34 thoughts on “Omari Hardwick Will Harm You For Talking ABout His Wifey”

1. And, Jamari, I like your site. I’m new here. Already saved a bunch of pics off of your shit too (to get me right). You have great taste- and you’re good with words. You earned the bookmark.

2. Who knows, who cares. Well I guess I do, kinda. Yall got all deep when I don’t even see it all like that. He’s on tv and people are going to talk shit, regardless. Especially online. We will NEVER know “WHY” ol boy and his wife got together. Maybe there IS some type of agreement or understand that we’ll never know about (something hot about that). Maybe it’s all love. Looks aren’t everything- perfect example- J and B. I’ll come back to them in a sec though. As for Omari, maybe his woman can have pussy on the side and maybe he can have boi pussy on the side (modern day shit- especially in entertainment). That’s not unusual. Who knows, who cares. I only felt the need to say that because the wife DOES have a certain look. She’s not ugly. BUT she DOES have some kinda vibe going on- from what I see in the pics above. They have a baby and all- great. And the online comments MUST HAVE struck a nerve or something with ol boy though. Niggas need to learn how to ignore and not say shit back. Why say anything? You should be bigger than that. I must say, I don’t really fully understand wtf he was ranting about. He should be able to defend his wife but, I don’t know. When you’re sexy as fuck, 9 times out of 10, you KNOW you are sexy as fuck. He knows MEN AND WOMEN wanna fuck him. This is less about black/white or gay/straight. Beyonce and Jay Z are on top of the world- I doubt they really give a shit what any of us have to say. Jay Z isn’t the best looking dude in his field but WHO CARES. He has a big dick, he’s the best rapper alive and he’s got the hottest chick in the game wearing his chain (and yes all that money and dick makes him SO sexy). Back to the point- ol boy Omari needs to chill. Nothing wrong with getting mad but he’s too sexy for that. Last thing, people have ALWAYS talked shit about public figures- they’re just able to broadcast their opinions now. We all talk shit. We all have called somebody ugly or said “damn that nigga is hot, why is he with HER?!” I do it. And not only have I judged when I don’t know (or care) what the story really is, BUT I’ve fucked with several not so attractive in the face dudes. BUT, they compensated in other areas, of course. Not so great face may = big ol dick, hot body or just cool ass fuck (who also knows HOW to fuck). Looks aren’t everything. ANYWAY, sometimes shit just doesn’t add up FROM THE LOOKS OF THINGS on the outside looking in. Why is Beyonce with J? (I just told you). Why is THIS dude with this woman? Who knows, who cares. Cute baby though.

3. I am glad he addressed it. The pro-black thing is soooo old lmao. Black men and women have been doing it for years. Black women with the he ain’t shit mentality while playing mistress to the Arab, Latino, white, hell even Asian men up the street that eyes all the young girls and ladies. Black men with the hate for white men and the taking of his women and even his brethren. When you finally learn that we are surrounded by hypocrites and people with their own agendas then you will finally realize bullshit when you see it. That pro-black shit is a front, they are usually mad that they can’t get the man or woman they want so they throw stones from the cliff trying to get someone in their cliques attention. Don’t even get me started on the craziness of the Civil Rights Movement. Let’s just say same shit different flies. Y’all need to let them be focus on you and how you can learn to love yourself and your own. Peace.

4. OPM1988, no if they are happy, all is not necessarily good. Not if their “happyness” is based on racism.

   We know that there is a tremendous amount of self-hating racism among African Americans whereby they hate black/African features-dark skin, broad noses, full lips and strong/nappy/tightly coiled hair. And because of that self-hating anti-black racism, they see is superior/preferred white/European features–pale skin, pointy noses, thin lips and stringy hair. I don’t know whether or not Omari Hardwick’s affection of his wife is influenced by this self-hating racism but I do reject racism in all its form and all its permutations. ( I do suspect that his affection of his wife is influenced by that racism because in the USA, we swim in racism/racist media all day, every day. Just reference the Kenneth Clark doll experiments here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kenneth_and_Mamie_Clark where young chidren had adopted self-hate based on societal cues, including those of their families.) So, I cannot agree with the attitude “as long as they’re happy, good for them”. I say “As long as they are happy and not influenced by racism, good for them.” I reject racism in all its forms and permutations–even if it is disguised as “just love”. And I invite all of you to reject racism in all its forms and permutations.

