nowadays,
corny for me is:

the over saturation of the self absorbed.

it’s the posing,
lightweight advertising,
but having absolutely no other redeemable traits outside of that.
worst of all:

using sex to sell an OF,
promoting private videos for sale,
and scamming…

…and got the audacity to be rude in DMS.

like,
what?
many of the vixens have a corniness to them too.

posing half naked,
showing and throwing ass,
getting pregnant,
and confused why they’re fucked and dumped for someone doing less than that.

anyone using body parts and sex can attract anyone.
none of these people are keeping em past a few months,
lucky if they go a year.
i learned very quickly after the following i find baller wolf,
russell wilson,
to be extremely sexy when many people have labeled him as “corny”…

ugh,
when he called her “babe”.

if ^that’s “corny” these days,
i’d love to be up in that that corn field.
i don’t know what’s happening BTS in russell and ciara’s relationship,
because it could be a disaster,
but what i do know is…

something about russell wilson’s energy,
eye contact,
and lore in how he even got with ciara is really sexy to me.

remember: he was with a white vixen before he got with ciara.
i don’t know if her prayer sent shock waves that broke the chains of the oppressed:

…but here we are,
married with 3 kids and 1 that russell adopted as his own.
what i’ve learned:

that kind of manz comes when we start healing, stop obsessing,
and get grounded in who we are.

we emit a powerful and sexy energy when we are fully connected to mind,
bawdy,
and soul.

…because we end up meeting the wrong kind of “corny” outside of that.
not to be corny and no pun intended but:

everyone i know that’s in a long term relationship or marriage met when they weren’t looking or it was purely accidental.

i know it’s not everyone’s story but it’s the majority.

lowkey: i like that her prayer goes beyond finding a manz too.
it took me a while to fully understand what she was saying to God.