there is something sexy about dominating another male in the bedroom.
there is also something sexy about the feeling of being submissive.
many males brag about dominating sexually,
but if you are good at emotional role-play,
you can have him submit to you and only you.
that is a whole other topic tho.
in sex,
i have fonted to many Foxholers that love to dominate,
especially the cocky or homophobic males.

i lovvvvvvvvvvvvvvved hearing about a past attentionisto that is so homophobic online,
and had an issue when i fonted about him on The Foxhole,
but he sure did bend over and get smutted out when his money and aura started running low.

allegedly fonting that is.
the point is not the alleged tea but:

males love to dominate other males who claim they are alpha

personally,
i think a lot of gays revel in domination because of past bullies.
in some of my fantasies,
i have topped a few of my bullies and OPPS.
i could never imagine the thought of them getting on top of me.

gays are still males at the end of the day,
so topping another male feels sexy and alpha.

i saw this post on reddit about sleeping with a past bully.

by that description,
that jackal would never touch me,
but everyone in the comments was fonting about destroying that past bully’s hole.
it was this comment that stopped me in my scroll…

mmm.
aside from the few thoughts that flew through my head,
it made me wonder about foxes who don’t top but still want to dominate.
is there still a way to dominate another male without using your penis?
or do you have to emotionally dominate him and make him beg to fuck you?
if you let a past bully fuck you,
after all he put you through,
then that still reinforces his power and dominance over you.
he can slap you around,
call you names in dirty talk,
choke you out like he wants you to die,
and disrespect you by leaving his cum all on your face.
all the things that you should do to him and send him home feeling degraded.
it’s one thing for your manz to dominate you.
it’s another when a bully from your past gets to do it again.
so when it cums comes to domination…

can you only dominate by being on top?

lowkey: i feel like when you fuck a bully from your past,
it reinforces that he was bullying you because he was secretly attracted to you.
he bullied you because it was a way of him trying to close off his emotions.
why would we award past bad behavior with future sex?
even if he says sorry and begs for your Foxhole,
that is all cute until post nut clarity hits him and then he hits you again.