dating

the bold and the beautiful: sheree whitfield and matrell holt debut their love

you know how i know someone is infamous?
when i write something about them and ya’ll blow up my box.
love and marriage: huntsville,
matrell holt,
is one of those wolves.
word on the foxvine is matrell has really good pipe.
he has quite the dick resume with the vixens.
allegedly.
i got the story he has a blackbelt in blowin’ backs out.
is this why sheree has enrolled in his classes?
per tmz…

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stop dating while lonely with low self-esteem

when you reach a level of success,
whatever that looks like for you,
i feel you have to be very picky with who you let in your life.
i’m all for using the good lookin’ blow doll for a good time.

that is what they’re there for.

I have always had a problem with dating while lonely with low self-esteem.

once you had made something of yourself,
you shouldn’t be fuckin’ with low-hanging fruit because it’s easier.
think of it as a power dynamic…

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MY GREATEST SKILL WAS BEING “THE IDIOT” ON MY DATING RESUME

i’ve had many jobs in my life.

Therapist
Social Worker
Stylist
Personal Assistant
Driver
Prostitution Whore
Trash Collector

…but the one job that i never did successfully was to be “me“.
i know you are wondering what i’m fonting about.
i have been all of those things to males that i really wanted to be with.
i saw one i took a liking to,
or realized that he was attracted to me,
and…

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SO WE KEEP THIS KIND OF MALE HIDDEN FROM THE PUBLIC OR…?

let’s say i’m out and about,
minding my business,
and manz comes up to me and starts kickin’ his interest my way.
it could be in the streets,
at an event,
or in dms.
he is my type and i’m hella interested.
he takes me out and i end up really feeling this dude.

He ain’t NOTHING I’ve ever kicked it with before.

we go on more dates,
conversations are dope,
my interest intensifies and we finally have sex.

SEX IS MIND-BLOWING

…and,
AND,
the mofo calls and wants to see me again.
so i’m open in all ways but he looks like this…
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I THINK SOME PEOPLE WHO DATE OUTSIDE THEIR RACE ARE SUFFERING FROM TRAUMA

when i first got to this country,
i was picked on pretty badly at my first school.
my mother enrolled me in a private catholic school.
she thought it would be better than being at a public school.

BOY WAS SHE WRONG.

i was jumped,
spit on,
and beat up for simply existing.
i was called rubber lips and made fun of for my features,
which made me hate my lips and my nose.
don’t even get me started on being called a sissy.
i wasn’t picked on for being “white”,
but i was different than my other classmates.
my accent was pretty thick and i cried easily.
even though it was a majority white school…

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eddie winslow is trending for another hyped lie by sidney starr?

who is the real ^dork in this picture?
i’ll give you a hint.
it certainly isn’t steve urkel these days.
i feel like the only time i hear about eddie winslow aka darius mccrary is who he is smashing.
i’m like do you do fan meet-ups or anything?
sheesh.
there were claims he was an alleged power couple with trans she-jackal,
sidney starr,
but,
according to “the shade room“…

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