THIS is Fox Talk ONLY.
You ever look in the mirror and cringed when you saw yourself?
You thought you were ugly or just a monster (and not Kanye)?
You could not understand why someone like you was single?
I hear a lot of my Foxes out there saying they are ugly.
ALOT of Foxes have very low self-esteem even though they have the brightest fur.
Well this is for you…
I have said it before and I’ll say it again,
I USE TO THINK I WAS UGLY.
I use to ask people to reassure me I was cute, attractive, fine, whatever.
Why did I think so?
Growing up in a “loveless” family was one.
Another was because I didn’t have dude’s blatantly hitting on me.
As stupid as it sounded, I was under the impression…
… that dudes will hit on you in public like they do females if you are BAD.
You know what…
Lemme rap to you real quick on something I learned…
Unless you are in a HIGHLY popularized gay area,
or you are just that open, a man will probably hit on you blatantly or on the low.
If you masculine or pretty much a “?”,
he will be thinking about it but the biggest thing is FEAR.
Question: Why aren’t YOU hitting on every man you think gets down in public?
No man wants to hit on another man and be wrong.
Not only is he outed if he is wrong, but a mans biggest fear is rejection.
All these tough talking Wolves online and on these social sites will have you thinking opposite.
You see what THEY want you to see.
Good looking dudes are equally as intimidating because we get branded as STUCK UP.
So, it’s not that you are ugly.
You are just fine.
You DO NOT know who was looking at you and was wondering how they could get to you.
Out of all the dudes that passed by you today,
even though they weren’t obvious about it,
admired SOMETHING about you.
That is unless you just look swaggerless then you are outta luck.
and this is realistic talk,
a majority of men not paying attention to you are STRAIGHT.
I know – sucks right?
Your Wolf is out there and he will definitely show face when he needs too.
As of right now, this is your homework.
Every morning when you get up,
when you are looking in the mirror,
I want you to say out loud…
I AM THAT NIGGA.
… start envisioning that you are THAT NIGGA.
Who do you admire – man or woman?
Imagine what it would be like to be THEM (the things you admire about them).
You are THAT NIGGA.
Sexy, fine, funny, popular – everything you should be.
Keeping saying it in your mind WHILE you look at all your good qualities.
You also need to acknowledge your bad qualities and things you do not like about yourself, so you are aware those are your weak points.
Love your weak points because they make you unique.
That crooked nose, those big lips, or even those not so straight teeth.
LOVE IT ALL.
Keep that thought with you everyday
and as you thinketh, you will be-eth.
the most beautiful woman in the world,
thought she was ugly.
you will be JUST fine… literally.