if you’re nice and regular, your life probably sucks

the ones we should stay away from are always the sexiest.
i think most of us are drawn to their “i don’t give af” attitudes.
most of the time,
the sex is usually something worth writing home about.

“Dear Mom,
He fucked my brains straight out of my head.
Send help!”

in a “duh” study,
it claims males with psychopathic ways are more attractive.
this is what a foxholer sent me from “the daily mail“…

Women are attracted to psychopathic men because of their confident and smooth-talking ways, according to scientists.

When women were told to rate men on short videos they made, researchers found the best-ranked men were also those who scored highest on psychopath tests.

The disturbing tendencies made men more likely to be confident, to be at ease with themselves, or to ‘know the right things to say,’ the scientists said.

Psychopathic men were found to be charming – or at least capable of pretending to be – so they could get what they wanted, which made them attractive.

Psychopathic men have a personality style that makes them appear attractive to women in dating encounters,’ said PhD student Kristopher Brazil, from Brock University in Canada.

He told the psychology news website Psypost: ‘This may be because they are extra confident or feel at ease or know exactly what to say to get the attention of women.

‘Psychopathic individuals may use their charm and exciting personality to elicit trust and desire, but their ultimate goal seems to be selfish pleasure.

‘The old cliché of getting to know someone well may be one maxim to live by to protect oneself from getting into a relationship with a psychopathic individual.’

this was a good lesson on it:

why do you think all the top serial killing hyenas could get pussy by the pound?
personally,
i don’t think it’s just vixens and gay males only fall for this.
i’ve seen straight wolves lose their whole shit over psychotic pussy.


she done busted up his car and called his mama a old hoe,
but the moment the anger subsides,
it’s like that shit turned him tf on.
i’ve known of a few psychotic pussies to get rings and whole kids.

i read something the other day that said narcs are likely happier than all of us.
the attentionistos might be living in a stress free life according to “insider“:

Narcissists’ self-absorbed personalities are bad news for their friends and coworkers, but might be the key to their higher-than-average happiness, according to ongoing research.

Researchers at Queen’s University Belfast are currently studying why narcissists, or people with an inflated sense of importance and lack of empathy for others, seem to be increasingly common despite their negative connotation, BBC reported.

The study is ongoing, but so far the researchers have found narcissists’ self-reported levels of happiness were higher than non-narcissists. (Of course, it’s possible the narcissists lied about their levels of happiness in order to appear more content than they actually are.)

Still, this research builds on previous studies from the same team, which found that narcissists are more successful in their careers and social lives than non-narcissists. 

“If you are a narcissist you believe strongly that you are better than anyone else and that you deserve reward,” psychologist and lead study author Kostas Papageorgiou told BBC.

so clearly,
all this is telling us that..

The nice ones really do finish last?

article cc: the daily mail | insider

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Author: jamari fox

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6 thoughts on “if you’re nice and regular, your life probably sucks

  1. I hate how these studies are always conducted in a heteronormative landscape. Like okay let’s talk about how men, even if not sexually attracted, gravitate towards psychopathic men with their own unique set of desires. We need to talk about how same sex relationships, friend and romantic alike, are built off of similar foundations and just as dangerous.

  2. I’ll keep it 100. I have seen many “hot felons”. See a cute Black man. Click on the headline, he did something heinous.

    The more attractive you are, the more positive notions people apply to you, regardless of your actions. First thing we learned in Psych.

    People have been dragging me saying the guy I’ve entertained–they think he sounds like he has narcissistic personality disorder and told me to run. I felt so attacked. Looked up the symptoms……I can’t blame them. For the time invested in him, I don’t want it to be true, but he truly is a smile in your face while gutting you out type. I let it go. If you don’t see me post for a while–he got me.

  3. “Researchers at Queen’s University Belfast are currently studying why narcissists, or people with an inflated sense of importance and lack of empathy for others, seem to be increasingly common despite their negative connotation, BBC reported.“

    Uhhh social media? We are subconsciously telling men and boys that if they don’t have a jawline, a v-line, a line up, and a big dick, they are worthless. We tell women that if they don’t look a certain way or act feminine, they are of no use to society. We are devaluating people in a open way and we fail to see the effects of this.

    For me, I don’t need a guy who says all the right things. I don’t need a handsome model type. I’m into weird alternative shit too, but he doesn’t have to be. I crave depth and complexity and openness. I just want someone that listens and not hears me, someone to see me as I am and be willing to stick around. I want a friend before I ever want a lover.

    1. “Uhhh social media? We are subconsciously telling men and boys that if they don’t have a jawline, a v-line, a line up, and a big dick, they are worthless. We tell women that if they don’t look a certain way or act feminine, they are of no use to society. We are devaluating people in a open way and we fail to see the effects of this.”

      I love your entire comment but you really nailed it here.

      Again, love your comment.

  4. Yep, nice guys finish last. I second the social media post. It has given birth to the worst breed of humans. Well, they’ve always been here but social media gives them range.

    Ran across this guy yesterday and he was talking about how he looks good and the guys he messed with weren’t the cutest but he’s not judgemental. He was super nauseating. I’m like

    Today’s been a weird day. First I find out Adonis Cheeks has committed suicide & now these scientist are trying to understand self-absorbed dingbats when the answer in right in their face.

    Narcissistic folks are the perfect salesmen reading to sign you up for their new fitness plan of self indulgence.

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