I’M TIRED OF TRIPPING OVER MY LOUIE VUITTON DUFFLE BAG!
I know you are wondering what the hell I’m talking about.
I’ve decided I am UN-packing my baggage and putting a whole gang of shit in the trash.
Some will be displayed in entries to come.
This Fox WILL have a brand new Wolf.
I have been holding onto past hurts and pains for a long time.
Even though my baggage looked pretty fly, it really has been a hindrance for meeting a new Wolf.
My trust has been packed away deep in one of the many bags,
which caused me to go through this lifestyle emotionless for a while.
But I have to ask…
Does cleaning out your baggage really help you meet a Wolf who also baggage?
Have you ever really looked at a doll?
I mean, I’m sure some of you have played with dolls in your past.
But seriously, have you ever noticed how something so beautiful could be so hollow inside?
I feel that can be connected to how we are as Foxes and Wolves.
It is no secret that Wolves can be emotionally un-available.
The last entry and the comments caused a great discussion about this.
For whatever reason, they choose to keep their feelings at bay since they tend to be more “masculine”.
Foxes, on the other hand, are all about emotions because we tend to be a little more feminine based.
But, as we search for love, we tend to start becoming bitter and emotionally distant in fear of getting hurt.
We start to become these little dolls.
Ones that like to dress up,
a night on the town in a cute convertible,
and try to mask the loneliness with a smile.
It made me wonder about baggage.
In this lifestyle, do we hold onto way too much baggage?
How do you successfully get rid of everything in those bags without being a hoarder?
And why do we travel from Wolf to Wolf (or Fox to Fox) without giving ourselves time to have a yard sale?
When it comes to your baggage….