Foxy Lifestyle: Affirm… Dammit.

What do you want?
I mean, really, what do you want?

I know what I want, but do you know what you want?

I dream of this….

and lets not forget this….

do you know with a slight change of your thought pattern,
you can achieve this all?

Crazy, but it is true.

We all go through periods where we feel like we are not going anywhere.
I know I do sometimes and it sucks.
I went through a very dark road at one point of my life.
I did not know if I was going to make it out alive…

But I did and I am here to share some tips I am learning as I grow.
And if you call yourself a Fox,
you WILL do the same.

I was posted up with my female Foxes over at Baller Alert and they had a post dealing with affirmations.

Affirmations are phrases you say in your head or you write down but pave the way for your ideal life.

So instead of thinking:

I will never get a guy like that.

STOP immediantely… and change your pattern to:

I am attractive to all men.

Well not really because it takes dedication. It may not happen right away but I promise you that you will see results. You will still get negative thoughts but you have to say “STOP” in your mind and start fresh with a better thought.

I’ll be honest with you Foxes,
I had to go through a few tests because I saw results.

“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

Everything starts with the mind.

You say you are ugly, then guess what? You are ugly. You say you are too gay to meet the man of your desires and guess what? You will be alone. Better yet, you notice if you start your day with, “I’m going to have a bad day” that you usually do? If your ideal guy doesn’t call you or hit you up, you have casted yourself into a bad place.


It is all within your thoughts. You have to change it.
I decided to try some of the ones I found on Baller Alert:

I meet many new and exciting people and race forward to new and thrilling adventures that bring richness and love ever fuller into my life

I expect sudden opportunities and recognize each with fearless faith and great gladness for the pleasure and fulfillment it abounds

I readily accept my full and complete worthiness. I deserve joy and wealth in a loving relationship

I readily accept glorious good times, radiant happiness, and prosperity in health, love and finances

I now attract all good things to me. I now meet just the right mate at just the right time for mutual joy in prosperity and happiness

Pick one and for thirty days, say it throughout the day and start imagining the life you want.

Once you start changing your mind,
good things will start to happen… I promise.
Now, don’t just think all you will do is lay on ya ass and it will fall in ya lap.

You will notice opportunities start to arise
and your confidence will go way up.

I enjoy this.
You will enjoy this.
More “Foxy Lifestyle” to come.


Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

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