The True Full Blowing of Your Back Out

Have you ever been fucked in an alley?

How about a parked car on the side of the road?
What about some anonymous stranger walking into your hotel room?
Maybe even a hook up in a sex shop?
Have you ever been fucked to the point you were begging for mercy?
By , two or three different Wolves?

This lifestyle can have interesting ways for a Fox to get… fucked.
But, is that all we are nowadays?
In straight relationships, the alleged correct order is DATE then FUCK.
In gay relationships, it is HEAD, FUCK, then FUCK some more.
Realistically…

Are we just human blow up dolls?

Make sure you work out 6 times a week so your body is right… to fuck.
Make sure you eat enough pasta to make sure your ass is plump and fat… to fuck.
Make sure you go to school and graduate college so your mind can be smart… to fuck.
We do a lot of fucking in this lifestyle that pretty much leads to no where.

The comments in the last couple of entries have been very interesting.
I have clearly been mind fucking you to oblivion with all this sex talk.
Our newest member Killa has been providing interesting insight for the Alpha Wolves.
His motto is BLOW A FOXES  BACK OUT.
Not just any type of back blowing neither.
If you aren’t in a wheel chair, then you haven’t been fucked.
Sounds like a side of dick that I may skip on the menu.

With all this easy sex, have Foxes stopped looking for a relationship and just started looking for sex?
Has the mind frame changed from dating to just giving any Wolf some toe curling sex?
Should we just stop looking for something serious,
and really start looking for sex?

It got me thinking about sex, sex, and more sex.
Wolves are hunters and the dynamics between a straight and gay relationship has it’s differences.
Wolves seek out Vixens to breed and populate the world… but they are really just thinking about sex.
Vixens are seeking a husband, but as much as they deny… they are also thinking about getting some sex.
Wolves/Hybrids seek out other Foxes/Hybrids to fuck and then look for more men to fuck after that.
Masculine, feminine, or inbetweenEVERYONE is getting it in.
But is everyone basically just out fucking their chances of finding anyone?
If people are even still looking anymore…

When it comes to all this great back blowing sex we are getting/trying to get….

When do we find time to have a relationship?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

92 thoughts on “The True Full Blowing of Your Back Out”

  1. Most of the foxes & hybrids that I meet are only interested in fucking…whenever I try to seriously get to know somebody they put up a wall but when I talk about blowing that back out they know what time it is. If you act like a jumpoff/hoe/fox of the night then I will treat you like one. And the next one will get the same treatment.

    1. But honestly Stevie,
      it seems we are now programmed to expect a Wolf to just want to fuck us.
      I have been meeting Wolves as of late and I have NOT been bringing up any kind of sex.
      Wolves ASSUME and hint that they want the ass.

  2. I dunno if I give off a strong sexual present when I talk to these Wolves,
    but I was talking about something real basic and this Wolf gonna switch it and ask me if I had any cobwebs that needed dusted off…

    wtf?

    1. Lol we are sexual creatures. I think about sex a million times a day…I might talk about it but usually im joking. I wont complain if it actually led to something tho

      1. ^I think about sex a trillion times a day…
        but the issue is that if we got it in,
        you wouldn’t look at me the same…

        … so what angle does a Fox need to go to get taken serious by a fine Wolf as yourself?

      2. If we got it in and you still tried to get to know me on a non sexual level then I would take you seriously because you are about more than sex. Foxes and wolves both have needs…it is what it is.

        1. ^well you must be a different breed.
          It’s like you have sex with the Wolf and then want to know him,
          you are a CHECKED on his list of smashes.

          Maybe I need a Wolf instruction booklet.

          What are a Wolf’s needs, btw?

  3. I don’t think about sex that much honestly. Maybe I’m weird? I think more about intimacy. I live for it. But I’m going to have to side with Jamari on this one, from my experience, the moment you sleep with them its all it becomes about. It’s tough to have a normal conversation with a wolf without it somehow turning into sex. And no, I don’t want to send you a naked picture to put into your database. I think the prevalence of sex obsessed foxes has to do with us believe that’s all you want and its often reinforced. So many will settle for that and give it up… hoping that you will stay around.

    So, Steven, help me understand. How you can say: “If you act like a jumpoff/hoe/fox of the night then I will treat you like one” and then turn around with “If we got it in and you still tried to get to know me on a non sexual level then I would take you seriously.” That doesn’t make sense to me? So is the difference between the two one just sleeps with you and the other after hes done sleeping with asks you about your comic book collection or what sport you played in high school?

