you know my stance on this topic.
People are hard on males exploring their sexuality.
vixens can’t handle it.
no one was talking shit when half of them were eating pussy in college.
this judgmental attitude,
even with gay and bi males as friends,
is why males will continue to be on the dl.
for the first time in history,
said something i actually agree with.
he had an interview with jason lee of “hollywood unlocked” and the question was:
Should sexually fluid men notify women that they’ve been with other men?
and this was his answer…
Vixens want males to be open and share,
but as soon as they do,
they condemn them for it.
…ala molly and the bisexual in season one of “insecure“.
she fucked up a good relationship because of that nonsense.
i’m all for males being honest,
but are we really allowed to be?
Males that are insecure destroy everything.
there have been a number of males who are/have been attracted to me in my journey.
many of them were my type and i was down,
but their insecurities destroyed any potential “whatever” we could have/had.
just because you experiment with other males doesn’t mean the whole forest will know.
like with vixens,
you can do that as lowkey as possible.
the issue is that because of how the world views males who sleep with males,
there is always this destruction that is going on inside them.
so because they’re being destroyed on the inside,
they are destroying everyone on the outside as well.
If people accepted males are sleeping with males,
whether in or out of the closet,
there would be no issues about it.
that feels like such a “duh” moment.
there are millions of black males in the world and a few are sleeping with other males.
that doesn’t mean every black male is either.
straight black males still outnumber gay and bi ones so…
andre’s interview with jason lee premieres tomorrow (12/18) on fox soul at 10 pm pst.