there are many gay males who don’t desire other gay males.
let’s be 110%:

we all grew up around and with straight males.

many of us weren’t exposed to “gay” anything growing up,
and if we were,
it was the obvious gay kid or that was us.
when we look back if we were the “gay anything”,
we can point out the curious straights who were interested in us.
it was easy for them to sniff us out to explore because we were different.
there is a certain “energy” they have that is attractive.
all they know is being straight so:

their default is trying to get us like they would a vixen.

that being fonted:
i can see why the curious straights would sniff out ej johnson.
in my head and how he use to be,
i can see why they would want to keep him a secret.
he use to be annoying and extra before he calmed all the down.
he has an interview on carlos king’s podcast that has everyone upset…