    1. How you can say: “If you act like a jumpoff/hoe/fox of the night then I will treat you like one” and then turn around with “If we got it in and you still tried to get to know me on a non sexual level then I would take you seriously.” That doesn’t make sense to me?

      Like I said…we all have needs. I been messing with this fox for about 3 or 4 months and he always talks about how he’s tired of wolves treating him badly blah blah blah…I was actually trying to get to know him and see what happens, but everytime I try to spend time with him he shoots me down, unless its about sex. On the other hand, this other fox that I’ve been spending time with (I’m an animal…I know) actually likes spending time with me. We chill…eat…go to the movies etc. I fucked him the first night I met him (don’t judge us…we were drunk) but I always saw something in him that I liked from day one and I knew he was more than a hoe. Does that make sense?

      1. Does it make sense? Sort of.

        You slept with or are still sleeping with both of them at the same time. But one you kind of liked and the other was not as “available” as you’d like for them to be for you to figure out if there was something there. But they were both being sexed during that same time. So if the one-drunken-night fox hadn’t slept with you and instead was like “no sex until monogamy” would you have dropped the others for him and pursued a serious relationship?

  4. I think it really just has something to do with trying the product before buying it, like on both sides with foxes and wolves you want to try the product before its brought so you get to that first and then after it make a decision as to whether you want to keep it. Moreover, I notice that some wolves and foxes don’t know the difference between what’s good for them and what’s not so good for them and they chase after a misconceived idea and end up with heartbreak.
    I have to agree Vain, sex does come up but with experience it allows you to touch on it then move on to the more important stuff to converse about, you can let the sex convo go too far you got to bring it in after about 5 minutes because that’s when it starts.

  5. Steven :
    All wolves are different…my needs are simple tho: someone that can cook, give the azz up, and lemme play video games and watch football

    That’s pretty common.

    …and what benefits does the fox get out of cooking, sexing, and leaving you alone for about 3 to 6 hours?

  6. I don’t fuck if I’m not dating you. Even then I’m not lettin you get some unless you prove you’re worth it. Once you do, all those times I wanted to fuck but didn’t, is gettin taken out on you. Lol. Its like after three months of bein broke, finnaly gettin a high paying job with benefits.

  7. sc8709 :

    UrSoVain :
    What ever he wants? Really? Alright, so then…
    What do you think our needs are? Be specific.

    Lol that’s not fair…answer the question

    That’s absolutely fair. What do you think those needs are? You’ve dated or at least slept with more than few. What do you think their needs are? Be as specific as you can (keep in mind ive read your blog lol).

    1. Lmao…I guess a fox wants to be loved and protected. He wants to know that no matter what his wolf is there for him and he aint going anywhere. He wants to be able to trust him and talk to him about ANYTHING. He wants somebody that will listen and have an open heart.

  8. sc8709 :
    Possibly…but 99% of foxes don’t say that

    You know WHY they dont say that? Because 99% of the time they think if they do… you would all go away. And most likely… they’d be right.

      1. Nope. Some of us do. But for the most part we all dont just want to fuck.

        That may very well be you imposing your view on us (because that’s what most you all want) and us complying in order to get your attention because otherwise… you’d find someone else who will and leave. Or am i wrong and that has not been the case and you’ve stuck around with a fox who didn’t want to sleep with you until you formed a healthy foundation and became and remained exclusive?

  9. To Quote Billy Joel “We didn’t start the fire it’s been burning since the world’s been turning!!!!” Look it is the fucking bottoms who created the fucking Alpha male top monsters!!!! It is as simple than that, it is the bottoms out there who kept saying for years “I want a real top to cum and fuck da shit out of me!!! Oh man all I keep running into are other fucking bottoms; I need a real man a top who neva been fuck oh no if you been fucked don’t even try looking at this azz. It is the bottoms who said I need to go to the gym and get my azz all plump so this top will fuck this azz. It is the bottoms who out number us fucking tops 10-1 that populates the gay bars, and the gay events to find that good dick top!!!! It is the bottom who say I want a fucking no caring, drug dealing, uneducated mutha fucking top to get dis azz!!! You know what we top’s said No Problem.”