   I do suspect again because I do know that self-hating, anti-black racism is all around. Witness the use of the term “Good hair” The use of the term Nigger or Nigga by African Americans. The use of weaves and wigs. The dying of hair blonde and red. The fact that European standards of beauty have been adopted so that “black” features dark skin, broad noses, full lips and nappy/tightly coiled/strong hair are seen as less than pale skiin, pointy noses, thin lips and stringy hair. Etc. All show me that self-hatred is common among African Americans. Accordingly, I’d be stupid NOT to suspect that his affection for his wife is influenced by that racism, as noted above. Again, I don’t know but I do rightfully and reasonably and logically and rationally suspect that to be the case.

5. All of this drama really boils down to the inferiority complex among some black women and foxes. People need to learn to stop trying to find happiness through things they can’t control.

   On the other hand, Jay has a point though. Some of these white girls black men be dating.aren’t exactly pageant queens, but if they are happy, all is good.

6. Whether the wife is ugly or not is irrelevant. He picked her. What people re upset about is that she is white. Oh well get over it.

7. Smh if they want to date white/non black women that’s cool, but can they at least be mildly attractive.

   I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, the really attractive white women are not checking for black men. They always get the ones that are “pretty on the inside”, in other words settling for the table scraps.

8. Omari is a fraud. Where is all this outrage over the same pro black issues he is about? How do you go off about people calling your ugly basic white wife ugly? The black people defending him are pathetic.

9. Is this a ugly issue or a WHITE issue? If he was married to a black woman I bet no one would have anything to say.

   1. It’s both. If she was an ugly black woman, the gays would still complain, and the black women will bash her. It doesn’t matter. If it ain’t them, they don’t like it.

   2. It’s both. See my comment above, which stated “We know that there is a tremendous amount of self-hating racism among African Americans whereby they hate black/African features-dark skin, broad noses, full lips and strong/nappy/tightly coiled hair. And because of that self-hating anti-black racism, they see is superior/preferred white/European features–pale skin, pointy noses, thin lips and stringy hair. I don’t know whether or not Omari Hardwick’s affection of his wife is influenced by this self-hating racism but I do reject racism in all its form and all its permutations. ( I do suspect that his affection of his wife is influenced by that racism because in the USA, we swim in racism/racist media all day, every day. Just reference the Kenneth Clark doll experiments here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kenneth_and_Mamie_Clark where young chidren had adopted self-hate based on societal cues, including those of their families.) So, I cannot agree with the attitude “as long as they’re happy, good for them”. I say “As long as they are happy and not influenced by racism, good for them.” I reject racism in all its forms and permutations–even if it is disguised as “just love”. And I invite all of you to reject racism in all its forms and permutations.”

   3. If she was naturally dark with natural hair black people would still bash her even if she was gorge.

10. people fail to realize Omari is NOT your average your average wolf lol he can beat you down and teach you something at the same time…followed his career for some time and i heard of his story when he was on Dark Blue about his personal life…he’s been through a lot i just say at the end of the day it’s not always about looks, that may have been a bad pic of her lord knows i have taken a few bad pics myself but he went in…besides for the most part the only people really angry about him being married are vixens and gay men lol

    1. Right. Omari is a cool ass dude, and he’s smart as well. It’s not always about looks. It doesn’t bother them, but yet they are complaining. That’s why they will continue to be single. Malcolm and I are going to get our men, and the superficial people…..well….they will remain single…forever.

       1. Whatever. ◔̯◔

11. Who cares. Just take off your damn clothes, cocolo

12. I’m not surprised. Between black women and some gay men, I don’t know who is worse at judging people for who they choose to be with.Yet those are the same two groups who are always wishing, wanting, and praying for a man, but yet still continue to put other people’s relationships down. If Omari likes it then I love it.

