The 499 Booty Calls Of A Wolf-Hybrid Rapper… But Jamari Fox Ain’t 1.

“let me see all the people you messed with.”
“i can’t boo…”
“why not?”
“there is too much.”
“what is too much?”

silence.

that was the rapper wolf-hybrid.
i mentioned in my other entry a couple days ago that i met for lunch.
well, he was at my crib today.
he wanted to come over because he needed to get away.
plus, he wanted to let me hear a single he has been working on.
give him some tips on what he should do as far as his image.

low key: i still got myself “prepared” before he came over.
just in case.

i may have let him knock the dust off.
i know.
it’s been a long time and the way we been flirt texting….

so during the time he was here,
we were all over each other.
it was innocent.
i laid on him.
he was laying on me.
he wrapped me in his arms.
i stroked his head.
(the top one).

he handed me his phone and said:

“i want to be honest with you….”

i thought:

“uh oh”.


i went to his photo album and saw nothing but sex.
dick.
asses.
pussies.
jerking off.
fingering.
some with him fucking.
him getting head.
him jerking off.
his photo album was good enough for myvidster.
this was the visual confessions of a pimp.

“oh my god…”

lowkey: he has a really nice dick.
cut mushroom head.
he also knows how to squirt.
funny enough, he hates the sight of a dick.
he is obsessed with ass.
i showed him a naked picture of a wolf that was trying to talk to me.
he nearly threw up at the sight of a dick.

just as i said that,
a text came through to his phone.
some thick body builder sent him a naked pic.

“hope you like baby….”

he told me it was someone he met.
doesn’t live in the city.
judging from the number,
not even in the country.
i can’t!

he then opened up my computer and signed onto his facebook.
he showed me all the foxes and vixens on his list he banged.
it felt like it was almost half the 4,000+ list!!!
all of them mutual friends with each other.
i noticed some wolves i have even featured in various meat.

“messed around with them.
no sex.
just jackin off and light work.”
– in reference to the “wolves”.

some who looked like wolves were foxes he beat down.
he had little tag lines for each of their picture:

“his head is so fucking good yo…”
“that nigga’s ass was made for my dick…”
“yo this nigga right here… he is everything….”
“that bitch pussy was so wack.”
“her pussy though…. muah…”


i was blown away.
i couldn’t even talk.
he admitted to me that this industry is full of hoes.
they will do whatever to be put on.
studio sessions.
some people he met in clubs.
others were one nighters.
different states.
he is sexy too so you already know that is a plus…

he also admitted to me he messed with over 500 people in the last 2 years.
male and female.
married and single.
sometimes 3 a day.
sometimes 4.

“what if that was me and i showed you all these people i messed with?
what would you think of me?”

“ew.”

“ew nigga????”

“i’m just playing…”

it made me tighten up my butt cheeks.
i told him that i don’t want to be on his list.
he replied he would never think of me like that.
he likes that i looked at him stupid.
he says that i am mean.
that means “we ain’t fucking…”

i really think the wolf hybrid rapper is a sex addict.
he left a half hour ago to go fuck some nigga he met at an industry party.

“i’m trying to beat that tonight.
ill let you know if i do.”

this is how he could talk about jamari fox.
no thanks.

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

87 thoughts on “The 499 Booty Calls Of A Wolf-Hybrid Rapper… But Jamari Fox Ain’t 1.”

  1. Jamari, he’s a hoe. Keep it on a friend basis. I mean somehoes r sweet ppl, but don’t fuck him. It would complicate things and just be a disaster

    1. ^im still disturbed at the things I saw.

      i never met someone like that before.
      i thought this shit only existed on a talk show.
      yeah, he will NOT be fucking me.
      i really appreciate a low key wolf.

  2. Oh yea he’s a hoe and a big one. Men like him are the reason why we need to not get attached so quickly. Jamari I’m glad you picked up on it before he swooped you off your feet.

    1. ^nawwww!!!!

      i told him before he left that i wasn’t impressed with that.
      i told him that it made me look at him differently.
      he was use to fucking so many foxes and vixens,
      and messing with wolves,
      that the fact i looked at him like he was nasty really bothered him.
      i told him i’d rather us just be friends.