    Moderator, your forum is nothing but a shrine to us fucking tops!!! Not the sensitive caring tops but the fucking tops who will fuck you, then fuck yo best friend and then go fuck your best friend’s best friend!!!!!!!! Check it cause I am going to drop some deeps shit on yo asses !!! LOL This forum is a symbolic rectum a big electronic ass hole puckering online for that lubed up top dick!!!! So being the brutal top I am , I cum here and fuck da shit out of this “Fox Hole!!!!” lol let me repeat this I cum here and fuck da shit out of this top worshiping sight!!! I stick my big azz dick in here and fuck every wall on this fucking site and I leave it fucking bleeding and asking for mo lol!!! You know what cause I am a FUCKING TOPS.

    To my true top brothers reading this and you know who you are, cause when you wake up in the morning you can say “Hey I am going to stick some ass today!!! I don’t need money, I don’t need a job, I don’t need a car, I don’t need to love, all I need is this dick in a willing azz. I will say this that we tops have dropped the ball some cause with GREAT FUCKING CUMS GREAT RESPONSIBILITY. Yeah we fuck these bottoms boys to death but most of the time we fail to provide them with the leadership they so fucking crave!!!!! As a result many of our prey has lost their way, thinking they have a fucking right to tell us how to give dick. No We give dick how we want to and yo ass betta like in or kick fucking rocks!!!! I mean bottoms are giving us licence to do what we fucking want to do!!! Check it on this site and moderator I fucking love ya son and I am going to tap dat azz they way I want it and when I am done you are going to buy me a new car!!!!.

    Peep it though We fucking Tops are referred to as WOLVES on this joint, while the bottoms are called foxes what’s up with dat shit? That is why you need yo back broken in seven places LOL .From a true top’s perspective hell ya it’s about busting dat azz, and moving on to busting some mo azz. This may all change one day when fucking bottoms start seeing themselves as men and not a male who is competing with black females for a man. Let me say this in closing I am going to fuck all you bottoms in this fucking forum and some of yall weak ass tops cause yo game is wack!!!!! Oh yeah I would say forgive da grammar, but fuck all I don’t have to worry about my grammar cause yo asses get what I am talking about!!!! So who want some dick???

  10. I know he didnt just say needy… *throws chair out the window* Lol, Nah Sc you got a point but what Vain is saying is true, I’ve told a Wolf or two straight up, that I’m feeling that and I want to all that you just said and honestly speaking yall see all the foxtail so you’ll not trying settle down just yet until you’ll get in yall late 20’s to 30 then you want to listen to reason.

    1. Nerd :
      I know he didnt just say needy… *throws chair out the window* Lol, Nah Sc you got a point but what Vain is saying is true, I’ve told a Wolf or two straight up, that I’m feeling that and I want to all that you just said and honestly speaking yall see all the foxtail so you’ll not trying settle down just yet until you’ll get in yall late 20′s to 30 then you want to listen to reason.

      Ur right…that’s part of the reason my last relationship didn’t work out. Men are in their sexual prime in their early-mid 20s and we have no thoughts of settling down. That’s why you usually see older Wolves with younger Vixens…unfortunately things are different in the gay world. But there are young wolves out there that are willing to settle down, you just have to be the RIGHT fox for that particular wolf

    2. Thank you, Nerd. I couldn’t be alone on this.

      Lol But late 20s? Too early. I typically think it happens around early to mid 30s when the light bulb clicks on and the online messages become less frequent.

      1. How is that interesting? Because how is it that after all the boys on boys on boys you’ve ran through… you still don’t know for sure? All of that stuff about trust and protection and communication and an open heart (whatever that means?) all sound good but at the end of the day you just threw all of those things out of no where? Probably because they sound good lol.

        What do i think our needs are? Well we’re all different. But for myself and the friends i have we all want the same things. Be consistent in your actions. Have your actions match your words. Take the initiative. Talk to us about things WE are interested in and ask questions (we’re usually the ones who have to show interests in your hobbies in order to get your attention). Ask simple things like “What do you think?” and “How are you?” Tell us or show us that you like us preferably in more creative ways than “Well I’m witchu’ right now aren’t I?” Let go of all the other skanks you’re sleeping with early on. Be honest about how you feel in the moment and be specific in what you want from us EARLY ON. Don’t make it all about sex.

        … foxes let me know if im missing anything.

      2. Now was that so hard? And for the record I haven’t RAN THRU that many boys lmao. But now that you finally put the list out there I kinda see what you are talking about.

