they say the worst cases of a situation and the fears they have about it.
it is a judgement free zone where you say whatever on your mind,
no matter how stupid,
or crazy it may sound.
for this new season,
i watched an episode today where they got their kids into it:
i tried the same game out with a recent situation i found myself in…
this goes out to all the:
or anyone in any kind of “leadership” situation.
WE DON’T NEED TO BE MICRO-MANAGED
get that micro-managing shit outta here.
i’ll never forget the day i walked into a job and it was so uncomfortable.
it was on some serious high school shit.
it happened 3 years ago and i learned quick that it’s easy for folks to switch up.
all it took was the words of one person to change many opinions.
it got so bad that someone wanted to fight me too.
some of these folks i stood up for too.
All it took was one person
this is what can happen with coworkers…
i heard a quote the other day that really stuck with me.
it might be negative,
but i will bring it around to something positive.
so the quote went:
“Life is suffering.”
the origin of said quote is unknown,
but from research,
it may or may not have come from buddha.
life might have it’s moments of suckage,
but that suffering is actually good for you.
when i look back at my own suffering…
if you look closely,
you’ll always find a lesson in something.
my job teaches me so much of not WHAT to do.
they love to drive folks crazy putting out fires that ain’t even happen yet.
i’m learning what it means to be uptight and high-strung.
i’ve noticed my mood has been all outta wack because of my frustration.
it has made me become pessimistic and angry all the fuckin’ time.
they remind me of how “putting out potential fires” my late mother was.
my mother was notorious for worrying about shit that ain’t happen.
i worked really hard to get outta that mentality and my boss is like that.
I don’t fuck with that at all
i’m on this new path to being more laid back and chill about shit.
so i caught myself being nervous and putting out a fire about bugs…
i love reading stuff about the powers that is The Universe.
i’m more spiritual over being religious these days.
don’t get me wrong,
i’ll still go to church,
but i don’t get obsessed about God like others do.
i feel like being religious doesn’t allow you to make mistakes.
i’m an imperfect fox and i fuck up a majority of the time.
i don’t want to run to the altar for everything i do.
the “new age” foxhole always keeps me update with the latest universal news.
well a foxholer sent me the following…