They say judge and yee shall be also judged.
I am starting to believe that phrase was started by someone
who was talked about and could not handle the heat.
Do people really believe they will go through life,
just by not judging someone else?
That is a foolish way to think.
But, can you be someone who does stupid things and expect people to be okay with it?
Are some people just prone to forever being foolish?
I have a Vixen who confuses me when it comes to her love life.
She recently was in a very toxic relationship and wanted to be alone after.
I gave her advice after advice while in the situation because her spirit was broke.
She met a dude and within two months, she decided to play “shack up” and move to a whole new city with him.
He turned out to be a straight ASSHOLE and kicked her out his home with no remorse.
She ended up coming back up North within 5 months vowing NEVER to be in another relationship.
Well, until she got her mind right.
Well, lets introduce her ex who was a bigger asshole to her.
This is the ex who took her kindness for weakness and dragged her through the coals.
He admitted in their break up that the only reason he was with her was because of the pussy.
She would try to motivate him to do better, but he would continue to dog her.
She would be spending her money on him and his daughter while she was left feeling empty.
She broke up with him not once BUT twice…
Well, she admitted to me that she was back with that same Ex-Asshole again last night.
This same Ex-Asshole started apologizing about how he had fucked up a good thing.
He also realized that she was also good woman to him.
She told Ex-Asshole saying that they could start off being cool and go from there….
As you already know, I think it is a bad idea…
I completely judged her because of everything she told me during her “I want to be alone” dream speech.
But I had to ask myself, “Is it because I do not know her situation that I am judging her?”
Maybe the ex had a change of heart and is a brand new person with a new attitude.
Sometimes giving someone a chance to start over because they do not know what they have until it is gone.
It made me wonder about love and the assholes we find ourselves loving.
Are there simply people that we will never be able to get out of our lives?
Are we hooked on them because of sex, attention, or even financial gains?
And why do we go backwards when we have every chance to go forward and try something new?
Is it comfort?
Or is loneliness?
There have been a few Wolves that I cut out my life due to them treating me bad,
but I find myself texting them during my horniest seasons
(since they were good play toys and I had no one else).
And when the session is done, I am back to my regularly scheduled program.
But, I may meet a Wolf who will turn out to be my own personal “Ex-Asshole“.
When it comes to other people and their mistakes…