The Southern Wolves VS The Concrete Wolves

Nothing beats the Concrete Forest.

I love living here because it has opened me up to
different things, a fresh style, and endless job opportunities.
You can literally turn one corner and you are in the Caribbean,
and then turn the next and you are in the Harlem Renaissance.
Every neighborhood has a different culture and every borough has a different way of life.

Plus, the Wolves out here are FIOOOONNNNEEEEEEE.
You can always find eye candy in Times Square, Soho, Union Square… or a train platform.

There is always something to do because the city never sleeps.
The slogan is really true: “If you can make it here then you can make it anywhere”.
The Concrete Forest teaches you to be tough, a multi-tasker, and a style icon all in one.
But my question is:

Is there any Wolves here?!

Before I came to The Concrete Forest, I always heard that it was bursting with Wolves.
I was excited because I knew the way I looked, I would get my feet a little wet.
Well, more than my feet.
I heard about Wolves trying to get at you in public places by winks and stares.
I also heard about D/L Wolves out numbering straight Wolves in droves.
Sure, I met a few Wolves but they were nothing to write home about.
Only one, that was on a chat site, and he didn’t even live here.
These few only made play toys that didn’t really last.

I hear so much about the Southern Forest that I am curious as to what it is like.
I hear that the Wolves down there are grade A and you will have a date by just walking out the door.
And as I heard, most Baller Wolves go down there to go and creep with Foxes.
Star Fox moved to The Southern Forest recently and already he is meeting Wolves left and right.
We have talking today and he has shown me a ton of Wolves he has either met online or at the club.
Just yesterday, he met an ALPHA Wolf just by putting his profile on a site.
ALPHA Wolf is ready to help him with some things and probably fuck him stupid.

It left me wondering about location and where all the good Wolves are…

Does the south have a better array of Wolves?
Don’t get me wrong, the Concrete Wolves are fly and have plenty of swag,
but you can never tell who gets down and who is simply straight.
It gets annoying because you either have to know someone who knows said Wolves,
get on a chat site and get lucky,
or simply be so feminine that they can spot you out in a crowd.

I couldn’t help but wonder:

Do you have to go down south to come up?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

58 thoughts on “The Southern Wolves VS The Concrete Wolves

  1. I think it’s one of those “the grass is always greener on the other side things”.

    Smashing a big booty puerto thug from the Bronx is still on my bucket list though. lol

      1. I don’t want a fem one though. He doesn’t have to be a thug, just masculine. He must have a big booty though and big soup cooler lips though. I like the ones who almost look black. Lol

  2. Okay, after living in ATL for a while, i got to experience most of what the city has to offer. Its a nice place to live and i really enjoyed it while i was there. By sheer numbers there are definitely plenty of wolves. GORGEOUS ones EVERYWHERE with nice cars, apartments, gym memberships, etc. All different kinda and if you have a type, you’ll definitely find what you’re looking for. It is really easy to lose yourself in the scene. Men will approach you in the mall, in the street, on the train, just about anywhere. I always had a story to tell (if you go back through my blog I’ve documented most of them). Sex was pretty easy to get as well, didnt take much effort. The clubs and parties were AMAZING!! ATL is definitely in its own black gay bubble.

    HOWEVER!!!

    For every one wolf there’s about 100 other foxes, 250 other hybrids, and about 10 wolves… going after the same one lol. The scene, although there are lots of us, is actually really small and whoever you meet as probably already talked to, dated, and slept with someone you know. Finding sex is literally a walk in the park. There’s a preference for light skin and tattoos. And looks are extremely important. Most people who are there are not from there as well. Finding a date is about a few clicks of the keyboard and a few taps on your phone. Finding a serious, monogamous, long term relationship is pretty difficult. There’s a lot of people just looking for quick fixes. A lot of fakers who pretend to have more than they do. A lot of escorts and stunt queens. It isnt until everyone gets older that eventually tire of the scene after being in it for about 15 or 20 years who finally say “i wanna settle down.”

      1. Yup! Plenty who will fool you in the daylight hours. It’s how i learned to pay attention to the eyes and the movements in order to figure out who’s into men and who isn’t. There are subtle differences but after a while it takes a second to look at someone to tell if they’re a wolf or not. I highly recommend for anyone who goes there to visit to go get a haircut on a Friday lol. Honestly, one of my favorite things to do was go to the barbershop, i wouldn’t make appointments just so i could just there for hours and look.

