i’m not gonna lie,
but dating really sucks these days.
often times,
i get stuck in thinking it works better for the straights.
well most of my straight vixen friends are:

single af
in “situationships“
trapped in whole fwb dead end

my one lesbian bff i know just got engaged tho.
other than that…

The straight wolves I know are thriving tho

pussy by the pound,
plenty of options,
and getting into full blown relationships (many are terrible at them).
i know some who are doing all three.
from gay to straight males…

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so i’ll be honest with you foxhole…

I completely forgot about Derrick Gordon

 you guys kept sending me this story,
but i was like “who?“.
it wasn’t until i realized that i wrote about him a long time ago.
he was the first pre-baller basketball wolf to come out.
during his coming out phase,
he decided to debut that he was dating an older white male:

…and that was the end of that.
matter fact,
all those black gay athletes who weren’t dating within their race are all mia.
in 2019,
derrick has a youtube channel called “derrick gordon“.
in a recent episode,
he had darren young as a special guest.
another one i wrote and forgot about.
darren is the first openly gay wrestler in the wwe.
this was his boyfriend cc: “people“:

they decided to defend their past dating choices and well…

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ellen.
oprah.
lil nas x has everyone under his spell.
i’m not mad at him.
he’s making moves most could have done/do.
i admire how he handles his social media presence too.
it’s chocked full of personality goodness.
you get a sense that’s “him“,
ya know?
well everyone wants to know who he’s dating.
with this new found fame also brings new found meat too.
you’re in the right circles to date whoever you please.
he “somewhat” addressed it on “ellen” today…

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i think lori harvey is one of the most beautiful of attentionistas.
i think her facial is perfect.
i’d imagine many wolves are hounding down her dms.
she could have anyone.

baller wolves
ceos
stock brokers

…but it seems one has allegedly caught her fancy.
“the shade room” posted who…

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so don lemon got engaged over the weekend.
he posted this on his ig for his engagement:

i mean,
that’s just fuckin’ “kick you in the crotch” fantastic.

as much as folks will carry on about it being “interracial”:

How many of us were checking for Don?

*crickets*
exactly.
it leaves us to wonder:

When will it be our turn?

doesn’t it suck major donkey balls when…
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it’s hard to date in the gay forests.
so many rules and regulations.
you’ll meet someone great,
but he isn’t your type or vice versa.
everyone is fighting for the last piece of masculine meat they find.
you’ll meet someone fine af,
but he just wants to fuck your brains out.
you’ll meet someone,
the vibe is poppin‘,
and then be hit with:

“I’m not looking for anything serious.”

oh,
you’ll stop once you catch a serious sexually transmitted disease?
noted.
for most of us,
it’s hard to date in the black gay community.
in my past hunting sessions,
some black wolves are pure and utter trash.
don lemon learned that and shared his insight on “red table talk”,
with jada pinkett smith,
willow smith,
and mama adrienne.
this is what he had to share…
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