i want you to take a look around you real quick.
i was saying your room is a little messy.
can we clean this later?
no but seriously…
i want you to look at everything happening in your life at this very moment.
are you attracting everything you have desired?
or do you feel like you are at a standstill with life?
well you can come from any walk of life and still have the mindset of:
one word that makes you feel like you can’t get what you want.
well you aren’t alone.
i have a lack based mentality and i’ll tell you how…
its easy for me to get material things or attract “luxury” situations.
some things have happened in my life that i don’t know how it happened.
from working fashion week or meeting celebs,
it just happened due to my intense focus.
a positive and negative in my life.
i would always imagine how it would feel to live “that life”.
how it would feel to have “that thing”.
the ps4 is a perfect example as well.
i saw everyone around me getting the ps4 when it first came out.
i knew i wanted one,
but i just didn’t know when or how.
i remember watching “the last of us” game playing video last year.
“i’m going to get this game.” i said.
i left it alone and didn’t think about it again.
that usually happens when i want something material.
even when i was a cub.
well how crazy i got the ps4 recently,
with the damn game included in the special?
the biggest lack for me comes with wolves.
i always tend to break my neck looking for the wolves of my fantasies.
nowadays i don’t have any options and an unavailable wolf took over my mind.
i started feeling insecure about myself because of him.
that never happened before.
what i realized with the wolves i always attract in my life is either:
a) this wolf isn’t “like that”
b) why would he want me?
but here is the thing:
a) what if he is like that?
b) what if he does want me?
i mean its by no chance the wolf is in my life.
it also also no chance he is what i’m attracted to.
i keep in that mind frame on what i don’t have,
or other people who are getting what i want,
and low key comparing/beating myself up.
as much as this “wolf wolf” situation has been stressful,
it has taught me so much about myself.
didn’t i say there is message somewhere in the mess?
wealthy people attract more wealth because they don’t focus on it
sexually active people attract more sex because they don’t focus on it
lucky people attract more luck because they don’t focus on it
…see where i’m going with this?
when you focus on what you don’t have,
it creates more “lack” situations like that.
when you look at something,
speak it into existence like foxhole noacid said,
and leave it alone.
like i did with the ps4.
so take these lack-like thoughts out your existence:
i am single and no one wants me
i have flaws and people can see it
i don’t have a lot of money in my bank account
i don’t have him and he will be snatched up by someone better
i want you all to start thinking about where the “lack” comes in your life.
start to see what you are obsessing about.
start thinking you are WORTH whatever you want.
it may not happen today or tomorrow,
but once you acknowledge that you want something,
think positive that you will have it and then leave it alone.
stop being impatient too.
that is one of my biggest problems that creates lack.
so ask yourself if you can easily attract other things in your life…
Why are you not attract that “thing” you really want?
lowkey: this was a huge a-ha moment for me.
i feel this helped someone today.
life is about to change.