  3. LOL DAMN! 2,500+ people? am i reading that right? good lord……..jamari im glad your strong willed cause that wouldnt have been a good look. this guy i dated a year ago was a porn addict. but he was extremely low key about it. the only way i found out is cause i was on his computer and saw 4,000 files in the movies section and clicked on one. he even made xtube vids and when i found out we cut our communication at once. lol i bet there is much worse is the concrete forest

    1. ^i had to edit that.

      it felt like it was “half of his friend’s list”.
      the mutual friends was the WORST!
      every other name was connected to someone he fucked or messed with.
      a lot was just head.

      he has been a busy guy.
      but i wont be on that list.

      1. he has a sex tree like you would if it was a family tree. SMDH THATS TOO MUCH FOR ME! but at least he was honest about it kudos for that but why did he tell you? was he trying to get serious with you? if so he should have it in his mind that its a 99.99999 chance you not gonna date him lol

        1. ^it was like vines taylor!
          you looked at one person and he already had about 7 of their mutual friends.

          i mean we are cool.
          i just didn’t think his dick stretched to this extent tho.
          either way,
          friends only.
          i may feel up on his body,
          but that’s as far as that goes.

  4. Alright, lets be honest here….if we all individually counted up the amount of Ass/Dick we have had im sure none of us are in the single or double digits…..This wolf/hybrid flaw is he shared his dirty laundry and was honest with and just so happen hes in the industry so ass is easier…..
    Can we really judge this man espically in this lifestyle? I was thinking the other day about me and my bestfriend was counting how many sex partners we had men and I counted 100 (wasnt proud) but that was 13 years ago when i was 18….in all honestly i can only imagine the number now. Foxes always want the truth and when u get the truth you turn your foxtail up at us wolves! If that man wouldn”t have showed you his sex library and kept it on the low, would this entry ended differtently? When foxes ask about my past, i tell its exactly that my past you just stick with the present and worry about the future.

    #imjustsaying

    1. ill be honest im in the double digits but im only 24 and i made alot of mistakes thus far trying to find what kinda person i am and the person i want to ultimately spend my life with. im not against dating someone whos in any digit range if they be honest and tell me and SHOW me they about me and only me you wont ever hear anything thing about the past from me. thats the whole reason i broke with my last dude not because he had x-tube videos but because he waited a whole year to tell me after we spent everyday talking and weekends and holidays with each other it was a slap in the face. would it have bothered me yea a little but id have had so much more respect for him versus me having to find out the way i did. im not judging him because of the numbers but because of the way he executed his approach to telling his numbers if he was trying to be serious about someone. thats all im saying. if someone im dating asks about my past ill tell them and i might tell them something i think would be important for them to know.

    2. Who in the holy fuck is having that much sex with different partners?!

      What the hell do you all do with your time? Do y’all work? Seriously. When the hell do y’all find the time?

      1. PLEAASSEEE DON’T JUDDGEEE ME….AND I WON’T JUDGE YOUU

        CUZZ IT CAN UGGGGLY, BEFOREEE IT GETS BEAAUUTIFUL

        LETTTT IT BE BEAAAAUUUTTTIIIFULLLLL.

        Lmao ok I’m done.

      2. lol i was kinda thinking that but they must be employed somewhere where they have a flexible schedule. @JAY i promise not to judge lol

      3. LMAO… Yo you crack me up Random. Most people hook up online or at sex parties. That would be the only possible way to have a great amount of partners at a young age. Nobody has gaydar that good that they can just spot a dude off the street and take one home every night.

  5. True Life: If you asked me for a number of the people I’ve done anything sexual with you’d be out of luck. I don’t remember them all. Like Vain once said “It’s like trying to remember all the times you’ve touched yourself inappropriately”. Lol

    I’ll be like “Oh I forgot about that time I got head from so and so on his layover from NYC and Oh there was this other freak that let me smash in the dressing room of the American Eagle store he worked at.”

    Five minutes later…

    “Then there was this manager at the grocery store that gave me head in the parking lot”.

    I’d probably go on like that for the rest of the day.

    I could just lie and give you some arbitrary number like 7 and condense all the times I do remember. Lol how would anyone really know otherwise?

    1. true shit! i guess the only way you’d really know is if you the gossip hound trying to find out the 411 in which case people find out shit they dont wanna know about. i only remember because i use it as a self learning lesson.

      1. Luckily my taste have always varied so I don’t mess with ppl in the same circle.

        I did intentionally sleep around though to see what I liked. That experiment didn’t get the desired results though.