      3. You see how you were evasive and all ‘what do you think we want?’ That ish is annoying. as. hell. SC told you what he wants & then he asked you what you wanted/needed & then you wanna say guess? Nope – bye.

        We’re not mind readers; if we ask you something, answer the question. That’s one reason a wolf (or specifically, me) would be done.

      1. I don’t think his age had much to do with that though. Possession and control is more of an insecurity thing where because he doesn’t eel good about himself or that he’s worthy enough to be with, he makes sure that you don’t go anywhere or get into situation where you might leave.

  11. sc8709 :
    Now was that so hard? And for the record I haven’t RAN THRU that many boys lmao. But now that you finally put the list out there I kinda see what you are talking about.

    That many? Lies and deceit.

    Its tough for us to maintain a wolf’s attention. There’s a lot of talk about “the right fox” will make you settle down but i dont think most of you even know what that looks like let alone would settle down at all even if you came across him. Sex is the easiest way to keep you all around. Plain and simple. It keeps the texting consistent and it’ll get you to come around and wanna spend some of your precious time. When most of us are ourselves you all tend to not be interested. You begin to pull away within the first two months lol and we scramble to get that attention back again. If most of us were upfront and said “no sex before monogamy” and that we’d like to get to know you better… you’d probably entertain us for a little while to see if its true and keeping us on the back burner until you “feel like” making that effort while still calling that whore u met off grindr to come over in the mean time.

    1. Wolves are hunters/predators/animals right? Like I said a million times before, ALL men (foxes, wolves, hybrids, trannies, inbetweens, etc.) have needs. We all gotta do what we gotta do. Most wolves can have sex with the whore off grindr and it won’t mean anything. That doesn’t mean we don’t care about you or we don’t wanna get to know you. And most wolves (straight & gay) have short attention spans, which is why you have to use short simple words when talking to us. We aren’t slow or stupid, we just like to get straight to the point.

      1. You keep saying “needs”. So i assume you mean (SEXUAL) needs? And if so, our (foxes and wolves) needs are NOT the same. Most foxes just wanna settle down and have ONE consistent wolf. That’s it. I cannot say the same for your species. lol

        And sure, you can sleep with tons of foxes and it not mean anything. I don’t doubt that. But in getting to know you while that is going on… its often been that you all want your cake and eat it to. You want the freedom to be able to sleep around (regardless of what it means) while still having someone there as a shoulder to cry on, to stroke your ego stroke, and entertain you at the same time all the while not really being exclusive and monogamous with that one. From my experience its asking too much of a wolf to be exclusive. Ive said this before but it always comes off like you’d rather all the benefits of being in a relationship (sex & attention) without the actual relationship (commitment & availability).

        And maybe you all do have short attention spans? I believe that. But that’s no excuse for being emotionally unavailable or giving just enough of yourself so that we’ll stay around but won’t expect too much from you.

  12. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^THAT is very interesting.
    So this is why Wolves have shorter answers in texts????
    I guess I was too smart for the Wolves I was talking too.

    I’ll be writing essays and getting back short answers. The worst part for me is when the responses are really long after the initial text. Like when you’re talkin’ bout sex your responding within seconds but when its something else you take DAYS to respond and even then there isn’t much to build on? Cuter boys are notorious for this.

    1. YUP!
      I know how the cute Wolves are too well.
      Sex convos it will be like bopity bop bop but I ask the nigga is goals and you would I though I asked him to solve the budget crisis.

      1. LMAO!!!! @ “like bopity bop bop” HAHAHAHA!!! I’m crying over here! That’s hilarious!

        But so true! I hate talking to cute boys cuz its so difficult to get through to them. They never wanna talk!

        1. ^lol

          It’s because the conversations with them go like this:

          “your sexy” says fox
          “thanks” wolf replies
          Long pause
          “so what do you like to do?” fox asks
          “chill reg shit” wolf replies
          Long pause
          “what u lookin for?” fox asks
          “watever” wolf replies

          So you don’t want to loose him since his attention span is that of a jungle bat

          “U wanna cum over to chill this week?”
          Fox asks
          “hell yeah” wolf replies

          This is when he starts talking

          “let me see an ass pic” wolf asks
          “ok” fox replies

          Sends pix

          “ok” wolf replies

          Long pause

          “did u like it?” fox asks
          “yeah” wolf replies
          “can I see another pic of u” fox asks
          “ok” wolf replies

          That must have been code to send a dick pic

          “nice dick” fox replies
          “thanks 🙂 I want sun of Dat azz”

          And then that’s when it starts…

          Um boring….
          Lmao

  13. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^THAT is very interesting.
    So this is why Wolves have shorter answers in texts????
    I guess I was too smart for the Wolves I was talking too.

