“hoe-mones” are a big fucking problem.
those who aren’t getting it like rabbits in spring are horny as hell.
no, you aren’t weird.
the world is just a dangerous place.
plus, we want a steady fuck buddy/relationship these days.
not, “yet another new tag on our walls tonight“ lifestyle.
when you get tired of meeting the same ol same ol,
you become celibate.
you hope that as you live your life masturbating quite frequently,
you will meet someone that will finally give you a regular smash session.
but, what happens when your “hoe-mones” take over and cloud your judgement?
it doesn’t allow you to take it slow?
and, is it the cause of insecurities we may have when we meet someone new?
i started to wonder…
Do you have too much sex on the brain?
i will admit that if i start dealing with a wolf,
and he doesn’t want me sexually off the bat,
it actually threw me off.
i guess i’ve been trained to expect every wolf who wants me to flirt with me and show he is interested.
the wolves i’ve dealt with wanted to bone me when they first talked to me.
i think i have the word “hoe” and “moan” on my forehead.
they would take it slow for a little while,
and then the sex talk would start full tilt boogie.
sometimes, i initiated it.
before you know it,
we were sexting and phone boning before we actually fucked.
sometimes all three at the same time!
i can multi-task.
someone i know refereed his associate to me recently.
he needed advice on something dealing with the industry.
the storm has me sheltered for right now so i said, “why not?“.
when i got the resume with pictures,
i found out it is a wolf that i have had a crush on for a while.
he was a wolf that has been tumblr re-blogged many times.
i even featured him on my site at one point.
he took my information and we started speaking about business stuff.
the convo then took a turn to other subjects like music and his life story.
i could tell there was a little interest.
we were on the phone for two hours.
what threw me off is we actually had a decent conversation without sex.
my crush turned out to have a brain, goals, and a point of fucking view…
…and that turned me the fuck ON HEAAAVVVVYYYYYY.
i was interested,
but i don’t want to jump to conclusions too early.
he said he would hit me up again because i was cool and funny so we will see.
i’m not getting my hopes up, but i do hope it happens.
meeting a wolf who actually wants to take it slow is surprising.
i won’t lie and say that sometimes,
i’m not in the mood to talk about sex.
most of the time, i like it done on my watch.
(that’s the control freak in me)
but, i feel the pre-screen of the lifestyle is sex talk immediately.
have you ever texted some of these wolves?
lowkey: i wonder if that same wolf i crushed on would act the same way if i randomly met him on a social site?
since some of these wolves like to play “the female” and want to be catered too,
it can be hard to decipher the signs.
only to be told that:
“well, i wanted to take it slow but you wanted the dick.”
“we fucked on the first night so what did you expect?”
or my favorite:
(that’s because you let him beat it up and now he is off to the next)
look we all want sex.
but, some of us want to be taken seriously after.
we want to be in your life even if sex doesn’t happen again.
but in a lifestyle built on dick and ass,
some of us jump in head first.
have we been trained to look at each other as sex objects only?
shit, do we look at everyone as a potential sex object?
what happened to using our brains without giving brain?
how do you stop your “hoe”mones” from raging enough to just talk?
i had to ask…
Does everything always have to start with DTF (down to fuck)?
- I Don’t Want To Be A Hoe Anymore… But Everyone Else Still Does. (insidejamarifox.com)
- Monstrous Balls (insidejamarifox.com)
- Metrell Hurst Takes My Foxhole Interview Virginity (insidejamarifox.com)
- foxmail: Why Do These Wolves Want To Tear Our Asses Up And Throw Us To The Side? Huh? Why? (insidejamarifox.com)