last night at like close to 11pm-ish,
in the middle of a deep cleansing facial,
i was interrupted by the sounds of my phone going off.
as much as i wanted it to be “11pm to 3am entertainment”,
it was actually my home vixen.
she wrote this to me…
i knew this was serious,
but i already knew what this was going to be about.
i don’t know if i mentioned her story to the foxhole,
but my home vixen is dealing with an “ain’t shit” wolf.
we will call her “princess”.
so princess met a sexy hispanic wolf and everything was all good in the beginning.
6 months into their “honeymoon phase”,
she got pregnant and had a beautiful cub with him.
well shortly after that,
the real story came about.
he is a notorious cheater and a mega liar.
his ex found princess on social media and provided tons of receipts of his cheating.
he was taking/fucking:
a past girlfriend
a few other chicks
he was spending money on them and everything.
not only that,
some anonymous she-hyena also hit up her with proof as well.
it was some shit out a movie.
i told princess to leave him,
but she is all wrapped up in that hispanic charm.
she also wants to stay together for the sake of their cub.
it’s always a back and forth with those two.
it’s going great and the next,
she will call me in tears after something she found out.
he would beg and tell her that he can’t live without her.
that hispanic shit.
she can’t let go of him.
so last night,
she told me that he went out of state for work.
she wanted to:
hop on a plane with her home-wolf
do a stake out at the hotel he is staying at
if he is creeping with the ex who lives in the same area then she would be done
i said that so she could get some closure.
that would actually devastate her.
let’s just say i had to talk her out that tree.
“what happens after you find out he is in his hotel room with her?”
“i don’t know…”
“you gonna beat him and her with a club?
leave in tears and hop on a plane?
what is the end goal after all this?”
i ended up giving her some solid advice.
The best revenge is indifference…
she knows he is cheating,
so let him cheat.
he knows it hurts her and he won’t stop.
if she is working on her shit to leave,
she needs to let him do his thing.
i urged her to work on her exit plan.
her cub will carry so much resentment to find out mommy and daddy are “acting”.
she ended up putting that plan in the trash.
after i hung up with her,
my only thought in my head was:
I CAN’T LIVE LIKE THAT
that seems like torture.
you love someone and they can’t do right.
that wolf is comfortable.
how the hell do you even make him uncomfortable?
i feel her wolf is a bonafide sociopath and she is starting to believe it.
even his family is seeing through him now.
it’s the fear of the unknown is holding her back.
for her sanity and the love of her cub,
she needs to go,
but i don’t think she has been hurt enough yet tho.
lowkey: shit like this makes me so cautious.
it’s a dangerous dating world out here,
but i’ll jump back in soon…