there are many gay males who don’t desire other gay males.
let’s be 110%:

we all grew up around and with straight males.

many of us weren’t exposed to “gay” anything growing up,
and if we were,
it was the obvious gay kid or that was us.
when we look back if we were the “gay anything”,
we can point out the curious straights who were interested in us.
it was easy for them to sniff us out to explore because we were different.
there is a certain “energy” they have that is attractive.
all they know is being straight so:

their default is trying to get us like they would a vixen.

that being fonted:
i can see why the curious straights would sniff out ej johnson.
in my head and how he use to be,
i can see why they would want to keep him a secret.
he use to be annoying and extra before he calmed all the down.
he has an interview on carlos king’s podcast that has everyone upset…

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hmm.
in my honest 110% thought.
i’m not one of these gay males who gets in their feelings over shit like this.

i think everyone has a right to their preference until it works out or get their hearts broken more than a few times to try something new.

many vixens don’t like what ej said because it enhances the “big bad DL jackal” theory,
which they have every right to be because many of these DL jackals are reckless.

there is no reason WHY these big aged DL jackals are having raw sex with males and then doing it with vixens too.

don’t even get me started on WHY folks are having unprotected sex nowadays.

in my head,
many gays don’t like what ej said because it makes them feel undesirable.
even if you aren’t attracted to ej,
it stirs up trauma and rejection in many who have a preference as well.
being gay can be a very lonely road trying to get in a relationship,
but the “curious straight” is the worst one to pursue for something serious.
many of them only interested in fucking.
it might not be a love story like something off “noah’s arc“.
the ones who fall into liking you,
and aren’t ready to face themselves,
will find ways to abuse you and reuse you.

they’ll drop you and get with a vixen,
then get bored with her and start trying to get back with you.
rinse and repeat.
kids and marriages start happening as the insecurities get stronger.
they can’t quit you so they’re trying to fuck you in the garage while his family is asleep.
some will even kill you out of fear of being outed.

it can be a whole mess if you aren’t prepared.

there are plenty of “straight acting; straight appearing” gay males out here.

many of them are sexy,
emotionally mature,
loyal,
and discrete if you are looking for that.
nothing is sexier than a male who has already faced and accepted himself.
if you aren’t attracted to feminine gay males,
they are plenty of masculine gay males out there.
some want to be purely dominant; others desire being submissive.
the best part?

many who are not looking for open relationships either.

whew!
i’m pulling my draws down and holding my ring finger out as we font.

i feel like ej is gonna find what he is looking for eventually,
but when it comes to the curious straights…

stop expecting greatness after they cum.

maybe even before and during because many of them are terrible at sex too.
it’s the gays who turn them out that give them aura.