the meme i saw with ^that picture was:

“if a vixen ever look at you like this,
just know she disgusted and glad U not her man.”

i think more Foxholers need to look at attentionistos like this.
one of my fav responses to another male that’s talkin’ nonsense:

“what are you even talmbout sir?!”

…and i’m say it in a joking way but i’m dead serious.
if i’m fonting,
i’ll add “lol” or the laughing emoji for good measure.

i love is verbal sparring.

not in the “real housewives of hip-hop” way,
although that has it’s place,
but when we are talking/fonting to other males.
there is something so sexy about being quick witted and lowkey flirtatious.
it is a skill that we have but i think many of us need to get out of our heads.
i watched the interview with cam newton and rapping vixen,
lady london…

i’m into her and her energy
you could tell he was attracted to her
he met her at her level and understood she was NOT the one
she was reading him and he couldn’t even tell

some of us lack the confidence in areas like this.
personally,
having good communication and verbals skills is important.
i feel like others are genuinely intrigued by those who know how to speak/flirt.

the part where he said,
“that’s an adjective” or something.
the look on her face was like,
“ooooh, heard”.
later on in the conversation,
she said something and then followed up with,
“that’s a noun btw”.

that is the type of shit that gets me going!
i’m not fonting that we have to be like lady london but:

i believe we all have our own way of speaking/flirting

….but sometimes,
it’s our trauma and insecurities that hold us back.

lowkey: another one for team cancer.