        Oh, and i left out that the fox world and wolf world are completely separate lol.

      1. Lose yourself in that you’ll eventually start clubbing (because there is something to do EVERY. SINGLE. NIGHT.) and dating constantly. It becomes your life. Many people who go to college there get lost in it and stop going to class and focus on the social scene and eventually have to drop out. You become consumed by the gay lifestyle that you don’t really have much else going on with you. No goals. No aspirations. Just boys, drinking, clubs, and shade lol

      1. We mostly have mexicans down here and they have zero curves.

        Can you ship me one of these big booty latinos please. I’ll take one in brown with a nice taper and clear skin.

        Thanks in advance,
        Mgmt

  3. UrSoVain :
    Yup! Plenty who will fool you in the daylight hours. It’s how i learned to pay attention to the eyes and the movements in order to figure out who’s into men and who isn’t. There are subtle differences but after a while it takes a second to look at someone to tell if they’re a wolf or not. I highly recommend for anyone who goes there to visit to go get a haircut on a Friday lol. Honestly, one of my favorite things to do was go to the barbershop, i wouldn’t make appointments just so i could just there for hours and look.
    Oh, and i left out that the fox world and wolf world are completely separate lol.

    LMAO! You just sat there and watched dudes in the barbershop for hours? I see dudes doing the same thing on campus and I immediately avoid any kind of eye contact or subtle confirmations. I’ll even cross the street. lol

      1. The dudes who are obviously scoping guys tend to be on the loud, butch queen side of things and I don’t want to be on their radar at all.

        I swear there’s a bench where all the butch queens sit on the yard and just watch dudes and talk about them after they pass by.

        I take the long way around. lol

    1. You’re missin out! You don’t have to go anywhere to see what types of men the city has to offer. Fine wolf… after fine wolf… after fine wolf… after fine wolf… just come in and out. I’ve snuck many a picture and sent it to my friends like… you need to see this thing in this chair!

      1. ^^Did they get down?
        or, was it for eye candy purposes?

        In the Concrete Forest,
        you will see the finest dudes in the barber shop.
        Transforming from scruffy to fuckable in 30 minutes.
        Usually they are around too many like Wolves to holla…
        … but they will sneak a look or two from the chair.

  4. UrSoVain :

    Yup! Plenty who will fool you in the daylight hours. It’s how i learned to pay attention to the eyes and the movements in order to figure out who’s into men and who isn’t. There are subtle differences but after a while it takes a second to look at someone to tell if they’re a wolf or not. I highly recommend for anyone who goes there to visit to go get a haircut on a Friday lol. Honestly, one of my favorite things to do was go to the barbershop, i wouldn’t make appointments just so i could just there for hours and look.

    Oh, and i left out that the fox world and wolf world are completely separate lol.

    This is so interesting to me….

    Explain Fox world and Wolf World LOL
    Sorry for making you type like this…
    It makes this discussion interesting with great feedback…

    1. I’ll answer anything you ask. lol

      Well from my experience, we only really come together at the clubs and even then some clubs tend to attract different types of foxes, wolves, and hybrids. But Wolves tend to have “exclusive” invite-only house parties among themselves because the amount of “fem foxes” are so great and how they seek to avoid them. The wolves tend to keep to themselves mostly or in very small groups. A lot of loners and those who choose to spend large amounts of their time among the breeders.

      Foxes tend to come together in large numbers. Our friendship networks tend to be very extensive and large. We may not speak to each other but we remember faces and what they “give” and so forth. A lot of “messy” gurls who are all about drama and fighting as well. I don’t know anyone who didn’t have someone in the scene who they didn’t like lol.

  5. UrSoVain :

    Lose yourself in that you’ll eventually start clubbing (because there is something to do EVERY. SINGLE. NIGHT.) and dating constantly. It becomes your life. Many people who go to college there get lost in it and stop going to class and focus on the social scene and eventually have to drop out. You become consumed by the gay lifestyle that you don’t really have much else going on with you. No goals. No aspirations. Just boys, drinking, clubs, and shade lol

    ^see that is scary.
    ATL needs to be the place I visit…. only.
    Imagine my location was in ATL…

    I am SURE it would be Samantha from SATC type of stories.

