Are You The… Rainbow Fuckin’ Kind?

Would you date him:

Chris “Fine As Hell” Evans.
I sure would.
I sure to HELL would.

What about him?

Paul Walker just does things to me.

The Snow Wolves.
A place that we never thought of looking at,
but should we?
Should we, as Foxes, take a break from the chocolate and take a bite into the vanilla?
Is it selling out? Or is it just tired of the bullshit?
Are we just tired of all the requirements to successfully find ourselves in a solid relationship?
One with a man that we are attracted to and will treat us the way we want?
One who ain’t:

Lazy
Broke
On Drugs
Selling Drugs
Straight
or Just Messy?

I had to wonder…

Are you willing to play in the snow?

Now do not get me wrong but I love this:

Nothing will ever replace my black brothas.
Buuuuuut, I think I am starting to be more versatile.
Now not a Hybrid sense,
BUT I am willing to take a chance on dating outside my race.
Why would I turn down someone who is sweet to me,
and who will potentially spoil me,
all because he maybe of another race?
Should it ever be that serious?
These black Wolves are out here getting with someone of another race with the quickness,
yet we as Foxes, Hybrids, and Vixens sit around waiting for our Zulu African Warrior.
With a dick down to his knees and a bank account to the ceiling,
we are praying he appreciates our worth.
Hell, these Snow Wolves taking you on dates and dropping bread crumbs.

Truth be told,
I always thought Snow Wolves and Hybrids were actually quite sexy in a forbidden way.

But, I’m not interested in dating  just ANY Snow Wolf,
he definitely has to meet my following qualifications:

FINE.
$.

Simple.

I was reading the story of Wade Davis and the fact he doesn’t date black men.
In all honesty, he looks like he is completely white washed so I am not surprised.
  But, should he be banished for his preference?
He may have been just fed up and got lucky in another part of the forest.

I started to wonder about dating outside your race.
Why is it such a big deal?
If that person happens to be everything you desire,
but someones in a another color,
why turn him down?
Granted, some black Wolves run out and date Snow Bunnies as a type of trophy.
Like, “look what I got now that I have money!
Frankly, I frown down on those reasonings.
I always figured they ran to Snow Bunnies,
because sistas tend to be on some other shit when it comes to dating.
Sistas can act up if they want to,
but like black men,
they also come with a lot of baggage.

[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CpOMQ41UB9c]


^Who knew I could actually relate to this convo in my future?
Sheesh.

I have no issue getting the Wolf,
but in a world where social networks are your bank account statement,
a fat ass and some great throat equal your worth,
and being masculine or feminine define you as a person,
when you get a taste of a Snow/Spanish/or a fucking Italian Wolf who sees you as a whole…

…. you get a taste of what a solid relationship is.

Something that we all want,
but in the black community,
it is like pulling teeth (and selling a limb or doing voodoo) to get.

“I like a brown skin brotha to the bone…”


But..

Are you willing to try another flava in the rainbow?

Author: jamari fox

the fox invited to the blogging table.

40 thoughts on “Are You The… Rainbow Fuckin’ Kind?

  1. im most definitely open to dating more than just black men. Always been open to dating someone from different culture. No matter what color you are, if youre genuinely feeling me and we hit it off, im up for grabs.

  2. Nope, I tried stepping out if the box one time, and I wasn’t feeling him like that. I would find myself bored if I tried it agian. I like my fellow brothas man.Who’s the first guy up top with the cell phone? He’s a lil cutie, and he looks like fox material.

  3. I am willing to date outside my race. I live in an area where they are around but I think that they are somewhat afraid to date me. I believe they see me and believe that I may not be into them because of persona, but I’m open to it.

  4. Chris Evans, yes

    Paul Walker, no

    Chocolate drop in the white towel, Hells Yes

    I don’t consider dating a White man or any man other than Black as dating outside my race, if any, it’s dating outside of your culture or class–and even then it depends on the person.

    As a military kid, I grew up around everyone so race was never really important or ever talked about really until coming back to the States where by then my made was made up: people are people.

    My weirdest match ever was this Black/Korean republican dude from college. He was fine as fuck though, but his worldview was so different from mine it was never gonna work.

