The need to be liked and appreciated is a BITCH, ain’t it?
I think it all started from our parents.
As kids, we did whatever it took to get their attention.
We did something good, and we got rewarded.
We did something bad and we got punished.
That happened until we got into school and we did things to get and keep our popularity.
Which group did you fit in:
When we leave high school and get to college or even the workplace,
it seems those titles still matter.
Is life still one big high school after high school?
My job is like one big ass high school unfortunately.
I happen to be the star player, while others watch on the side lines and hate.
The exact OPPOSITE of what I use to be in my high school experience.
I have a lot of people in higher positions who like and admire me for my work ethic,
but it has caused A TON of jealousy amongst some of the miserable.
Even some of the dudes here low key hate on me for how I kinda get my way.
One of them is Co-Worker Wolf from entries past.
I don’t get it.
When I use to be a loner and kept to myself,
I still got hated on by people and they tried to walk over me.
Now that I morphed into the Fox of dreams,
my personality is on 100 and my style is something out a magazine,
it has caused even more bullshit to come my way.
In life, there are people we want to be friends with who will not like us.
We ask ourselves, “well what did i do?“.
But we never say to ourselves, “well, FUCK YOU too!“.
It is that need to be liked and appreciated that fucks us up each time.
It made me wonder about where we fit in after high school.
In any place we go, we still have to deal with social groups and desired cliques.
Social networking sites have even made that more enhanced.
You will get
or even undeniably ignored by people you think are cool.
My life has proved that someone with everything can still look down on something with not as much.
… and I don’t do particularly anything but SHOW UP.
My mentality is I WILL NOT LOSE… and you WILL NOT DISRESPECT ME IN THE PROCESS.
Plus, I kinda don’t give a shit and my mouth is kinda wreckless when I’m upset LOL
Why are people so catty?
And, why can’t we all just come together and get along?
When it comes to fitting in and being cool…