  6. JAY :

    We mostly have mexicans down here and they have zero curves.

    Can you ship me one of these big booty latinos please. I’ll take one in brown with a nice taper and clear skin.

    Thanks in advance,
    Mgmt

    Mexicans are just bad built PERIOD,
    I already know them by the way they are shaped: REFRIGERATOR.
    Ricans and Dominicans have a certain swagg to their bodies and their style of dress.
    They do a lot of loose to slim fits that huge their body right…

    1. This is hilarious…… but are we talking about ladies or dudes? Because some of these statements may be only gender appropriate. However the DR and PR situation, some do have some great shapes while others are built like spongebob or the Michelin Man. Some them PR/DR ladies(and the sista sistas,too) with those tight pants and too small shirts but got the Pop-n-Fresh goin on. In NY, that is an epidemic.

      There a few mexicans out there that defy the stereotype. I met this Mexican dude once and his skin felt amazing….it was so soft….i digress.

  7. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^^Did they get down?
    or, was it for eye candy purposes?
    In the Concrete Forest,
    you will see the finest dudes in the barber shop.
    Transforming from scruffy to fuckable in 30 minutes.
    Usually they are around too many like Wolves to holla…
    … but they will sneak a look or two from the chair.

    That’s the thing though. Its a large mix of eye candy and those who are just unclockable. They all sort of blend in with each other that you can’t really tell. Often times you’ll see one or two that you saw at the barbershop at the club later that night or on the internet later like… Oh! That’s him!

    1. ^^OH WOW.
      See I like those odds.

      Is he usually still the same way…
      …or does he get so feminine, a clutch purse flies out his mouth?
      Out in the Concrete Forest, many “masculine” Wolves tend to vomit up clutches and panty hose come 12am.

      1. Well, there are a lot of hybrids or foxes in wolf clothing. He may still be masculine but he ain’t about toppin’ nothin… but a penis lol. You sort of don’t have to mask ur femininity in ATL like you do in other places.

      1. #whoisjamarifox :
        ^i likey.
        i likey.
        lol

        But… honestly… they suck lol. They cause a lot of pain and broken hearts in dealing with them. You’ll notice there’s a very anti-DL sentiment in ATL as well. At least in my experience. In the abstract is sounds nice, read books about it and how glamorous and heart racing it may be but in practice they tend to be whores, emotionally unavailable, and enjoy blowing hot and cold and stringing you along in completely unsatisfying situations. You wouldn’t need to seek them out because there a perfectly normal, metrell-esque, wolfs walking around.

  8. JAY :

    The dudes who are obviously scoping guys tend to be on the loud, butch queen side of things and I don’t want to be on their radar at all.

    I swear there’s a bench where all the butch queens sit on the yard and just watch dudes and talk about them after they pass by.

    I take the long way around. lol

    Those types tend to be VERY bitchy.
    I do not like those types because they are quick to call you out.
    I have heard/seen many a queen call out a D/L or Discreet Wolf/Fox.
    I had one try to call me out and I politely got in his ass when I caught him alone.
    That muthafucka was so scared…
    I think doing that is so disgusting.
    Just as bad when they get a D/L or Discreet Wolf and secretly tape him while fucking/sucking.

    1. Yea I do, but I go in the a.m. at the beginning of the week. I hate crowds. lol

      No one there to look at but the Morgan Freeman types. lol

      I’ve been thinking about switching to a more trendy barbershop though.

  9. UrSoVain :

    #whoisjamarifox :
    ^i likey.
    i likey.
    lol

    But… honestly… they suck lol. They cause a lot of pain and broken hearts in dealing with them. You’ll notice there’s a very anti-DL sentiment in ATL as well. At least in my experience. In the abstract is sounds nice, read books about it and how glamorous and heart racing it may be but in practice they tend to be whores, emotionally unavailable, and enjoy blowing hot and cold and stringing you along in completely unsatisfying situations. You wouldn’t need to seek them out because there a perfectly normal, metrell-esque, wolfs walking around.

    ^makes sense.
    Same story up here definitely.

    I think the thing is that in up North, they are the standard.
    If you think about looking for Metrell type Wolves, they come with baggage, too much in the scene, or dusty.
    You have to literally fish out the masculine Wolves wheras down South,
    they are easily at your disposal.
    So when I speak on D/L, I am only use to masculine Wolves I am actually attracted too.

