we need to be kinder to tiny harris

as much as we have fun on social media,
it can be a real disgusting and dark place.
you gotta have stupid thick skin to navigate these forests.
if not,
it will destroy and watch you die.

in 2019,
i met tiny harris from xscape.
in motion,
i thought she was pretty but she was really kind too.
her spirit is very welcoming and warm.
as you know,
she has been the butt of jokes long before social media was created.
society has called her “ugly” back in 90s xscape.
hell,
biggie went after the entire group:

her daughter,
zonnique,
had to check someone on twitter for disrespecting her mother…

 

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…and we wonder why many hide behind a filter.
i feel like low self-esteem,
terrible relationships,
and not having a high self-concept are a recipe for disaster.

We have all seen celebrities fall victim to that combo,
and even die,
more than a few times.

the wild part is we watch their demise in real time due to social media.
tiny’s life has probably not been the kindest tbh.
her relationships and society certainly haven’t been to/for her.
i’m glad to see she has people in her corner that will fight for her.

4 thoughts on “we need to be kinder to tiny harris

  1. Lets be honest multiple things can be true at the same time. In my opinion Tiny has never been ugly especially in the 90’s, we unfortunately have to accept that people just like to troll to get their 15 seconds of fame.

    That being said the problem that Tiny has as well as many other celebrities especially the women is plastic surgery. Medical science can only do so much and the realities are that plastic surgery does not hold up well over time, many of these women started their plastic surgery journeys way to early in life, some started in their early 20’s and 30’s, well what do you think happens when you hit your late 40’s,50’s, and 60’s. Tiny’s not the only one you can look at Lil Kim, Tamar Braxton, Madonna, Donatella Versace and the list goes on and on. You can totally have a conversation about self esteem, but at the end of the day these ladies wrote the checks and they should of had a friend circle around them that told them no or highlighted that they were going overboard.

    1. That is very true. The plastic surgery has gotten ridiculous. With the exception of Tocha, the ladies of Xscape went overboard with the ass shots/lifts. They look ridiculous. And now we see a lot of ladies are regretting their decisions, and have had surgeries to remove those implants they got. Madonna and Lil’ Kim look like totally different folks, whose faces seems so tight that if they smile…it will tear. I can’t believe folks in their circle didn’t say SOMETHING to them!

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