You’re Dark Skinned So I’m Not Even Interested In You.

i caught up with a sista friend yesterday.
when we talk,
it is always a deep conversation about life.
my favorite!
the topic was black people.
we got onto the subject of skin color.
she said that if beyonce was as dark as her,
she would not have nearly the amount of success that she has.
“i kinda agree”.
she also pondered why these sistas in the industry always dye their hair blonde?
i often wondered myself because many of them looking stunning with darker hair.
before we hung up,
she said i should thank my parents i am able to “pass“.
“life is not to kind to dark berries,” she said.
that part left me confused…

… but i got it.
i wanted to say it hasn’t got me a job,
but whatever.
i started to wonder if the lighter the skin,
the more open the magic door of acceptance?
would life,
according to her,
be amazing if you “pass“?…

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Reading constructive criticism can be hard.

We all want to be right or even live life feeling we are right.
But, when someone comes thru and forces you to see a difference in your opinion or even change it,
it can be a real downer and make your life a sad place.

Well a recent Fox wrote a comment to me under:

“Yo Straight Gay Wolf, Do Wanna Be My Manz? PAUSE and NO HOMO.”

and …
well …

Here it is..

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