    That is why looking for a Wolf up here is such a chore…

    1. Oh ok, D.L. sort of paints the picture of very secretive, only comes out at night, fucks fysh during the day, and so one. There are lots of masculine ones walking around who don’t do those things.

      1. ^Oh they do that here too!
        But if you want someone like that…
        … that is who you have to chase.

        I feel there is a inner santum of fine Wolves who have invite only events Up North.
        … but meeting them is the hard part.
        The fems have made the good Wolves go into hiding up North.
        They either are so low key you need a microscope, only meet them through friends, or they are in relationships with females and only deal with Foxes for a one night thing.

  10. UrSoVain :

    Well, there are a lot of hybrids or foxes in wolf clothing. He may still be masculine but he ain’t about toppin’ nothin… but a penis lol. You sort of don’t have to mask ur femininity in ATL like you do in other places.

    I have heard.

    I heard there are a TON of Foxes down there.

  11. #whoisjamarifox :

    UrSoVain :
    Well, there are a lot of hybrids or foxes in wolf clothing. He may still be masculine but he ain’t about toppin’ nothin… but a penis lol. You sort of don’t have to mask ur femininity in ATL like you do in other places.

    I have heard.
    I heard there are a TON of Foxes down there.

    #whoisjamarifox :

    UrSoVain :
    Well, there are a lot of hybrids or foxes in wolf clothing. He may still be masculine but he ain’t about toppin’ nothin… but a penis lol. You sort of don’t have to mask ur femininity in ATL like you do in other places.

    I have heard.
    I heard there are a TON of Foxes down there.

    Like 200 foxes to every one 1 wolf.

  12. I absolutely agree with UrSoVain! This is my second time being in Atlanta & being of age. My first time I did exactly what USV spoke of “getting caught up”. I found new gay friends & hit the scene full force. It was a spot to hit up every Damn night & boys galore. Plenty of flavors ripe for the picking! I learned so much in that time that this time around the game is nothing new. The scene seems to be the same… The wolves tend to frequent spots that the fem foxes tend to not dominate, but u will find a few femtastic foxes. Then u have the spots where the femtastic foxes reign free. And in those spots u’ll find the hybrids & wolves that like their foxes sweet & easy. Then there are the exclusive wolve spots. You can get an invitation through someone u kno most of the time. 95% of the time they tend to be sex parties. I recently received an invite from an old friend that started his own. Another popular thing is pre-club soirees where It’s a mixture of wolves & foxes who associate within that clique. Jamari i have a dear friend who has a loft over the city who does his own weekly soirees. I do anticipate lots of fun upon your arrival… But until then, the scene won’t see much of me! My adventures won’t be as wild as before but J you know where ever I am I’ll have some stories to share. Oh and as far as the wolf hunt, I’ve recently accepted my laSt application, done a couple lay offs, & placed our most promising candidate on a serious P.I.P probation program! Lmao

  13. Star Fox :
    I absolutely agree with UrSoVain! This is my second time being in Atlanta & being of age. My first time I did exactly what USV spoke of “getting caught up”. I found new gay friends & hit the scene full force. It was a spot to hit up every Damn night & boys galore. Plenty of flavors ripe for the picking! I learned so much in that time that this time around the game is nothing new. The scene seems to be the same… The wolves tend to frequent spots that the fem foxes tend to not dominate, but u will find a few femtastic foxes. Then u have the spots where the femtastic foxes reign free. And in those spots u’ll find the hybrids & wolves that like their foxes sweet & easy. Then there are the exclusive wolve spots. You can get an invitation through someone u kno most of the time. 95% of the time they tend to be sex parties. I recently received an invite from an old friend that started his own. Another popular thing is pre-club soirees where It’s a mixture of wolves & foxes who associate within that clique. Jamari i have a dear friend who has a loft over the city who does his own weekly soirees. I do anticipate lots of fun upon your arrival… But until then, the scene won’t see much of me! My adventures won’t be as wild as before but J you know where ever I am I’ll have some stories to share. Oh and as far as the wolf hunt, I’ve recently accepted my laSt application, done a couple lay offs, & placed our most promising candidate on a serious P.I.P probation program! Lmao

    Is this really the infamous Star Fox?!

  14. I know im kinda late..loll but jamari i would like to tell u about the wolves in new orleans.. i think you will be surprised

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