    U aren’t necessarily too smart for them…I always give short answers in my texts because I’m laid back and I usually don’t have that much to say. But I’m definitely an intelligent person. Like I said, most wolves like to get straight to the point. And Vain, you say that most foxes want a relationship, but most of the ones that I meet just wanna get fucked, plain and simple. It is what it is.

    1. ^but Stevie,
      I dunno if you have noticed,
      But you are a sexy Wolf so of course they are going to want to smash you.

      You are the one who smashes em…
      So you are also entertaining the… Fuckery.

    1. At least when it comes to the long pauses and asking of pictures and to come over. They normally do the initiating of everything nonverbal and im like what can you just tell me how your day went? Please?

      1. Pretty much!

        And is usually met with something like “uumm… no time soon” or sometimes i try to give them an opportunity like “well get to know me first and we’ll see” and that’s being generous. They never really stick around however.

  14. #whoisjamarifox :
    ^but Stevie,
    I dunno if you have noticed,
    But you are a sexy Wolf so of course they are going to want to smash you.
    You are the one who smashes em…
    So you are also entertaining the… Fuckery.

    Lol I am? Hehehe…so if I was ugly would I find the “I just wanna settle down and be monogamous” Fox?

    1. Uummmm…. no lol. But if you were actually interested in settling down and explained that to the foxes you meet and approached it in that sort of way you would!

    2. ^yeah, I’d bag you.

      But seriously,
      Maybe if you held out on fuckin em and train em into seein you aren’t “that wolf” – maybe things would be different.
      Since you are cute and a Wolf,
      You direct where it is going to go.

      Maybe that is the issue with Wolves in general.
      If I met a Wolf who didn’t want to fuck me so fast and get to know me,
      Actually made me wait to receive any kind of penis from him,
      Things would actually go smoother.

        1. ^Stevie….
          Are you trying to cuff whores?

          I mean… You lookin for someone like me
          And I’m lookin for someone like you…

          U need to be in this state so I can tame you and you can tame me and BAM…
          Successful relationship!

          Lol

      1. Hold on Jamari, have you seen us all? I mean you know what each of us looks like? I dont think anyone esle knows what each of us looks like?

  15. sc8709 :
    Most foxes will just move on to the next wolf pipe

    Has that been your experience when you meet a fox you like and said to them that you’d like to get to know them first before sleeping with them?

    1. UrSoVain :

      sc8709 :
      Most foxes will just move on to the next wolf pipe

      Has that been your experience when you meet a fox you like and said to them that you’d like to get to know them first before sleeping with them?

      Somethin like that…

      1. YngBlkWolf :
        You see how you were evasive and all ‘what do you think we want?’ That ish is annoying. as. hell. SC told you what he wants & then he asked you what you wanted/needed & then you wanna say guess? Nope – bye.
        We’re not mind readers; if we ask you something, answer the question. That’s one reason a wolf (or specifically, me) would be done.

        Wait a minute…

        I don’t care if its annoying lol. I wanted to know what he thought before i gave my answer because typically when i respond first and then ask “what do you think?” the default response is almost always “yeah, what you said” instead of “i don’t/didn’t know” (which i figured was the case). That’s way way more telling to me.

  16. sc8709 :Most foxes will just move on to the next wolf pipe

    Stevie I dont know where in the nation you live but the boys of each region have different tendencies, so I say you expand your search because I know a couple of my follow foxy friend looking for a nice wolf to settle down with and if you really about that you say, then I’d like to change ya view of us, by referring a “good” fox to you..

    1. I never said I wanted to settle down…I’m just stating facts. I’m sure there are a FEW foxes out there that wanna settle down, but most of the ones I meet just wanna smash. I don’t have a problem wit it #imjussayin it is what it is

  17. Sorry I meant to write something but oooooh!! *smirks* So does everyone know that I look like and etc? I’ve always wondered, who everyone was..

