i need consistency to bloom.
it’s something i crave.
it turns me on when a wolf that’s into me is consistent.
i’m meeting way too many males who are strange af.
how are we doing it folks?
you meet a dude,
either in real life or online…
you’re diggin’ him,
he appears to be diggin’ you,
all this attention is shown early in the beginning,
you could feel yourself handing him in the draws and then…
he goes and fucks shit up.
he either ghosts,
acts emotionally unavailable,
or pops up in some other relationship.
it’s like wtf?
it was all good when he was trying to get my attention,
but then boom,
i gotta start putting on track shoes for consistency and dick.
it don’t even be the type of wolves i throw up on the ig foxhole either.
most of the time it’s regula degulas who some bimbo(s) gassed up.
maybe i’m doing it wrong?
when someone is interested in me,
i try to show them in ways they got the green light.
i’m consistent with mine.
i show the fuck up to say:
I like and I want you!
It seems you are feeling the same.
Let’s pow wow real quick…”
it’s always some asshole whose love language is that of “fuck boi”.
i like feeling wanted.
i like texting him just to see how his day is going.
i like when he texts me to ask the same.
i love when we fucked and he is still trying to be in my radar.
it doesn’t have to be OD,
What happened to making someone feel like they special?
males can make other males feel like they special.
it’s okay to show feelings and emotions fellas.
our world is a private and safe space.
making someone feel like you SEE them.
no one wants to be like “huh?” by someone they think is attracted to them.
lowkey: what’s worst is when you ask questions,
they act like you doing too much.
lets throw all the millennial males away and start a new batch please.