for a while,
i was holding out on getting the jab.
i wasn’t an anti-jabbed civilian who never wanted to get it,
but i had a lot of questions that weren’t getting answered.
i was actually waiting for it to be fda approved.
even though i wasn’t jabbed,
i was on my p&qs.

Mask on
Social distancing
Staying away from large crowds
“Don’t even look at me“

that was all good until new yawk dropped this bomb on the city…

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if this panny has taught me anything,
i’ve learned that i can’t do corporate anymore.
i iz tied massa.
tied.
i’ve been in corporate for close to 10 years and my cup runneth empty.
ya’ll cups runneth empty to the way everyone is protesting going back into an office again.
i felt what my sista,
jasmine gardens,
was talmbout when she posted this video on her ig:

 

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why would you want to go back to jobs where folks are going to cry in the bathroom?

Why is it okay to be pushed to the point that you’re crying at work??!?!

i couldn’t believe that behavior was coming from bosses i thought were cool too.

everyone thinks white corporate is a shit show,
but i’ve learned black corporate is just as worst tbh.
it doesn’t get any better on that side of town either.
this doesn’t apply to all jobs,
but this is my experience…

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everyone thinks content creating is an easy job,
but honestly,
it isn’t.
from creating movies,
acting,
clothing lines,
making albums,
blogging,
vlogging,
to whatever you do that is creative,
it takes a shit ton of emotional work to do.
folks think that i wake up every day and come on here and just write.
i always get asked questions like:

“How can I make a blog like yours?”

…and i’ve always struggled with the answer.
i can tell someone to start a blog or turn on the camera.
it’s easy to do that,
but there is more that comes with it on an emotional level.
i was thinking about it for the last few days and came up with a few thoughts…

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unfortunately,
we don’t get mental evaluations with those we date.
we only find out they’re crazy when they show their bat shit craziness.
ex-nfl baller hyena for the seahawks,
chad wheeler,
is in need of a mental evaluation.
the media wasn’t covering what he did to his black girlfriend,
but social media made sure to get this story moving…

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out of all the attentionistos,
lamonte stennis of exotic paintings is one who disappointed me.
maybe it was his muscular ass thighs that hypnotized me?
he decided to be really obnoxious about his trump supporting.
we have to accept others will have different views than us,
but when you say things that are a literal turn off?

a foxholer sent me what he posted and i’m thinking to myself…

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i’ve never watched “abc’s the bachelor” a day in my life.
it never sparked my interest.
i would always say to myself:

“They would never have a black person on this show.”

i ended up being wrong because they had a sista on there before.
her name is rachel lindsay and of course,
she picked a white male because i doubt abc would have an all black cast.

see her ig: here

well today,
in what i feel is “trying to cater to the times“,
they casted a black male for their new season.
everyone meet matt james…
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