  18. Killablaq :
    To Quote Billy Joel “We didn’t start the fire it’s been burning since the world’s been turning!!!!” Look it is the fucking bottoms who created the fucking Alpha male top monsters!!!! It is as simple than that, it is the bottoms out there who kept saying for years “I want a real top to cum and fuck da shit out of me!!! Oh man all I keep running into are other fucking bottoms; I need a real man a top who neva been fuck oh no if you been fucked don’t even try looking at this azz. It is the bottoms who said I need to go to the gym and get my azz all plump so this top will fuck this azz. It is the bottoms who out number us fucking tops 10-1 that populates the gay bars, and the gay events to find that good dick top!!!! It is the bottom who say I want a fucking no caring, drug dealing, uneducated mutha fucking top to get dis azz!!! You know what we top’s said No Problem.”
    Moderator, your forum is nothing but a shrine to us fucking tops!!! Not the sensitive caring tops but the fucking tops who will fuck you, then fuck yo best friend and then go fuck your best friend’s best friend!!!!!!!! Check it cause I am going to drop some deeps shit on yo asses !!! LOL This forum is a symbolic rectum a big electronic ass hole puckering online for that lubed up top dick!!!! So being the brutal top I am , I cum here and fuck da shit out of this “Fox Hole!!!!” lol let me repeat this I cum here and fuck da shit out of this top worshiping sight!!! I stick my big azz dick in here and fuck every wall on this fucking site and I leave it fucking bleeding and asking for mo lol!!! You know what cause I am a FUCKING TOPS.
    To my true top brothers reading this and you know who you are, cause when you wake up in the morning you can say “Hey I am going to stick some ass today!!! I don’t need money, I don’t need a job, I don’t need a car, I don’t need to love, all I need is this dick in a willing azz. I will say this that we tops have dropped the ball some cause with GREAT FUCKING CUMS GREAT RESPONSIBILITY. Yeah we fuck these bottoms boys to death but most of the time we fail to provide them with the leadership they so fucking crave!!!!! As a result many of our prey has lost their way, thinking they have a fucking right to tell us how to give dick. No We give dick how we want to and yo ass betta like in or kick fucking rocks!!!! I mean bottoms are giving us licence to do what we fucking want to do!!! Check it on this site and moderator I fucking love ya son and I am going to tap dat azz they way I want it and when I am done you are going to buy me a new car!!!!.
    Peep it though We fucking Tops are referred to as WOLVES on this joint, while the bottoms are called foxes what’s up with dat shit? That is why you need yo back broken in seven places LOL .From a true top’s perspective hell ya it’s about busting dat azz, and moving on to busting some mo azz. This may all change one day when fucking bottoms start seeing themselves as men and not a male who is competing with black females for a man. Let me say this in closing I am going to fuck all you bottoms in this fucking forum and some of yall weak ass tops cause yo game is wack!!!!! Oh yeah I would say forgive da grammar, but fuck all I don’t have to worry about my grammar cause yo asses get what I am talking about!!!! So who want some dick???

    Wow

  19. Ah, yes, finally.
    I was beginning to think that’s gays/bis and people in general are not thinking anymore. Thinking and awareness is what will keep us awake before we become mindless. We are different from animals because we are given the ability to reason.
    Clearly that line between human and animal is blurring nowadays.
    Sometimes, when you do something so much, it becomes a part of the environment and you are not aware of it. It’s when you start thinking about it and taking a step back do you realize that… you’re a blow-up doll ! A sex toy !
    I’m glad you covered this topic, Jamari. Many people nowadays, especially wolves, foxes, and hybrids, do not realize the immorality of casual sex. As a social scientist, the consequences are clear as I have done years of intense though, debate, and research. To most people, they are blinded. With so many reasons, I’ll focus on the one you touched on in this post.
    That would be morale. Yes, sex is pleasurable, but so is crack. But just because we there are no obvious, short-term, or physical consequences, we are quick to say that “there is nothing wrong with having casual sex”. We are looking for reasons to back this up, so anything not tangible (like unseen “strings” in the concept of “no strings attached”) is brushed aside. We make up excuses whenever we can to justify our behavior. It works in our favor. Back to morale: if sex is so great, what is the purpose of life other than to do it? If you think about it, anyone, whether you are illiterate, dirty, ignorant, rude, anyone, anyone, can get sex through the Internet. There is always someone more desperate than you are. With that said, what is the purpose of education, work, or even hygiene? It may sound extreme, but I do know of people who dropped out of high-school and don’t care for their future because they discovered A4A and their life is now “complete”. Apart from the extremes, morale is affected by all who partake in casual sex. Even the stuff that they do do is for sex. Like you mentioned, people work on their bodies, get smarter, etc. all for sex. Look at it: we’re feens. It’s quite disgusting looking at what filthy creatures lurk among us. What kind of person does that make you if your main life purpose is to have sex?
    This is quite a complicated concept to explain, especially when you don’t want to hear it. But people need to wake up. I think this post has a switch; read it a few times and it might turn it on.

