f0xmail: How Can I Puff On His Pipe And Get Higher Than The Sky?


Hey Jamari!

Hope all is well. I wrote you about a month ago asking how to score a wolf in the city. Well there was a prospect, army guy, but it completly took me by surprise and fell through the roof. This is a guy who I’ve went to H.S school with for three years. I NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS thought of him as gay, bi. Non of that. I thought he was as straight as you could get. Little did I know he was interested in me and hit me up telling me he liked me and respected me, and basically was givinng me hints without saying HE WANTED TO FUCK! So I invite him over my crib but his dad reads his messgaes and HE’S OUTTED. I didn’t out him he outted himself. But I wasn’t that interested in him anyways. He was too little for me! Lol with that being said, I am still on the prowl searching for the right guy.

So Jamari this is where YOU come in.I’ve know this other wolf for four years now. We went to H.S together as well. He’s always been on my gaydar, I’ve just always seen something feminine about him. We’ve always been cool, and when it’s just me and him, he is a good friend. But when we were our other friends (especially guys) he would tease me about my voice and my weight and things of that sort. But I know he didnt mean them even though sometimes his words bothered me. So with that being said, when people weren’t looking he would squeeze my butt. And do alot of sexual things to me. But he “plays gays” alot and I still thought he was straight, so it made me hesitant to approach him.

So long story short, he sells weed, and I told him last week I coming through to his crib and we going to smoke. I’m buying it for us to smoke, something I don’t normally do. We’ve been texting through out the week on which day were going to do it and finally decided on Wednesday. So my question(s) to you is:

-How do I get him to know, I’m down to fuck?

-Do you think he’s expecting me to give him some ass?
-And how do I seduce him (let him know I want him) without looking OBVIOUS or anxious, or looking like the stupid gay guy in the end?

He fucks a lot of girls so Idk if if he’s a straight wolf/dl/bi or whatever, but I want to officially find out on Wednesday. What should I do? What should I wear?


Thanks and Love you.


well i love you too…
and yikes on the wolf getting outed!
not good!

what is the first thing a wolf may ask you on a chat site?

“yo can i come thru to smoke?”

which also means:

“i’m trying to fuck you after that blunt.”

you took the intuitive to get the weed aka go after what you want.
that usual means, DTF since you have been persistent.
so wear something very casual
(basketball shorts, t shirt, and sneakers).
set up the session close to booty call hour (1130pm).
since there is no solid confirm,
do not come off obvious or extra.
go there as a friend looking to smoke and “catch up“.
but, you need to take subtle control especially after you both get high.
his defenses should be down so everything should be flawless in execution.

keep your gaze with him a little longer.
compliment him and tell how much you value his friendship.
even share a secret with him to help him open up.
ask him questions…
and if all else fails,
ask him about the last female (or any female) he messed with recently.
if his body language is open,
do a longer than usual touch of the hand.
but only do this IF you feel he is open.
do not pass “GO” if he doesn’t look comfortable.
you know when someone looks like they aren’t into it.

if something doesn’t happen this go round,
don’t blame yourself.
he could be straight OR just wasn’t ready.

if he is down to smoke again,
set up another date.
if it doesn’t go down for round 2,
label him a tease and be off that.

i’m sure the comments will be helpful.
good luck!

lowkey: don’t get too high and forget what we said!

Author: jamari fox

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6 thoughts on “f0xmail: How Can I Puff On His Pipe And Get Higher Than The Sky?”

  1. Yo man he’s gonna tear you up. LOL I have a strong feeling he’s planning on getting you as just as much as your planning on getting him. As soon as he’s around you for 5 minutes you should know what’s good with him since the two of you will be alone, and definitely share a secret or two with him to loosen him up. Good Luck.

    S/N: Can I ask you guys something. Is it just me or is everybody gay nowdays? LOL In three weeks I’ve found out that two friends of mine were down just by flirting with them through texts. That shit is insane. It’s more of us out there than what we think.

  2. Um I don’t know if I condone this advice, but based on the questions asked Jamari did a great job. The issue I have is that my values don’t allow me to tell a seemingly young man how to get laid. I’d rather advise a young person on how to find love and a lasting relationship. Love you much Jamari! Keep the thought provoking posts coming!!!

  3. All I’ll add is make sure you don’t want more than the dick (and weed) from him, cuz once you go down this road, he’ll likely just she you as sex…maybe you’ll get to friends w/benefits or fvck-buddies, but don’t expect a relationship. This ain’t B-Boy Blues lol

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