i had a dream the other night about khalid.
no,
it wasn’t that kind of dream.

it was a dream where we were talking about this new era of his.
i told him something along the lines that:

he should leaned into his sad boy era,
talking personally about the break up with that OF singing hooker.
more fall mid tempo/slow vibes of betrayal,
fake love,
and overcoming heartbreak.
then slowly start leaning into “britney/i’m a slave for you”.

tbh,
i don’t know why i had this dream but it was how i was feeling.
the OF singing hooker that ( x outed him ) allegedly tweeted something to khalid as well.
we don’t know if this was directed at him due his new video,
“out of body“:

but we can only guess because…

just because you have a nice body,
that doesn’t mean you have sex appeal.
i think that is a very common misconception that folks have.
one of my foxholers was discussing this attentioinisto on IG the other day.
he has a nice face and bawdy,
but for whatever reason,
he never really turned me on “on”.
he was just muscle and tail.
not gonna hold you but…

Self-absorbed people are NEVER sexy.

as i suspected with him,
a lot of folks with nice bawdies are still the nerds and outcasts deep inside.
sure,
having a nice bawdy can get you in the door but what happens after?
having sex appeal,
in my opinion,
is really the “appeal“.
you can have sex with anyone or anything (if that’s what you’re into),
but…

Do you have the “appeal” part?

these are 4 key things that give us “appeal”…

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“I want to fuck you so good that you will want me to own that boi pussy.
You are so damn sexy, you know that?”

First off, no.
My azz is not a storage unit for sale.
Second off, are we still using the word “boi pussy” in our vocabs in 2011?
Third, can we try to re-word that phrase in a way I haven’t heard before?

That was the text I got out the blue yesterday during “Vomit Mania” from a Wolf I met on a chat site sometime last week.
I sent him a regular face pic (that wasn’t even my best) and that is what he had to reply.

Eh, typical.

I don’t know about my other Foxes, but I have a super power.
One I am sure that is a gift, but it can also be a curse.
I have the power of sexually attracting Wolves to me.
And sometimes, I’m actually afraid to use it (see above convo).
And as much as that is a great and I shouldn’t complain…

Can being “sexy” hinder you really getting to know someone?

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