gay men will always be used as a vixen’s life support.
she befriends him and realizes he is everything she would want in a “friend”.
he is almost like secret deodorant.
“strong enough for a man, but made for a woman.”
because of this,
she depends on him for everything.
she knows that she can’t trust another hoe with her business.
why not trust my hairdresser/stylist/man problem solver?
i was on tumblr yesterday.
reblogging and looking at the people i follow,
when i saw a headline that made me do the “screw face”..
“BRING YOUR BEST GAY PARTY”
that was the title.
the person who tumbl’d it was pissed.
immediately i was curious,
but i kinda had a feeling deep down inside what it meant.
judging from the reaction that was met with the replies,
i could say my gut feeling was right.
i was actually shocked to see people be pissed about it.
BRING YOUR BEST GAY PARTY…
a party designed for vixens to bring their “stylin’ on these queens” gay friend.
sort of like to show him off among everyone else.
she would say:
“my gay best friend is better than yours! nah nahhhhhh!”
he would reply:
“yessss diva bitch!”
…or some other word infront of “bitch” to describe how fabulous she is.
i’m sure it would be his job to fix her hair and dress for the party also.
that event seems like one big catty mess,
i can see the side eyes and neck rolls now.
this coming from the vixens.
put that together with their gay friends….
it may cause an electric current within the atmosphere.
it almost reminded me of “the help“.
instead of white women parading around their maids,
making them clean up their shit and tend to the chirren,
it was vixen’s using gays are a fashion accessory or a toy.
bad enough these gays get seduced by all this female friendliness.
usually by a female who can buy cute shit and lives “that life”.
he starts using his “powers” for evil.
he suddenly can’t hold water because she just has to look at him and he spills.
she points him in the direction of a wolf/hybrid/or fox like a gay metal detector.
(you ever notice ever vixen has good “gaydar”????
yet her man is usually gay as hell.)
she needs fashion or hair advice and suddenly,
he is dr. phil miracles.
what does he get in return?
the chance to say:
“mmhmm yeah i styled her! she looks so crutes biiiitttcchhh!”
i know a ton of vixens,
but i keep them at bay.
what other good looking guy will actually listen to their whiny asses?
i treat them,
and everyone else,
like a human.
you got a problem,
then my shoulder is at your service.
i don’t need to “heyyyyy gurllll” and all that bullshit to be liked.
vixens have a habit of learning the hard way about these same “best gays”.
as soon as she turns her back,
he is coming on here asking me if he should fuck her wolf.
remember all that business he was tellin’ about others?
suddenly her business is the hot topic of discussion.
see the issue with them is they all attract the same type of “gay”.
the scandalous one aka the jackal or the hyena.
or is she one too?
like attracts like.
she is also quick to do the same triflin’ shit.
i bet you once that same jackal realizes her boyfriend wants to fuck HIM,
or the dude she is crushin’ on happens to like HIM,
it’s a whole other ball game.
i have seen many vixens call these same friends a “faggot” when things go sour.
all his business,
who he fucked,
all his DL connects out in the streets…
too much work.
look if that’s how you roll,
being the accessory,
then do you.
as for me,
don’t put me in that category.