Jamari I totally understand that you are a busy dude and you might not be able to respond or post my fox mail. First, I want to say I think work wolf is bi, I think if you give him enough time he is going to blow your back out. I think you already know what your getting yourself into that is why you have so many emotions about him, and you can’t help your feelings. I’m with you on whatever decision you decide with him, but I say go for it with him just continue to go at his pace, and maybe you should pretend like their is a dude that’s trying to get at you and see his response. So, when I wrote you earlier this year on how to talk to a wolf in the gym, you gave me some really great advice. Well heres the thing there is so much eye candy in the gym I go too, but there is a couple dudes who I really want. So one dude that eye fucked me for nearly a year and a half started speaking to me 3 weeks ago. So last week we had a short conversation and then towards the middle of the convo he says my girl, I was pissed but played it cool. The reason I am writing you is because I like masculine men especially with muscles lol but one thing I am finding out is that the ones I have talked to in the gym are all married or have girlfriends. I am discrete myself so going to a gay club or getting on gay sites is not my thing, so the gym is the only place I can meet men. When these dudes say my wife or my girl it does something to me, because they eye fuck or flirt with me then mention their wife or girl. It sends me to an array of emotions, and I just put them in my acquaintance list, and the result is me being lonely and sexless. There is this other fine dude that is always staring at me but in my head I know he is probably married with kids. So do you think I should pursue these men even if their with somebody, because me having morals and a conscious is not getting me any sex or a warm body to lay next to?
i appreciate the advice on work wolf.
that is always a work in process,
but i will try to remain positive and go in whatever direction it goes.
now i want to show you something.
you can solve your own issue,
but with the advice you gave me.
so you feel the wolves at the gym are checking you out.
they just might.
they eye fuck you and the whole 9 yards.
you speak to them and they mention they have vixens of all types.
most dl wolves can still have pussy by the pound.
when you are entering the forbidden dl valleys,
you will see many vixens.
remember also that many of these wolves are bi.
now i don’t agree with knowingly messing with a wolf who has “someone”.
that is the fastest way to get yourself hurt.
its different if you met someone and they hid who they are with.
this is after you did careful f-bi sleuthing.
n you said this to me about work wolf:
“just continue to go at his pace“
…well i’m going to reiterate that to you.
you are doing the right thing sparking up convo with these wolves.
i say keep on going at YOUR pace and continue to open yourself up.
i don’t know how the gym works,
but one minute you could be talkin about squats,
and the next thing you’re sqauting over his pipe in the locker room:
i know you are lonely.
as a discreet fox myself,
you know i know.
let other people tell it,
you need to attend every sex party or host online app hook ups at your crib.
when you want something more,
it will be a pain in the ass to meet someone.
the cereal aisle.
its usually a big forest and a couple wolves in it.
i don’t know when its your turn.
hell i don’t know when its mine.
i just keep on learning myself and moving at my own pace.
so just keep on moving at your pace,
keep on opening up,
and hopefully someone who is interested will put his paws all over you.
in the good way of course.
also try other places than the gym.
its a big forest out there.
make that gym body an advertisement.
i hope that helps.