    1. MW you make some interesting assertions, however as a fellow researcher; I am understandably curious that your analysis is repleted with subjective value filled words. Are you coming from a perspective of a social scientist who is sharing his objective researched formed opinion regarding sexuality, or are you coming from a subjective emotional perspective when making your conclusion.

      1. Very smart 😉 I am aware of the fact that at times, a personal subjective side does come out, and I often question myself as to whether or not I’m doing this for personal reasons or whether it’s real. I do not want to be the hard-headed individual that allows personal biases to get in the way, so I do look at it from both sides. I was not grown up this way or is just stubborn or whatever; in fact, there was a time when I was one of those people I speak of. So I do understand the thoughts and reasonings and pleasure behind it, but I am also aware that not everyone is the same (and didn’t feel the same feelings and thoughts I did), so I do take that into consideration. I do thank you though for pointing me out, I suppose the certain subjective choice of words I chose does smudge my credibility, turn some people off instantly, and unnecessarily insult others. I can say that the argument itself is objective though, but mixed in with my subjective feelings towards the matter. I guess I allowed it to come through as it is a blog comment, not a research paper lol. 🙂

  20. MW:

    I really appreciate your very open and transparent sharing of your thoughts, your feelings, and reflections. It is very reassuring that a fellow intellectual, and social scientist can admit that sometimes his internal process (temperament, values systems, etc) may at times possibly contaminate his research process. I am also glad that you were able to acknowledge your humanity as it relates to the subjective aspects of your observations. I would love to compare notes with you one day regarding my observations, research and possible conclusions about black male sexuality including the various aspects of homosexuality,bisexually, top, bottoms, verse etc. ;-). The rest of you mutha fuckas I got primo intellectual dick ova here waiting for ya. Yo sup moderator, I may have sum business in the NYC area, and I got a fresh pack of magnums, and some fruit flavor lube. You ever been to the Essex House they have some very strong king size beds there!!! LOL

  21. After reading you guys post, I dont know where the hell I fit in this situation..Im a top but im not really into the meaningless fucking. If i wanted meaningless sex, I can fuck a fleshlight while watching porn to get a nut. Ibe slways been the hopeless romantic type.I love waking up in the morning with my boyfriend head resting on my chest with the sunlight reflecting on his face to wake him. I wont move until hes woke just so I dont disturb his sleep.I love when he makes dinner and i come up from behind him and wrap my arms around his waist and kiss him and say baby, thanks for making dinner. Hes a vet, work two full time jobs and in between those jobs, hes with me. I work and go to school to complete my degrees. I live in New York City and the Ass is evrrywhere. Guys will flirt on the bus, on the subway train,Walking down the block and everything else. In a small town, its easier to maintain a stabble relationship and goodones dont come around to often due to the small community in that town..But in New york City, its free ass and gay outlets, clubs, bars, and greenwhich village to find gay guys. Me and my mans is young. Im 23 & hes 25 but where a team. We do whatever we gotta do to make our relationship work.Bills and rent, we do that as a team. Ass is easy come & easy go but i just cant afford to fuck up my happy home. Guess im one of the lucky ones and a exeption to the rule but I was in it to win it from the jump. I was never in it fir the ass from the beginning. People say we wont last cause wherr young & somebodies gonna fuck up somehow.But even if this happiness last only a little while, better to have learned love, rather than never have known at all. People say they know love but have no idea..Until you build a supportive team with a partner and form a real house hold, then you havent really gotten a clue..Alot of G.B.T. MALES out theyre are really just lost ones..

    1. Don’t worry about where you fit in & just enjoy the relationship you have with your man. Most people – even the ones having casual sex – would love to be in that position; and those that say it won’t last are ‘haters’ or just jealous. It works for you two, so enjoy it & limit yourself to those who who will come against you because you’re young. Having been in love before, I know it’s a feeling worth having & keeping. I’ll just say always keep the communication open between you two & never get so infatuated/in love that you can’t ‘see’

      Good luck to you two!

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