        I still say head and bad sex doesn’t count though. Who remembers every time they got head? Who WANTS to remember bad sex? Lol

        So if you subtract both of those two my number is pretty conservative…I think. Lol

  6. This dude just admitted to fucking over 500 people (with visual evidence, the whore keeps records) in the last 2 years…
    This dude has literally slept with over a ton a people (2,000 pounds of flesh!).

    SMDH.

    How old is he?

    What is his status on the three big H viruses? Don’t he know gonorrhea has become drug resistant?

    That’s just sick when you really think about it: he has also indirectly slept with every person those 500 people have slept with too, and that’s just in the last two years.

    Be afraid.

    If you’re a hoe, don’t try to dress that shit up. Nasty bastards should be identified and avoided; they carry plagues.

    1. I agree. What happens if the condom breaks or some shit? I know it’s wrong to judge but I…oh my goodness.

      I’m gonna have to ask the dude I’m talking to TODAY how many he’s had lol. If he has a high track record I just might have to let him go. I really like him but if his number is off the charts I’m done.

  7. I’m in between Terry, Jay, & Iceed – yeah, some of us may have higher numbers. However, 500 people in any sexual way (head, azz, jerking) in 2 YEARS?! Mind you that’s only 730 days – so this mofo has had sex more then every other day…and I’m guessing he’s in his mid-20s. I’ve had my hoe-ish period, but dayum! And I had regulars. So how many before the 2 years? This definitely sounds like an addiction. And I can’t see how you can put your d1ck in that many holes & not come away w/something – even the spiritual residue of 500 people.

    I doubt he’s told anyone else his number or shown them what he showed you, J. That being said, leave that cock alone – if he really wants to change, he needs to show you…and leaving your crib to go fugg some n*gga is not the way.

  8. Everyone acts like I’m speaking a different language when I say head has become casual, which is why it shouldn’t count.

    Yeah you can catch something from oral sex, but you can catch something from kissing people too.

    Exchanging explicit pics before even meeting has become common and who here hasn’t asked or been asked to whip out there penis randomly?

    Hell, if you have even a halfway decent talk game you can get your dick sucked, even upon the first meeting, but only “hoes” do that huh? Lol

    I remember at this one party this extremely attractive bottom was sucking this dude up and he was about to slide a condom on when dude stopped him and said he only does oral. That bottom looked pissed as fuck! LMAO!

    So would a dude who has only received head 500 times be better than someone who has fucked 500 times in two years?

    That should prove my point.

    1. Whether oral sex has become casual or not is irrelevant to someone like me. To me, it shouldn’t be and I give side eyes to people who attempt to justify sluttish behavior with “Well, everyone else is doing it too!” A lot of people are fucking raw too. Doesn’t make the shit okay.

      1. What’s intimate to you may not be intimate at all to the next person. I’m guessing the whole point of this body count game people play is to quantify the number of intimate encounters. Oral sex isn’t intimate, thus it among other encounters will never count to me.

        Now if we’re talking health concerns we can get tested and that will be the end of it, but let’s not act like everyone in a relationship can run down their partners sexual history like the alphabet, and even if they can who knows if its accurate.

        Like I said, a dude wouldn’t be labeled a hoe if he just let a whole lot of chicks and guys suck his dick. Bottoms would be claiming, fucking, and cleaning his penis like it’s royalty.

    2. i think head would win. i personally have sent dick pics but not to people i wasnt dating for awhile cause i was scared they would end up somewhere. i dont consider someone a hoe necessarily because they take dick picks and exchange them with the person they bout to get it in with. now if they sending them to alot of people id think again. IMO its the idea that hes bragging like its something to be proud of that makes him a hoe. and the fact that he had a back up in case j wasnt gonna give up the cheeks.

    3. It just sounds like an excuses to be a whore, honestly. If a guy runs me a list of guys who’ e given him head and it’s what I would consider to be an outrageous number, he’d be a whore to me. No question. What the next bottom will settle for is none of my business.

      Personally, I love a guy with some discretion. Even if he is a top, being selective about who he wants on his dick. That increases a man’s attractiveness ten fold to me.

  9. I thought it was funny that he mentioned the industry is full of hos as if he wasn’t included in that bunch.

    Anyway, it sounds like he has a problem. A real problem. Maybe a sex addiction.