    1. No, you’re scapegoating gays and black women for what a few of them say. They’re not necessarily judging who they choose to be with. We just wonder why is it only the top tier black men who get with busted chicks. Omari Hardwick, Isaiah Mustafa, Taye Diggs, etc… The list goes on. I find myself not caring lately but like it or not this presents a certain image of black men in America. Every white chick(no matter how busted they are) thinks they’re capable of getting with us because of black men(like the ones in my neighborhood) who have no standards. At least when black women go outside their race, the man looks decent. And if he doesn’t, he’s like the prince of England or some shit. Black men stay dating chicks that look like elementary school teachers. That’s not winning. You’re supposed to move up, not down. Black men should stop settling for less.

       1. I agree with you.

       2. No, I was right the first time, and you just proved my point Zen.
          YOU may not be attracted to her, but maybe he is. What you may think of as low standards may just be what he is attracted to. Y’all are judging based of looks only, and then talking about standards. I find that laughable. People can’t help how they look? What about the love he has for her and how she makes him feel from an emotional standpoint? Let’s talk about that. People talking about standards, but yet sleep with that nigga who still lives in his mother’s basement, with no job, no resume, smokes weed all the time, and plays 2K all day wearing nothing but his draws. Now those are low standard qualities, not looks.

          You want to get chose? You want a good man? Let’s start with not being superficial and focusing on what’s on the surface before you try and talk to me about standards. The people judging off of looks are the same people whining about not getting chose and complaining about how there are no good men out there. Yea, I want my dudes to look good, but that is not all I strictly focus on. If his attitude is not attractive, then he has no chance of kicking it with me. I have said what I said, and you know I’m not changing it because I’m right.

       3. Odds are, the majority of these Black men that get with mediocre looking White women are not doing it because they really love them. There are deep-seated not being addressed because people like to sweep them under the rug with words like “preference.” I guess this is why. Instead of trying to acknowledge them and work on fixing them, we’d rather keep living in a fantasy land where unicorns roam the Earth. My point was about our value being diminished. Omari had the pick of the litter. I know someone who went to school with him. They used to refer to him as the untouchable because of how good looking he was. You mean to tell me that out of all those women(whether they be black, white, or gray) that were fawning over him, he ends up marrying a woman that looks like she belongs in a stable. Don’t tell me why I’m not getting chosen. I know why. Apparently all it takes to get a black man/woman is to be a not so attractive white man/woman. Obviously. Every thing about you, like looks, job, etc… will be excused. Meanwhile, we put much more emphasis on our owns worthiness based upon their looks & financial income. Clearly this is something that will never be worked out because no one wants to be honest. It’s pretty much another closet. Not admitting you suffer from self-hate.

       4. His wife belongs in a stable? Really? I believe this all boils down to jealously and resentment. If it doesn’t affect your life, why does it matter? That’s what he wants. Those women lusting after him might not have been what he wanted. You still are making everything about looks. I’m stumbled across a lot of good people with ugly attitudes. I don’t like a superficial ass people man, and I damn sure don’t date them. It’s not a good quality to have. At times, some people only want good looking people because they are fine and they want to show you off as a trophy, and I have first hand experience with that one.

          When it involves skin color, race, social media, and insecurities, you have one big mess.

       5. Probably because self-hatred among black people does affect my life. Just like you say I’m being superficial for focusing on looks, so are people who marry whites solely for them being white. Forgive me for considering all the racial implications that black people have gone through(i.e it constantly being beaten into our psyche for centuries that everything about us is ugly) that would make me assume that the majority of these good looking black men choosing not so hot white mates is some sort of farce. I can even admit that I suffer from self-hate sometimes. But at least I can admit it. I’m not gonna try to excuse it as “Well, I like what I like and blah blah blah.” No, there’s a reason why I have a hard time imagining myself married to another black man. And it’s not because I find them unappealing. It’s because society has put it in my head that black love isn’t as special as interracial love because the latter involves someone whose racial features are put on a pedestal. It makes me feel worthy/validated that the one’s whose aesthetics are praised, is with me. I thank God that I’ve gotten over that and can now say “fuck it, give me a dark-skin black man and it’ll be me and him till the end.” I could’ve excused my self-hate as being my preference but I couldn’t do that because deep down, I knew where that feeling was really coming from. These men/women are not facing their demons so to speak. This isn’t just a problem among us. There are high marriage rates among White men and Asian women. I know it isn’t as simple as “They like what they like” because our history has taught us otherwise. It’s gotten even worse now. With the internet at our finger tips, you have people fetishizing certain ethnic groups(they have never seen in person) based off pics of attractive members of said ethnic group.

