This is a bit off point but can I just say every bottom is wasting their time trying to bag a (baller) wolf. Sorry Jamari, I doubt you’ll ever meet the baller wolf of ur dreams to sweep u off ur feet.
This is simply because as men we can NEVER compete with the attraction value a woman has when it comes to pulling a man. have u ever seen a baller with an ugly woman? I think not.
Also, Wolves have the better end of the deal in this gay business cos they get easy pickings and they also get to do the yummy banging.
My solution (Which isn’t a solution really, more like a suggestion which isn’t even foolproof) is two fold-
Either we train ourselves to become straight, or we become tops(or versatile) or just become celibate all together.
That was 3 options but u get my general drift.
Anyway, I love ur blog Jamari. Until u get me concrete evidence (of course i use the term evidence loosely, only because i’ll have to be taking your word for it:p) of a normal fox who has bagged a baller wolf, then I believe us bottoms are doomed to be alone.
Remember when people told you that you couldn’t do something?
Whether it was going to school for a higher education or buying something you couldn’t afford.
You could have been trying getting out of the hood and moving to a better neighborhood.
Do you remember they brought up stats and other things to discourage you?
They even compared you to other people that failed? or people who were more qualified?
How did that make you feel?
If it made you feel like shit and you gave up… well this isn’t the entry for you.
I don’t fuck with losers.
But, if it made you feel powerful and make you want to prove everyone wrong,
then THIS is definitely for you…
I am not going to become a Wolf or a Hybrid.
I am not going to become celibate.
I will meet a Baller Wolf(s) in my journey AND THEY WILL CHASE ME.
I also WILL NOT compare myself to a piece of pussy.
EVERYONE IS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO LOVE THEM.
Sistas and Wolves.
We are too busy comparing ourselves to sistas…
who are compare themselves to exotic looking and Spanish Vixens.
Wolves are comparing themselves to each other and straight Wolves.
I’m tired of hearing I can’t DO something.
I am tired of watching Wolves get what they want and I have to hope and pray I meet one.
I am also tired of Foxes feeling like they will never be happy in love.
Listen to this song…
(better yet, listen to the whole album. Very inspiring…)
God has me alone for a reason.
Like you, I am not ready.
Maybe I need to strengthen my confidence…
…or maybe I may meet the man of my dreams and become his doormat.
Maybe I need to inspire a whole colony so I can be YOUR example.
God has already showed me if I stay patient with other things, I can achieve what I want.
God has already given me more than I deserve and I am always thankful.
Some of you need to be grateful.
I believe that I am going to get swept off my feet by someone great.
He may not be Devin Thomas, Adrian Peterson, or Victor Cruz,
or he may just be,
but he will:
Have a lot more money
Have better pipe
and worship the ground I walk on.
Try a little faith.
Now… don’t let me hear YOU or any of you think like this again.
You don’t want to see me pissed off.
I love you.
I’m not God so I cannot tell you WHEN you will meet someone.
But, like that Mary J song above:
In each tear there’s a lesson,
(there’s a lesson)
Makes you wiser than before
Makes you stronger than you know
In each tear
Brings you closer to your dreams
Can take away what you’re meant to be…
You got to fight harder than this Foxes.