They say when something comes easier,
you do not appreciate it.
You know, those things that we get in life that came easily.
You notice that when something is easy and free,
it does not have the same luster as something you had to pay or work hard for?
People have lost things faster than when they put blood, sweat, and tears into it.
People who win the lottery or who get fame when they already had it are perfect examples.
Drake and Rihanna are also the PERFECT muses for this entry.
But when it comes to this lifestyle and finding a Wolf in this giant Forest:
When the Wolf is too easy, are we easily turned off?
Do Foxes secretly like a challenge?
Foxes do not like an easy Wolf.
Foxes also do not like a hard Wolf to crack.
I know for me, I like that nice balance.
He shows me interest, but knows to leave me alone.
He calls and texts, but he doesn’t do it for 2 weeks.
We both equally chase each other and the chemistry is just right.
No sitting around mentally forcing him to text/call (I know ya’ll done that lol)
He does it at the right time. We love that shit.
But when a Wolf is too easy, we associate it with something being wrong.
Either he is too eager, too boring, maybe crazy, or simply not attractive.
Or, he shows that he is a push over and we can take advantage of him.
We as Foxes are so use to being treated like shit by Wolves,
playing the waiting game and wondering where we stand,
that we are usually ready and pessimistic.
But, when a Wolf comes along and wants to show us he is genuinely interested in us,
and really puts his all into it,
we run for the hills because we are expecting something to be wrong with him or he is too easy.
Is there something really wrong with us?
Have we been programmed differently due to all the hard Wolves that came in our lives?
Should we start giving these easier Wolves a chance, even if we lose interest and become bored?
I had to wonder when it came to Wolves, their bullshit, and being a challenge…
As a Fox looking for a Wolf…