    There are only three types of men I try my hardest not to associate with:

    Broke, aliterate, or stupid.

    One is bad enough, but two or more is grounds for permanent expulsion.

    There are Black men who are interested in individuals instead of a type of Black dude, or Black gay dude, or Black wolf, or temporary label to place on someone. Plenty of Black men see other men as individuals and not some dark twisted fantasy.

    Here’s a thought exercise:

    Black men hate when White men have a Mandingo fantasy (especially the term ‘Big Black Cock’) but nobody says shit when Black men and women do it to other Black men. Why is that?

      1. The word is ALITERATE meaning a person who can read but is uninterested or disinclined to derive information from doing so and not ALLITERATE which means to form an ALLITERATION. An ALLITERATION is the repetition of consonant sounds in two or more words or syllables you BELLICOSE BELLIGERENT BASTARD.

        Thanks for sharing, but next time check your receipts.

  5. So I’m going to have to be the one to say it? Oh ok.

    White gay dudes are not attracted to black dudes in most cases. Yes some have a fetish for us because they believe we’re hyper-sexual, but they don’t see us as a serious option. They’ll date hispanics if they want something exotic. Of course there are exceptions, but for the most part they stick with their own.

  6. No kidding, just having this conversation three days ago with a bi-racial dude who only dates whites dudes, but says he has messed around with a couple of black dudes but only when he was horny. He was talking to a homeboy of mine but says that he does not see anything permanent with him. He says that he thinks most black dudes are full of games, and Im like but you are half black, issues I tell you. I have never dated white, it just grosses me out to be honest, I may be a little over the top but no. I did try to date a Hispanic dude once and it was just too weird. I felt like I had to be reserved about my blackness even around him, even when our culture and hispanic culture have alot in common. I just was not turned on like I am with a black man.

    I have seen a few white dudes who turn my head and the Paul Walker dude is one of them, I think he is a cute white dude, but I cant see myself with him in a sexual way, like I can with so many of the fine ass bro’s you feature on the regular on this blog. I think sometimes, God is going to make me eat my words about white dudes because I am so adamant about not dating one. Who knows that may be the man who finally loves me right. Another one of my friends told me, he is dating outside of the normal lane because dudes of other races treat him better and he never has to pay when they go out(lol). I am holding steadfast that its some good brothers out there, because I think I am one, we have just not connected yet.

    1. Black men are good for:

      1. Sex – A good dick/ass

      2. Making kids

      3. Playing sports – track, football, basketball

      4. Welfare / Mechanical work

      5. Spending money they don’t have

      Other than those 5. Forget it.

  7. Coming from a snow fox’s perspective, I’m completely down with dating other races/ethinicities/whatever the fuck you wanna call it nowadays. My perspective is that if you’re fine, you’re fine no matter where you come from, and as long as you have positive goals, and are seriously pursuing them, that’s all that matters to me at the end of the day.

    You can be black, white, hispanic, etc. and have men of your race that do nothing but play games and have the worst intentions for you. I don’t think that there’s any more or less men that play games depending on their race, so I hate when people say that they don’t date a certain race because they feel that they won’t be compatible with them because of that.

  8. With Wade Davis, it isn’t a preference. He already said he felt (feels) ‘black=bad’ & ‘white=good’ so he’s like those snow queens in the club or on the street who frown their noses when they see a fellow brother or sister on the street.

    I’m not opposed, though I’ll always lean toward Black, Latino, and Asian. Part of it is cultural, and the other is…IDK what it is. I think there this level of ignorance to what I deal with as a Black man that I can tolerate in a co-worker, classmate, etc., but not in my partner. So while I have, for lack of a better word, fvcked the rainbow; I’ve only dated (briefly) one dude. I can’t even tell you why it fizzled, but at least I could tell he was interested in me for who I was, not solely my color

  9. I’m white, and it makes no difference to me about the race of the person that I would date or marry. There are very attractive men in all races. There are significant differences in cultural perspectives and lifestyle across different races, however, that can be make it more difficult for a person of one race to relate to a person of another race in an intimate relationship. In addition to race, differences in social class, educational level, and others factors can make it more difficult for a relationship to work out. These various barriers can be overcome, however, if two people are open-minded and sufficiently attracted to each other.