    1. I went to take an AIDS test last week and the girl asked me the question,actually two that I hate….1) Have you had sex with a person of the same sex and 2) How many partners have you had in the past week…..So my thought process went like this:

      Monday- the cutie in the gym that decided to join me in the shower after a heavy stare down in the sauna (LA Fitness)
      Tuesday- my co-worker who claims he straight who decided he wanted to kiss me, and we all know how far a kiss can go…. This just went as far as head though, lol
      Wednesday – regular cut buddy
      Friday- went out ran into my dude..,..we have been fucking for over 3 years, but its the weirdest shit….dude is a hybrid, but you will only think he’s a wolf and we run into each other at least once a month….no phone numbers and don’t even know his name, but he has the best ass

      So I said all that to say shit happens and I go with the flow, so do that mean we are all sex addicts….we are men!!! And is it a bad thing??

      1. Yes. That’s his point. Lol

        I’ve just never been one to judge someone by their sex life. I did my dirt and I learned it takes more than sex to keep me interested.

        I wish every time someone talked down on what’s going on in someone else’s bedroom someone from their sex life would pop up put them on blast.

        Like “remember that time you painted me?” or “that time you sucked me up in my car after the club and let me nut your mouth? You said it was your protein for the day”. Lol

      2. @Jay. I would never have that problem. My sexual past is pretty damn spotless.

        But my problem isn’t totally the sex people are having. If you’re going to do your dirt, then do it. My problem is the excuses that come with it.

        “Everybody does it.”
        “Oral sex isn’t a big deal.”
        “We’re men. That’s what we do.”

        If you’re going to be a whore, then own it. That’s my only complaint.

        I have a friend who will openly admit to being a whore at one point in his life. Totally different guy now and is actually in a long term, stable relationship. I don’t judge him because he owns his dirt.

      3. Random being a man has nothing to do with being a whore. Being a whore is a choice not something we can’t control unlike our attraction to men.

      4. So smashing two strangers, one of which you don’t even know his name or contact information, and messing around with dudes you sort of know within a four day period isn’t a bad thing?

        At least you getting tested.

        SMH.

      5. Just a FYI – you do know none of those dudes count in that test, right? The 3-6 months prior aren’t covered…just saying

  10. J Fox is a patient saint. I am going to go to the other side of the coin and give the hybrid-wolf a compliment. I appreciate the fact that he is man enough to come out and reveal his encyclopedia of encounters. It seems as though he does not keep it secret from anyone and he gets referrals and endorsements making his hoe behavior more of a job and not a personal or intimate. Morally and socially it may seem wrong for him to have all that sex but it seems as though he is not misleading anyone. If everyone is okay with it and safe is there really a problem? Btw I am sure that there are some f/w/h/v that can beat his record hands down. When money is tight azz loosens up.

    1. Say that! First of the month, rent is due, you won’t have to worry about catching a dog. You’ll have to worry about a dog catchin yo ass. Lmao

      Excuse my randomness. Lol

    2. From what was given, the hybrid cant say thats his job cause he aint got nothing to shoe for it. He still trying to get a big break.

  11. i dont care what happens in the bedroom of other people as long as the person in my bedroom not telling everybody and they momma what we did in the bedroom. lol S/N: @jay what did you say when he said it was his protein for the day? that sounds corny i would have told him dont leave his day job….

    1. Oh, I don’t care about anything they’re saying after I climax. Lol

      This whole convo has me seriously trying to think of my approximate number. I did most of my messing around years ago so its hard to remember and they were random. There were times I met with dudes and within five mins of them giving me head I was over it and left and the ones that didn’t have a good enough head game to make me nut.

      I’m sure I’m less than 40 if you count everyone that has even touched me in a sexual way and a single digit if you’re talking about how many I fucked and made me nut. Like I said a lot of it was experimentation.

      1. to be honest i was just commenting on j’s situation and not as a whole because honestly how many sex partners a person has really doesnt matter in this day and age i think its the mindset and his actions that made him a hoe and not numbers. people gonna have sex i get that. there was others before me i get that. its just the way you carry yourself that matters to me i guess. i wouldnt mind experimenting but i wanna do it with someone i can have a future with hence why im only at 10 now. i woulda did all that shit with the last one buttttt he fucked that up royally by all the lying and dick pics being sent to random people while we were dating. little did he know i was ready to do shit i never did before OH WELL his loss. lol

      2. Dont worry Taylor, youll find your true boo and when you do you can give him all kinds of freaky but until you find him you go head and get freaky with yourself. You ever tried Jacking off, while your legs behind your head and cumming in your own face? Aint nothing like getting freaky with yourself lmao.

