one of my straight home wolves said an ignorant statement about gays.
“…in gay relationships,
you know there is the boy and the girl…”
i was like “what?” and he started to apologize profusely.
we have a mutual gay friend who gets offended about everything.
he thought i’d be the same.
i hit him with the…
I don’t care but…”
…and then let him know its two males,
regardless of submission or dominance.
there is no “girl” because no one has a pussy and can get pregnant.
i don’t want to be someone folks have to watch what they say around.
if i feel someone is being ignorant,
i’ll check them on it.
98% of things literally slide off my back because i’ve learned people can be ignorant.
it could be because:
Being talked about so viciously while minding my business
Battling some of the biggest bitches (male and female) in my journey through the forests
Growing up around Karaoke who taught me how to not take myself so seriously
i can be ignorant to a majority of things.
everyone is/was all upset over aunt viv (a fox) and lisa raye about what they said on “fox soul“.
it was about andrew gillum and bisexual males…
they came off ignorant af,
but if people so offended about what they said:
“Don’t watch the show again.”
if what they said was that bothersome,
banish them to another dimension and move on to those who are more your speed.
it’s fucked up they think they need to out someone to “get the truth”,
but i don’t know what they’ve dealt with in regards to bisexual/gay males.
they could have fallen for someone and he was sleeping with males without telling them.
lisa admitted she was dating someone who was allegedly bi and she heard the rumors.
most folks ignorance usually comes from isolated issue(s) on their journeys.
claudia jordan and syleena johnson were more objective about the issue.
Look at the sources.
i’m not gonna have a temper tantrum because of two ghetto ass divas.
they’re both speaking their truth,
but that doesn’t mean i have to agree nor care to agree.
and no offense to them,
but i don’t keep up with them enough to banish them.
when i’m offended over something/someone,
i usually don’t watch/look/support it again.
i’ll give my opinion and then they’re sent off to the pits of hell.
it keeps me sane and blocks ignorance from my vortex.
the sensitive folks might need to adopt that same attitude.
low-key: when you realize that not everyone is gonna like you,
it kinda gives you a peace.
not everyone is gonna like or tolerate gay or bi folks.
there are other gay and bi folks who don’t like other gay or bi folks.
making them apologize doesn’t mean they changed their ways.
i choose not to fuck with them.