  10. ive dated outside my race a few times and i didnt see it as a big deal. being in the south it was totaly taboo but we didnt give 2 shits we had fun. i think the social stigmas is what got our community suspecious to dating outside ir race but if the person generally cares for you it dont matter what other people think. when i dated the few snow wolves some where just like the black wolves full of shit but some were fun and as far as sex some got F some got Cs and Bs only 2 i can remember got A++++++++

  11. i literally laughed myself off reading this… SERIOUS FUCKING LY? Lmao.. I started reading your blog for entertainment and ACTUALLY thought u made sense in some of your posts and a refresher from all the thirsty “foxes” and fox mentality i was getting disgusted with..recently you are just displaying that. Did you READ what you wrote before publishing? Cmon, YOU’re a MAN FIRST, given that you need to stop lusting for MANLINESS you LACK in YOURSELF. Thats why it remains a delusion/dream – you want a white man, YET he has to be FINE or have MONEY BUT u will settle for a BLACK guy who is popular, buffed up, tatted up, dick u down EVEN though he doesn’t have anything ELSE substantial?? Im done. `

    1. ^Davon,
      you know what,
      I liked what you were bringing to the table but this disrespect shit I am not feeling babe.
      I know you want to be outspoken and I’m cool with that,
      because I want everyone to speak their mind,
      but if you don’t like what I got to say… there is the “x” or the “red dot” on your mac.

    2. ^and another thing,
      did you read what I had to say or did you skim?
      I said I am OPEN to dealing with a dude who is white,
      and who said I was settling for what you described?
      What I find attractive physically doesn’t mean I lack SHIT.
      I could be messing with niggas out here with bodies and broke,
      but I’m not dealing with ANYONE right now.
      I could be like “everyone else” telling stories about niggas I met on BGC and fucked,
      but I disgress.
      I’m not settling for anyone so because you see me put up a fucking picture doesn’t mean shit.
      Because I bet you none of them would even get me if they came at me with the bullshit.

      So Ima need you to figure it the fuck out before you disrespect me.

    1. No Jamari, don’t apoIogize. THIS IS YOUR BLOG BRUH. I wasn’t gonna comment on this at first, but you know I get down, I got peoples backs. So I couldn’t let it go of course.

      First off, I haven’t liked him since he called you out about the gifs. It is what it is tho. I have a feeling he’s feminine in some sort of way. He throws shade at masc. men who want other masc. men, which leads me to believe he’s either a fem, or he sleeps with them.(no offense to anyone who is a fem, or anyone who sleeps with them. I’m just proving a valid point here.)

      He tried to throw shade at me the other day when I said; ” To me, the definition of a true masculine man is a man who is truly masculine, it’s that smiple. Masculinity is a big reason why I’m attracted to men in he first place. I like a man’s nice deep voice and the way he walks with his back straight and shoulders up. I mean, a dude doesn’t have to play a sport or act like a thug, but just be manly. Is that too much to ask for Vain?”

      This nigga comes along sayin; ”So if a bottom who fulfills all that come along, what next? You bend over for him?.”

      Just cause I want a masc. man, I have to bend over for him? Really tho? That’s MY preference. He has NOT been here long enough to call me or you out on nothing. Look how he pointed out one word Iceed spelled wrong? Now what has Iceed done to anybody? Nothing. DAVON has serious issues and insecurities. The pic he sent you with his dick and the money told a lot about him that he was unaware of. Sending pics with money. Nigga you a joke and an insecure ass clown. Go sit down somewhere.

      I don’t like drama, but I be dammed if I ‘m gonna sit back and watch people be a bully on a blog.

      1. Lol don’t mean to pile on, but I read this blog a bit and from reading him on day one I pegged him as a clown. Yall kinda late with it. Jamari you don’t have to apologize you were way nicer than I would’ve been.

      2. Woah now people, this is wayy overboard. I get in and I see all these emails in my inbox. To answer your question: Im not at all feminine nor into flamboyant out dudes. The only reason shared my experience here so i can get a point across. I admire this blog, im not out and this is an outlet to see the author’s fresh point of view, that doesn’t mean when I see something I think is of line I won’t call it out. Isn’t that what I should give him? Real honest, unedited opinion? That’s why it’s a blog fresh perspective. DL maybe comes with insecurities. Maybe, then I’m figuring this out. I’ve seen too many simple gays it boggles my mind sometimes especially back here in US, then again my young age is probably all in play. All the same, I think I spoke outta love my man, if you’re taking offense to it Jamari – apologies.