  12. Ronnie
    OCTOBER 23, 2012 AT 1:42 AM
    Dont worry Taylor, youll find your true boo and when you do you can give him all kinds of freaky but until you find him you go head and get freaky with yourself. You ever tried Jacking off, while your legs behind your head and cumming in your own face? Aint nothing like getting freaky with yourself lmao.

    lllllllllloooooooooooooooollllllllllll!!!!!! if i was flexible i MIGHT try it…..i dont know i never did that to answer your question. but im fine with just jacking off till a good dude comes along. i have never tasted nut……i never thought id like it. shit most of the dudes i been with to be real they sex game was mediocre at best-_-

    1. See Taylor, those guys dont know how to please you. You know what you like. You better flip them legs behind your head and give yourself what you been waiting on.

      1. looooool imma have to do some serious stretching for that to happen…….either way you funny as shit! lol

    2. Taste yours first; then you might need to drink more water, eat fruit (pineapples & cranberry juice especially), don’t smoke, etc. to change the flavor…oh, and get to stretching – cuz when that wolf wants to bend you like a pretzel & get in them gutz, you wanna be prepared 😀

      1. lol.i heard about pineapples helping.ya’ll are some freakkksss for real. but im in no rush cause aint no dudes looking my way around here. unless im looking the other way. lol S/N: am i the only one that just figured out home improvement stores keep sexy wolves 24/7? lol

  13. In the sex department, hybrids and wolves have it way easier as there are more options and are more likely to fit the hook up criteria. I’d be more surprised if a fox had those kinds of numbers because we’re all fighting for the same ones. Rapper wolf-hybrid is a hoe and he owns it. There is nothing you can tell him. Don’t like it? Don’t ask. If he gets tested regularly and practices safe sex, isn’t that all anyone can ask of him? We assume that a person is more valuable when they’re more ‘selective’ about who they sleep with. We assume that because he choose to sleep with us I must somehow be of value as well. With the advent of social media, casual sex has gotten way easier. Commitment and dating exclusively are uncommon. That’s just how things are right now.

    1. thats true. i already know im not gonna be on no ones list to get at and im fine with that. im not masc or fem im in between so i realize especially where i live at everyone wants just wolves and thugs. i realized a long time ago the only thing i can offer someone different is my personality cause im not drop dead sexy im not a thug or a gym head so if they dont like my personality then ill keep it moving. but i also dont wanna be someones hit it and quit it tail either. im happy by myself id be lying if i said i dont get lonely cause all my friends got girlfriends/boyfriends but im fine with hanging with them being the third wheel and looking at sexy dudes and playing my ps3 with sexy sounding dudes on mic. relationships died out lllllooooooonnnnnggggg ago i just got hip to it a couple years ago.

  14. I’m new to commenting but i read Jamari’s blog all the time. I think it’s a tough discussion because when someone is sleeping around, you tend to think hoe. However, when single, a person should be able to have fun with anyone that is consenting and not involved. A person can be wild as all outside, but then get in a relationship and be extra committed. You just have to be conscious of who you are as a person. If you meet somebody with an extensive pass, first thing would be to get tested. It would be important to know how does this person think, and what are their morals and goals. If someone is really interested in you and wants to be with you, they will change their ways. They will also work on their bad habits. Only if they are really interested though.

  15. Whew since Im past 30 and probably one of the older ones on here, Im gonna say, ask me no questions and I will tell no lies about sexual partners, but thanking God, even after some slip ups, still HIV negative, and no other STD’s, its not that inconceivable to rack up double digits in this lifestyle even if you are conservative. I have some homeboys who are wolfs who have racked up double digits in just a years time. Finding bottoms who will hook up with you without knowing any thing about you is easier than a 1st grade math test in this lifestyle thanks to social media. Just like females who are ran thru, most dudes will not respect loose bottoms who have let in an everybody beat their box. Its a double standard but still the norm, this particular dude in the scenario, sounds like a lot of str8 dudes I know, but he is probably safer than they are, and if he is clean, he will still get a pass if his sex game is on point. My biggest complaint about whores is that its really hard to establish a real intimate relationship in this lifestyle when sex is so easy and ready available, and you have so many dudes who will do anything, with no standards, that its hard for relationship oriented dudes to compete. Personally, I just cant get with the new age dating/whoring, of meeting someone and sleeping with them right off the bat, an on to the next one. Its frustrating, but the life I might save may be my own.

