Your Attiude Fucking Sucks Dude.

What if I told you that the reason you maybe alone is because your attitude has gone to shit?

Would you believe me?
Would you want to fight me?
Would you stop reading my site?
Or, would you actually do some self realization and listen?

I would hope you do the last one because you really don’t want none of this!
lol
But seriously, they say our attitudes determine our latitudes.
Well if that is the case…

Why are so many of us still learning how to fly?


These days, it seems the bitch or asshole is the star.
I won’t lie and say some of them I am drawn to because of their ability to make me laugh.
You throw one temper tantrum or put someone in check RIGHT,
people flock to you and become your followers.
Hell, it even turns Wolves on when you put THEM in check.
You can’t tell me why those Basketball Whores of LA are as successful as they are.
They have a couple fights and some Twitter beefs and BOOM: D-List Celebs with 15 minutes of fame.


I have noticed in my real life that I have intimidated a few people.
I didn’t mean to… but they crossed me and I had to verbally assault them with some words.
I’m not the type to talk behind your back and all that female bs.
I go right to the source and calmly address the issue.
That is, until you want to get brolic and I have to show you who you are dealing with.

I noticed in this lifestyle, gays can be very nasty.
They like to call people out, fight, and even go as far as outing people.
Some of us truly act worst than Vixens, in some cases.
Ultimately, it only gives “us” a bad name and makes people cast even more judgement.
In dating, there tends to be a lack in attitude etiquette.
Those who think they look better or have better tend to throw their attitudes around.
You have a nice body or even a couple signature pieces in your wardrobe and you think you can treat people like shit.

Where did all the nice people go?
Do they even exist anymore?
Are they all ugly?
There are nice people who exist, but are we really just attracted to the bitches of the world?
People are trying to keep up with the New York and Evelyn of reality television.
No one is humble anymore and it is pretty sad.

When it comes to your attitude, this lifestyle, and how you treat people…


Do we really toast the Bitches, Assholes, and Jerk offs (OH MY!)?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

7 thoughts on “Your Attiude Fucking Sucks Dude.”

  1. They bring attention to themselves so one may notice them more. It’s true good guys and girls finish last because they don’t want any drama but thats all people want now days. Personally I’m not for all the bs just give me a beer, book, and some good porn to watch and I’m str8

  2. I’m aware that my cynical views may be a turnoff for some, but I can’t help it when I meet the SAME dudes who act the SAME way and have the exact SAME views.Yes there are plenty of goodlooking dudes out there, but I’ve often found the more goodlooking they are the more underdeveloped and catty the personality is.

    On the bright side, all of this makes the truly nice guys stand out even more.

      1. Yes they do. Currently getting to know someone like that now. I’m willing to jump through a hoop or two for someone who doesn’t allow their environment to change them. A moral compass, good values, and a polite demeanor all without being stuck up is very hard to find.

  3. Its unfortunate, although perceptions could be off. Recently, I visited my high school and while talked to an employee I’d been close to while there a group discussion formed. In this conversation, I became the forum topic lol. It was brought to my attention by underclassmen, one in particular who had obviously observed me extensively, that I was perceived to be rude, stuck-up, superficial, judgemental, frigid, snarky, “too good”, and not shying away from rejecting others. Yet, she cleaned it up by saying she knew me and that it wasn’t my attention, I just wasn’t interested nor did I ever genuinely befriend/associate with anyone. In short, it was very apparent that I wrote people off especially those in my age group or younger. Honestly, despite being able to admit to slight superficiality (working on that), I didn’t mean to offend anyone at all. I was and continue to be guarded as a defense mechanism which translates into being aloof and distant (i.e. giving people the cold shoulder). From my body language, facial expressions, to the tone of my voice I screamed BEWARE if I don’t fuck with you don’t even bother. But, in my head, I was just trying to survive in the cruel cruel world. I said and shared all of that to say, I know its a poor excuse but you never know what headspace people are in or what they’re going through internally. No, it doesn’t mean its okay to treat people like shit but I try to be understanding and less judgemental because I know what pain looks like. Call me crazy but in a sense, I am drawn to those kinds of people, not because I think its cool, entertaining or am drawn to the glitz/glamour/drama of it all but because sometimes I can see through all of that hot air and look right onto the mist under their eyes. I want to love and love them hard with the hopes that it breaks down the fear they’re trying to mask. I remember how it felt and just wanting to be loved but not knowing how to give it while hurting *shrugs* just my lil two cents maybe relevent maybe not…

  4. I think that the nice ones are still out there but they are harder to find because in our lifestyle the foxes are like you said worst than a vixen and only make a ass out of themeselves in the end. I for one am a nice guy, I am very polite, and sociable with just about mostly everyone.I think that the nice guys arent really “In” with our lifestyle because of the illusion that someone more interested in what your thinking, or your well being isnt normal. I think when we stop trying to dictate what love is supposed to be like, who its suppose to come from, and how its supposed to be expressed, we as a group in my opinion will be more successful with dating.

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