    2. Thank you Jamari, its long overdue, I thought I was the only one who felt the disrespect with a lot of what was being posted.

      1. ^i don’t expect anyone to kiss my ass,
        but there is a way to say things without being disrespectful.
        i sat back, read his comments, and kept my mouth shut.
        he crossed the line tonight.
        i’m giving everyone me.
        no faking or funking.
        this is me and i just expect a little respect, as i am giving it to everyone.

  12. Chris Evans – Yes. Paul Walker – Yes.
    Matthew McConaughey – Yes. Channing Tatum – Yes. Joe Manganiello – Yes. Ryan Reynolds – Yes. William Levy – Yes. Mark Walberg – Yes.
    Hugh Jackman – Yes. John Cena – Yes.

  13. I don’t believe in race and would love to find a substitute for the damned term that would stick. Culture, exploitation, prejudice – all very real but not race. But the line is there. And when it is crossed it can lead to a very powerful emotional experience. But I’m guilty as sin when it comes to those chocolate fantasies. Not that they are my only ones 😉

  14. Funny Shit. :
    Lol don’t mean to pile on, but I read this blog a bit and from reading him on day one I pegged him as a clown. Yall kinda late with it. Jamari you don’t have to apologize you were way nicer than I would’ve been.

    Yea, I remember when you got on him before when he was complaining about the gifs. I tried to be nice, but he’s far outta line.

    1. Yup. Have seen his type on many a blog. Miserable angry people who to come on the net to stir up shit cause they’re miserable angry people.The usual commentators on this blog are nothing like that at all so he stuck like a sore thumb.

  15. Davon :
    Woah now people, this is wayy overboard. I get in and I see all these emails in my inbox. To answer your question: Im not at all feminine nor into flamboyant out dudes. The only reason shared my experience here so i can get a point across. I admire this blog, im not out and this is an outlet to see the author’s fresh point of view, that doesn’t mean when I see something I think is of line I won’t call it out. Isn’t that what I should give him? Real honest, unedited opinion? That’s why it’s a blog fresh perspective. DL maybe comes with insecurities. Maybe, then I’m figuring this out. I’ve seen too many simple gays it boggles my mind sometimes especially back here in US, then again my young age is probably all in play. All the same, I think I spoke outta love my man, if you’re taking offense to it Jamari – apologies.

    You may have been trying to get your point across, but you were being a mean too.You were directing comments to certain people in a harsh manner that was my issue. Everybody was letting in go, including me, but it continued to get out of hand. I’m not saying we can’t debate and have a convo. with eachother, but we should be respectful. What you said to Iceed was just mean, what point were you trying to get across then? Were you angry at what he said and that was your way of getting him back? We all spell words wrong every now and then(I know I do), especially when we’re typing. Davon you do sound like you might be going through some stuff since your not out. If you have problems, lets talk about it, we do that all the time here. Nobody knows eachother personally.

    I’m gonna to give you a clean slate since you explained yourself and all. Just tone it down some.

    1. to the guy about alliterate that was sarcasm, maybe some people dont know how to pick it up well ?(another note of sarcasm), besides it sounded like hypocrisy and i would appreciate if someone points it out if i ever display that. Hahahaha Okay counselor, cool have at it.

      1. Only it wasn’t sarcasm, it was childish and out of pocket, and the word is aliterate.

        Alliterate is a verb. Aliterate is a noun.

        You’ve proved my point being that you are, in fact, aliterate and obviously stupid.

  16. iceededppl :
    Only it wasn’t sarcasm, it was childish and out of pocket, and the word is aliterate.
    Alliterate is a verb. Aliterate is a noun.
    You’ve proved my point being that you are, in fact, aliterate and obviously stupid.

    Yes, it was childish and out of pocket and I told him about it too. I hope the 2 of you make up tho Iceed, I really do because everybody has been getting along on here. We have a lot of fun one this blog, and it’s no room for people to be having hostility towards eachother.

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