what is this obsession with calling other gay men “girls”?
bad enough the real life girls with vaginas are doing it as well.
is it a sign of endearment or disrespect?
is it our “yo my nigga” in this lifestyle?
you’ll see on other message boards or online forums,
every gay man calling whoever as that.
“look at these girls”
“oh you mean that girl..”
…to a regular dude who just happens to be gay.
tre melvin being one of them.
hell they were calling kerry rhodes a “girl” at one point.
if you tell them not to call you a girl,
they get so insulted or shame you for denying you were born with a uterus.
i don’t get it.
yet if a straight dude was to call them a “faggot”,
all hell would break loose.
maybe i’m weird?
i didn’t hang out in the lifestyle that much so i don’t “get it”.
the dudes i met who were gay never addressed me as “girl”.
they were never deep in the lifestyle either.
now if you are acting like a queen or a bitch,
i’ll call you as such.
even if you’re straight.
obviously that would be a sign of disrespect.
lowkey: funny enough,
i never see anyone call each other girls in my comment boxes.
well expect for last night.