Fire Burns.

BOY TWEETS BOY
BOY D.M’S BOY
BOY THINKS OTHER BOY IS GIRL
BOY PRETENDS TO BE GIRL TO KEEP TALKING TO BOY

….. and you know how THAT story ends up.
Well something similar happened to me yesterday….

Fione dark skinned baller thought I was a female on Twitter.
He followed me for a while and I never thought anything of it.
Well I did a bold move and I D.M’d…
(for my non-tweet Foxes and Wolves that means PRIVATE MESSAGE)
…old boy and I basically just started convo.

The way how it was going,
I could not tell if he thought I was a chick or a dick.

That until he asked me for my Facebook and my pictures.

“I just want to know I am not talking to no nigga – I’m straight.”
“Well I am. I’m not going to be like these disrespectful homos out here. Sorry for wasting your time.” – my response to him.

Now, I could have been a typical nigga and do some triflin’ shit.

RULES ON HOW TO DO TRIFLIN’ SHIT

1. FIND PRETTY FEMALE PICTURES ONLINE
2. SET UP FAKE FACEBOOK AND SEND HIM A COUPLE BOOTY SHOTS
3. MAKE UP AN EXCUSE WHY I COULDN’T SPEAK ON THE PHONE
4. TALK TO THIS DUDE; ALL WHILE PRETENDING TO BE SOMETHING I WASNT

First of all,
that shit is crazy corny.
I’m not going to talk to the man of my dreams as nothing but JAMARI FOX.
Not JULIA FOX OR JANEEKA FOX.

Secondly,
that is playing with someone’s feelings as well as my own.
He is going to think I am think fine ass chick with pussy made of platinum.
I’m going to waste time seducing this man and leading him on…
… and not get that platinum dick.
He will never be able to call me or chill.
I can’t call him during a thunderstorm to keep me safe.
If I have a bad day, I gotta tweet him?
Really?

I see alot of my Fox counterparts doing that to straight men
and I just can’t understand WHY they do that?
It is a WASTE OF TIME… and you can get seriously hurt doing that shit.

I decided to be truthful and let my blessings reward me
with a man that will know my name and run wild in my jungles.
Low self esteem and loneliness often motivate us to do stupid things.

… and Jamari is none of those two things.

Let the truth set you free Foxes.
You will not be disappointed.


Later.

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

31 thoughts on “Fire Burns.”

  1. Anybody in their right mind should know whom they are talking to texting whatever. There’s certain phrases that can tell the difference. Most dudes do get at str8 dudes for curiousity so they switch roles to have fun. To add to their build up they didn’t bust. Lol. But on a serious note we all need to be real and stop the games. It’s reality we are what we are regardless gay str8 bi dl butch shone kids thug discreet. Be easy

    1. @DaDon – Well it was a minor confusion on both our parts. I wasn’t even sad about it. No need to be. There will be more dudes. Back when I was like 13 and I was still exploring myself, I had some hot cyber sex with some white man on aol. I pretended to be some chick and got my rocks off.

      (I was a fresh ass at 13 lol)

      But doing that in my 20s is desperate and sad. I can meet a dude this day and age and he will more than want to know the full Fox.

  2. I did but they had to shut it down because they couldnt keep it up with me.
    They were going to change the name to “Fox Fest” and everything.

    THEY TRYING TO HOLD ME DOWN!!!

  3. I suppose for those who crave the real thing and can’t get it… resort to faking it. From the opposite side of it, i could see the appeal. Here’s this really attractive hetero guy telling you all the things you’ve ever wanted to hear even if it isn’t to you specifically. We place so much value on having those types of men give us attention that people will do w/e it takes to get it. Will it eventually lead to you gettin your feelings hurt when you can’t have him and he loses interest. Absolutely. But who in that situation is really thinking about the long term?

    1. @Vain ….

      There was this guy I know who did it. He created a whole fake persona and went into it heartless. He met a few dudes and did the whole nasty talking email thing – until the Wolf of his dreams hit him up.

      Well… dude was playing with Wolf’s head and this Wolf was genuinely attracted to “her”. He managed to lead this mofo on for 2 years until he admitted he was a dude… and all hell broke loose.

      I also know of gay guys stealing fine dude’s pictures and pretending to be this Adonis when he was really FUGHONEST. My friend was lead on for 4 years in a scandal that left him hurt and burned.

      It is a dangerous game because when you do meet that fine ass dude and everything is all a lie – the other person is the bigger victim once it goes too too far.

      1. It says a lot to me when they’re the type of person who is willing to spend 2 to 4 years of their life chasing after someone on the other end of a phone or internet connection. Who is really willing to settle for symbols on lit screens? Investing their energy into all of that as opposed to something they can actually feel and touch and taste and cuddle with and oh, i dunno know… SEE! It speaks to this need for us to get from the fronts of computer screens and go find the real thing. It sounds those people settled for the fantasy or idea of someone and got burned when they discovered the real thing.

