You Want Some of This Hot, This Sweet, This Foxy Stuff?

“I want to fuck you so good that you will want me to own that boi pussy.
You are so damn sexy, you know that?”

First off, no.
My azz is not a storage unit for sale.
Second off, are we still using the word “boi pussy” in our vocabs in 2011?
Third, can we try to re-word that phrase in a way I haven’t heard before?

That was the text I got out the blue yesterday during “Vomit Mania” from a Wolf I met on a chat site sometime last week.
I sent him a regular face pic (that wasn’t even my best) and that is what he had to reply.

Eh, typical.

I don’t know about my other Foxes, but I have a super power.
One I am sure that is a gift, but it can also be a curse.
I have the power of sexually attracting Wolves to me.
And sometimes, I’m actually afraid to use it (see above convo).
And as much as that is a great and I shouldn’t complain…

Can being “sexy” hinder you really getting to know someone?

IMO, there is two kinds of sexy.


There is sexy that is visually appealing and has a Body That Needs To Be Fucked.
Then, there is sexy that has that “something” about the person that just makes you horny.
George Hill, LL Burrell, Malo, and countless others have this going on.
The first batch of sexy is everywhere on online chat sites.
You can just expect to see some half-naked person in a default picture.
And you know what, if you got it – FLAUNT IT.
But, the second kind of sexy is that kind of sexy that you have to be around someone to… feel.
They usually have an innocent quality, but an inner fire that radiates.
We have ALL been around this person and they have this “something” that you want to put your finger(s) on.

People believe that in order to be sexy, you need to be getting fucked like a maniac.
I’ll be the first to say that is a negative.
Sexy can come from being a virgin, a subtle sex pot, or suddenly becoming rich and noticed.
You can be born with sexy, tweaked as you grow, or it could be built on fame.
Sexy really comes from confidence and how you use it.
Real simple.
One of the main reasons why these fat Foxes/Vixens are pulling the fine men.

But, can being sexy be more of a pain than a pleasure?
Sure, it can help you meet Wolves, but is it really built on them wanting to get to know you?
Or, is it built on them just trying to give you a beating?
And with this sex appeal, you can attract EVERYONE…
Creepy old Wolves who feel they can get their mojo back with you,
Wolves who will only help you unless they are fucking you,
and worst – your friend’s boyfriends and husbands.


For the trifling and scandalous: that is a dream cum true.
They tend to use their powers for evil.

I started to think about sex and sex appeal…
Sure, we all want to be sexually attractive to people we are interested in.
But can being sexy really lead to problems as you look for love?
Will you be doomed to a life of only sexually attracting people rather than them wanting to get to know you?
I really cannot help my sex appeal.
I can’t turn it off because I just like to flirt, I love to feel sexy, and I love a Wolf to make me feel sexier…
hell, maybe that is the problem. lol

In a world where people confuse love and lust…

Can your sex appeal limit your love appeal?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

23 thoughts on “You Want Some of This Hot, This Sweet, This Foxy Stuff?”

  1. I think that sex appeal can limit you love appeal becuase like you said they are concentrated on trying to get and see you naked and be in your foxhole, that they dont even try to get to know or want to know the person within. However that same sex appeal helps you also because I reap some of the benefits. Its like a blessing and a curse tied together and its conditional to the circumstance.

  2. “There is sexy that is visually appealing and has a Body That Needs To Be Fucked.
    Then, there is sexy that has that “something” about the person that just makes you horny.
    George Hill, LL Burrell, Malo, ” You got a gift of loving bottom boys except for Uncle LL, unless you are a Latino then all bets are off the dat azz!!!

    1. ^I seem to be attracted to “good looking Foxes”…
      It seems like all the dudes I have taken a liking too “looks wise” are Foxes.
      I have only met like 4 Wolves who look like how “Foxes” look…

      does that make sense?

  3. It does limit you. Likr I was the “fat” kid in highschool, so when a guy liked me I knew he liked ME, not my body. Now you have to act a certain way and have certain morals just to weed out all the men who just want sex.

      1. And what surprised me was I thought it was mainly wolves, but foxes can be tricky too. I’m tired of having to act cold to block off sex fiends cause the good ones end up thinking I’m like that too.

  4. I always say there are people who give that “relationship-oriented” vibe and those who give you that “I just wanna smash” feeling. Some of us can help what we project, others can’t.

    There are some who are destined to be in a relationship and others who will always be the sideline.

      1. No. You just have to learn not to even give dudes who only see sex appeal the time of day.

        You cannot sex a dude into loving you, furthermore if all he sees is someone he wants to just fuck I doubt that will change.

        I’ll admit it’s tricky though being that attraction is very important.

  5. JAY :
    No. You just have to learn not to even give dudes who only see sex appeal the time of day.
    You cannot sex a dude into loving you, furthermore if all he sees is someone he wants to just fuck I doubt that will change.
    I’ll admit it’s tricky though being that attraction is very important.

    #whoisjamarifox :
    ^the queens want to turn me out to be a wolf.
    not happ’n.
    only Fox I’d turn Wolf for is Malo.

    Wow lol

  6. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^the queens want to turn me out to be a wolf.
    not happ’n.
    only Fox I’d turn Wolf for is Malo.

    It seems like the only language people like that understand is mean. Somehow a normal no translates to “he’ll come around if I annoy him long enough”. It seems like you have to treat the ones like that and who only want sex like dirt, but not scare off ones who genuinely like you.

  7. #whoisjamarifox :^how have you reaped Nerd?

    Yesterday and even today, my laptop has been giving me issues.. Thank god I’m a Nerd and I fixed it. AMEN! But I went into the tech store becuase I needed a flash drive with a bigger capcity space. *smirks* [SN: this sounds like a porn pre-scene] But it was $72, so I flashed a smile and told him I needed it to back-up etc and etc. Well he gave it to me for the sale price of another item which was $9.99. So I paid $10 for a 16GB flash drive. #epicallywinning Of course I said Thank You and smiled again but that happens occasionally when I go to store.

  8. JAY :Can you get me an Ipad for $300?Maybe twerk a lil sumthin for the timid dude at Best Buy?lol

    JAY!!!!! I WOULD NEVER… deny a request as nice as that one.. Let me see what I can do and if I can come up and get the MacBook Pro for free.. *nerd smile and winks*

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