  16. Wow….I feel for him man. On the outside I would probably think he is a bona fide hoe but when you really think about he is an addict to sex and he may have severe issues. I would keep it friendly and encourage him to get help. Sex is fun and it’ flattering to be able to get as much ass/dick/pussy/head as you want but these days, it’s never wise to spread yourself thin. I am so happy you didn’t give in to his advances. It says a lot about you that he would be so open with you!

  17. Look, I’m a ho. You can read my blog and figure that out quickly. In the gay world sex is more open and free. There are fewer games about sex like in the straight world.

    That being said this dude may have issues. I’m soooo glad Jamari didn’t end up the latestlink on his chain of freaks. Because you can bet tomorrow night Homeboy would be at somebody’s else place putting Jamari’s business all out.

    This guy is a rapper. He wants to be famous. Studies have shown many people in the entertainment industry are raving narcissists.

    They crave attention. Adulation. Love. Respect. But they aren’t good at returning the favor.

    I respect his honesty though. You know what you are getting. Go on and play with that at your own risk but don’t get attached.

    But don’t hate on him. He is an adult. Most folks love sex. And most gay men I know get their fair share.

    As he gets older he may slow down and settle with one dude for awhile. Or he can keep going well into his 40s and 50s or even 60s — I know guys like that.

    As long as a dick gets hard there will be a bottom to jump on it.

  18. I just want to say this. People can think I’m lying or whatever, but I don’t do hookups and Random sex. I’m looking for someone I can hold down and kick it with on some real shit. I don’t have time to be fucking Tom, Dick, and Harry. My pride would be hurt if I was promiscuous and I probably wouldn’t be able to look at myself in the mirror knowing that I have record setting numbers. LOL. Hookups with strangers is beneath me. I’m know I’m worth more than that so I prefer not to do it. No I’m not thinking I’m better than anyone else, but I’m just worth more than a one night stand. Some may say cause I’m only 19 that I have my whole life to go to experiment and all that, but I know for a fact that my track record will never be above 20. I just can’t.

    1. Interesting,….

      Foxes give up the tail so easily it’s ridiculous….I don’t look for a relationship anymore and when I think I’ve found someone they end up disappointing…..my thing is if u let me fuck on the first night easily then who else would you give it too….I met a fox a few weeks ago, my type a fox in wolves clothing and we connected and I told him straight up… Lets wait before we sleep together, dude was on point could have been a meat post! 1st date we had good convo, 2nd date good convo and food and an invite up to his place and we ended up sleeping together. Sadly that was the end for me…..if you give it up so easily then I’m sure the next wolf in Atlanta that comes along have the same chance

      #imjustsaying

      1. I have a slightly different philosophy. I don’t mind so much that we have sex on the first date – though I try to avoid it – in part because the fox isn’t doing it on his own…I’m there too. Nor do I frown on someone sexual past, cuz I was a ho (I include head & bad sex, Jay – it’s still sex lol). I’d be concerned if they weren’t practicing safe sex & I’d be doubly concerned if they wanted me to hit it raw or swallowed my nutt off break. Then it wouldn’t likely go past a booty call.

        But just cuz you let me smash? Nawl, though I’ve found that when sex happens early, it starts to become the focus instead of getting to know the person…

      2. Question though.

        You said singled out the fox for giving up the ass. In your opinion, it was too easy. But what’s to be said about you, the wolf, giving up the dick just as easily? What makes you any better than him?

        1. ^i think so.

          the wolf will always be “desired” in the lifestyle.
          the fox will be “loose” and wearing diapers.
          just like a straight wolf will always get pussy no matter how much vixens he fucked.
          a vixen will be deemed a hoe and looked down upon.

      3. People see it as that way but it’s not supposed to be. You get me now Jamari? I used to think that way a year ago but I feel different now. Some people see it the way I do while some don’t. If you have hundreds of sex partners you are a whore no matter what. I don’t care if you are male, female, Wolf, Hybrid or Fox.

      4. Yeah, it always has been a double standard when it comes to what a wolf does vs a fox/vixen. We (often) hate double standards, except when they work in our favor lol

        If two people are sleeping together the first night, then neither can say something…it takes two.