  4. Y’all are right u can’t be happy with yourself y live life. It’s bout the inside of a person heart emotion feeling. Which has nothing to do with looks. Cause not all u see is a pot of gold or that clear river to cross. So many drowned being fake.

    1. I agree @DaDon

      When you want to be liked and you are not happy within yourself, it opens up the door for masking yourself as someone else. People need to learn swagg and stop playing games

      1. Can swag be learned though? Can it really make up for an unattractive face and/or body in the immediate? For those us who get the chance to reject men from time to time… there exists those on the opposite end of that who would kill for that type of (often negative) attention. Well maybe not “kill” but… at the very least pretend to something they wish to be.

    1. Finding who u want will never happen but learning the one that has something that attracts u is a job alone. That’s y women are more attach then men are cause they are willing to learn and make it work no matter what. But dudes M O in and out I can find another. Not saying that all are the same like 2pac said we learned are game from a women.

      1. dadondread26 :

        Finding who u want will never happen but learning the one that has something that attracts u is a job alone. That’s y women are more attach then men are cause they are willing to learn and make it work no matter what. But dudes M O in and out I can find another. Not saying that all are the same like 2pac said we learned are game from a women.

        Finding who you want will not happen???? That is so pessimistic bruh bruh. You got to be positive and know that ‘he’ is out there. If you don’t, then why are you even alive?

        I agree with dudes being so fickle but men are hunters. Dudes in this lifestyle are WORST because ass/dick is like candy.

  5. dadondread26 :
    Finding who u want will never happen but learning the one that has something that attracts u is a job alone. That’s y women are more attach then men are cause they are willing to learn and make it work no matter what. But dudes M O in and out I can find another. Not saying that all are the same like 2pac said we learned are game from a women.

    It’s one thing to learn to make it work but only if its with a man who loves, cares, and respects you. However, many women tend to go after men who treat them the worst because they normalize bad behavior and believe that drama is a normal part of a relationship. Lots of women become attached often times because they seek the approval of these men. If you ask women what they think about men, they’re negative things and come off as bitter and resentful. Men on the other hand, don’t have to put it as much work because the other person is often doing it for the two of them. Not all, but a lot. Its east for men to just go in and out because there is always someone out there to put up with that behaviour.

    So finding someone you want is easy. You can do an internet search for that. Making that person want you is a toss up. Do we always end up with the people we originally didn’t want but had to learn to like? Hm…

  6. But that’s the thing making someone want u. If that person is not already in a circle doin them “playing the game”. Why have relationships? Why get married? Why deposit your effort when their constanly withdrawing.

    1. Because they are empty and need someone to constantly fill them up. That is the problem with society today. They have relationship ADD. Times have changed and so have people. Cheating is what’s “in”. It sucks because you can’t meet a decent dude who will hold you down and be faithful.

      It sucks but it is the journey.

  7. UrSoVain :

    Can swag be learned though? Can it really make up for an unattractive face and/or body in the immediate? For those us who get the chance to reject men from time to time… there exists those on the opposite end of that who would kill for that type of (often negative) attention. Well maybe not “kill” but… at the very least pretend to something they wish to be.

    Look there are so many dust balls in relationships these days. Having a cute face doesnt just cut it. You can always get someone with a cute face BUT do they have that ‘something’ to keep you interested.

  8. And also do they have your back ride or die. These are rare breeds and hard to come across. But I learned alot my ride or die dawg big bruh was my ex 5 years in and 10 knowing. It was my mistake so trust now I know what to look for.

    1. Well those painful things happen to teach us how to grow and be stronger. Everything that has happened in ya past has happened to help you form the path you are walking on now.

      You are aware so that makes me smile 😉

  9. Jamari Fox :

    UrSoVain :
    Can swag be learned though? Can it really make up for an unattractive face and/or body in the immediate? For those us who get the chance to reject men from time to time… there exists those on the opposite end of that who would kill for that type of (often negative) attention. Well maybe not “kill” but… at the very least pretend to something they wish to be.

    Look there are so many dust balls in relationships these days. Having a cute face doesnt just cut it. You can always get someone with a cute face BUT do they have that ‘something’ to keep you interested.

    A cute face definitely doesn’t cut it, but it does make it easier to get someone’s attention. Pretty girls are always the first to say “looks don’t matter” (See: Tyra Banks) because they never really had to worry about it. But to someone… say.. someone overweight and homely… who always has… does the same hold true?

    1. It does but also, those same people work on their personalities and shine through that outlet. I notice a lot of overweight and homely people have the best personalities – which makes them a magnet for everyone including same or opposite sex.

      Now, that is, those who have not let their physical features effect them to the point of low self worth.

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