…then I must have my curtains down.
Seriously, I am so bad at eye contact.
I do a lot of looking off and looking to the side when I am speaking to someone.
I am also terrible at the whole Wolf eye fuckin’ thing too.
I never could get it right and when I do, I feel like I am being obvious as hell.
I am sure they think I’m stuck up or not interested – and the latter isn’t the case.
A lot of people are naturals at this eye fuckin’ thing, but I am such a bad eye fuck.
How do you get them to cum to you with your eyes?
I was on Rexclusive blog today,
and he had a topic about meeting a sexy dude at his job and not being able to look at him in his eyes.
Being in this lifestyle, Wolves and Foxes communicate by eye contact.
We know who gets down and who doesn’t just by our eyes, but for some of us it isn’t easy.
You do not want to be wrong.
In public situations, I never know which is which because a Fox isn’t trying to get robbed or outed.
Case in point…
I met a D/L Wolf last weekend at a “get together” I was invited too.
I decided to step outside the box and do something I rarely do.
Funny enough, we saw each other on the train platform on my way there.
In my mind, I thought he was sexy as hell.
His body was super right and he was handsome, but he looked “straight“.
I will admit, I kept low key staring at him and we would lock eyes briefly, but I would look off.
He turned in my full direction… and that is when I got nervous.
I did some light looking and expected him to head nod or even wink, but nothing happened.
I just dismissed him as straight and left it alone.
When he walked in the same get together later that night,
I said a quick prayer to God and had to make sure I got his info.
I ended up walking up to him and getting his number that night.
Only because I knew for sure he got down due to our surroundings.
He said something to me that stuck with me when I told him I peeped him earlier.
Yeah, I saw you on the train platform.
I’m D/L so I only give a nigga a quick look
and if he doesn’t pick it up then I move on.
When I saw you, I thought, “Damn, he is sexy as shit. Nice little body and got style.” When you looked at me and then looked off, I kept it moving.
When I saw you walk back in here just now, I was like “damn shorty looks right”.
If he didn’t come in that get together,
andI didn’t go up to him and say something (that is another story),
I would have missed that connection.
Another example is a Fox of the past told me his Wolf-friend tried to get at me on the train.
He saw me and the Fox walking together and instantly called him to ask him who I was and if I got down. He allegedly tried to send me some eye fuck love and I totally dissed him.
So how do we do this “stare” thing successfully?
I have been told my stare is piercing,
which causes Wolves to look away,
but strangely enough causes Vixens to get turned on.
I feel like I need an instruction manual in the art of staring or something.
Hell, in the proper techniques in Wolf catching.
Once I started talking to the D/L Wolf, I was able to stare at him in eyes with no issues.
Staring in his eyes a little too much to be honest.
So what I want to know is…