  19. So am I to assume that withholding sex somehow makes a fox more valueable? That if I tell you I want to wait that you’ll be more likely to stick around? That sounds really good in theory but… in practice… that doesn’t seem to be the case.

    1. Yes, well I can only speak for myself tho lol. I want a dude to hold out. A female friend of mine was having trouble with a dude she was talking to because he kept leaning towards another female that was holding out and taking things slow with him. My friend has a track record, and I was so afraid to tell her that he probably knows she’s been a round a little and that may be why he’s interested in the other female knowing she’s not promiscuous. I think it’s hot for a dude to hold out on sex because I can really get to know him, and I genuinely like men on a emotional level so I don’t mind a lock on the cheeks. I’m the type of guy that people are attached to because I have the personality and the looks to match, so it’s good for a dude to know that I could have anyone I want to have but I rather wait for you because I’m really feeling you. I’m a Leo, and we’re known not to cheat and being loyal to our mates, so that may be a reason why I feel this way lol.

    2. ….and while you’re holding you can bet he’s talking to other dudes and getting sex from someone else and those calls, emails, and texts trickle away.

      Like I said, the rules of dating men are too arbitrary for me. I believe it can only work when two dudes are really meant for each other and that’s rare. The rest…

      1. I guess it can go both ways, most guys probably aren’t like me lol. Even if the dude is talking to someone else, he still would show the dude who is holding out a great deal of attention, but he also can be playing him just to get the ass. That’s sad because some guys value themselves and don’t give it up to anybody.

    3. Withholding and waiting are two different things.

      Knowing more about your partner than his phone company is a good thing, which should take about a week. Doesn’t mean you’ll be fucking in a week, but at least you know enough to make a healthy decision. This applies to dating. Withholding is just bullshit, waiting is just smart.

      If it’s casual you ain’t even thinking about anything besides the nut.

      If your string of casual partners total more than 10 different people in a week, you are a whore, plain and simple.

      1. Withholding in the context of this conversation is pretty much the same as waiting. Both infer that one is refraining from engaging in an activity. Semantics aren’t really up for discussion though.

        But all of this implies that both parties are interested in getting to know the other on a deeper level. As if there are tons of wolves and hybrids out there. And that there are the same amount who are looking to be tied down and put forth the effort it takes to be in a relationship. And that also assumes that these are wolves or hybrids of quality. If all he wants out of you is sex, it doesn’t matter how wonderful or smart or funny or interesting you THINK you are, he has one goal, and one goal only. Its a lot easier to be in a casual situation with someone because it takes away obligation and responsibility. The rapper described in this thread operates with these flings on his own time. He gets his ego stroked and his sex appetite fulfilled with little effort on his part. He probably uses Jamari as his emotional fix where he’s able to express that side of himself and have someone entertain him. He pretty much has it made. Why buy the cow when there are plenty different types of milks to choose from that you basically get whenever you want?

  20. I’m not here for dating men at all. Too much red tape and unnecessary work. I shouldn’t have to work to get you to engage in a decent conversation with me that does not involve sex. That’s basic shit you should be able to do if you’re interested.
    I am a straight shooter to the core and I always have something to say.

    I’ve offended dudes just because I wouldn’t engage in sexual activities or send nude pictures within a week of meeting them! Not low lives either. College educated, intelligent, employed dudes that are “supposed” to be a little more refined with it.

    I can’t lie I always felt some type of way after engaging in casual sex, but it beats being disappointed by getting your hopes up for something more. I’m working 12 hour days now so no time for sex, but I’d like to get to a place where I don’t feel any type of way about it afterwards like other dudes I know.

    1. Why is it a problem that you feel some type of way about it? Maybe that’s because it doesn’t work for you & you really can’t engage in casual sex? Nothing wrong with that…even when I was casual I felt some kind of way about it – especially one-nighters. To me, that meant I wanted more – I don’t want to get to the point where it’s a throw-away for me.

      1. Oh no there’s no other options for me. Trust me, you don’t want me walking the streets all sexually frustrated. I’m liable to beat someone up for making me miss the light. Lol

        I know some guys that can easily dwarf my numbers. You should see these dudes at sex parties. They’re humping like rabbits without a care in the world. Then they just stroll out like nothing happened. Lowkey if I got laid real good by some mysterious stranger at a party I’d be tempted to ask them out after. You’re not supposed to do that! Lol

  21. I feel like a prude….almost 30 and still in low double digits easily….hmmmm….what quality are you all pulling?

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