one huge thing i am starting to learned from pineapples,
especially when you are softer and warmer than other males is…

when they can feel safe with you,
they will suck the water out your emotional well dry and leave you empty.

it took me a very long time to realize and understand this.
when a pineapple says to you in confidence:

“i feel comfortable with you.”
“i can tell you anything and trust you.”
“you are so different.”

with many pineapples,
those are not compliments because they’re actually red flags.
what it actually means is:

“i will drink from your emotional well when i’m in need of comfort.
vixens will judge and other males will think i’m a bitch but you tho?
you are giving me the emotions of a vixen but the friendship of one of my boys.
i’m already feeling vulnerable and you are confusing me.
this is what i assumed i should be getting from the person who is supposed to love me.
this attraction is coming from confusion but i’m addicted to how you make me feel.
i can control you because i’m a control freak and you don’t fight back or give me stress.

because i’m feeling lonely and horny,
i’ll flirt with you and may even fuck you because you are a rebound + available.
i can call and you’ll answer or come for me when i want attention.
once i meet a someone else because you are everything “but”,
or get back with my toxic ex i complained endlessly to you about,
i will be cutting you off.
here is the thing:

when that doesn’t work out after the honeymoon phase is over,
because it never works out since i’m actually the problem,
i’ll be back to suck your emotional well dry because you understand and love me.
i won’t get attached while sucking but since you are lonely and in love with me…

…you will get attached to how good i suck your emotional well dry.”

sound familiar?
i bet it does because it’s pineapples,
whether DL or even out.
it’s the story of being attracted to the emotionally unavailable male.

my emotional well water tastes crisp with the finest minerals and alkaline.
i’m protecting my emotional well from these pineapples going forward.

you should start too.