          1. We know that there is a tremendous amount of self-hating racism among African Americans whereby they hate black/African features-dark skin, broad noses, full lips and strong/nappy/tightly coiled hair. And because of that self-hating anti-black racism, they see is superior/preferred white/European features–pale skin, pointy noses, thin lips and stringy hair. I don’t know whether or not Omari Hardwick’s affection of his wife is influenced by this self-hating racism but I do reject racism in all its form and all its permutations. ( I do suspect that his affection of his wife is influenced by that racism because in the USA, we swim in racism/racist media all day, every day. Just reference the Kenneth Clark doll experiments here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kenneth_and_Mamie_Clark where young chidren had adopted self-hate based on societal cues, including those of their families.) So, I cannot agree with the attitude “as long as they’re happy, good for them”. I say “As long as they are happy and not influenced by racism, good for them.” I reject racism in all its forms and permutations–even if it is disguised as “just love”. And I invite all of you to reject racism in all its forms and permutations.

       6. But like are looks really that important? Gurl?

       7. @Zen you are absolutely right! I live in Maine the land of white people and everyday I would see a black man with nice body to be honest dating all these mean, fat white bitches who would drop the N bomb occasionally.

13. He went to my college and was real pro black. How you is pro black but then turn around and marry a white chick?

14. Something about him makes my gaydar go AWF! Bearding situation maybe? There goes my gaydar again!!!

15. J that basically sums it up, being a celebrity means that society will scrutinize everything about you and your life including your significant other. With that said, when I first saw his wife in a picture, my first thought was, wow she has chiseled features for a woman but hey beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right? I was getting a lesbian vibe from her. I would guess that Omari is a freaky freak behind closed doors and who knows maybe he getting his cake and eating it too; into that girl on girl sandwich action. There is something about his eyes that tell a story untold. Swingers perhaps? This picture sums up my instincts about wifey:

    http://i368.photobucket.com/albums/oo126/theybf/September%202014/spl842886_012_zps1652c4cb.jpg

    *inserts side_eye*

16. Exactly what Lurker said. No lies were told. Heidi Klum his wife was not. So please have a seat Omari. I really hope they don’t turn this into a hot topic. I do not wanna see Tamera Mowry crying like a baby again for the umpteenth time about this shit. Ol tragic ass. Y’all still go home to their ugly asses at night so what’s the problem? I wouldn’t care if I was going home to an ugly ass White man because clearly there is something I like about him. I also wouldn’t care care what people said about him. I’ve found men attractive that other people have not. I wouldn’t care what a bunch of anonymous people say because this is the internet. That’s the way it is and I’m used to it. People are harsh because they can be. They’re even harsher when you give them something. Look at what they say about Blue Ivy. I see they’re starting on North West because her hair is starting to, shall we say, kurl up nicely. Just comes with the territory. He knew damn well people would have something to say. I remember you reported on this blog last year that he married a snow goat and was keeping her a secret. Gee, why would he do that I wonder?

    He should’ve just got his hazing over back then.

17. His wife is ugly. That is a matter of opinion and since everyone has the same opinion…

18. http://www.centrictv.com/whats-good/entertainment/2014/09/23/omari-hardwick-lashes-out-at-critics-calling-his-wife-ugly-i-want-to-harm-you.html

    ^article to follow up with his tweets as well.

19. It’s not clear what he is talking about. It’s definitely not clear that he wrote about the women that you identify as his wife.

    1. ^word in the forest,
       it is about all the comments his wife got.
       allegedly.
       he could just be going off about the lack of rum raisin ice cream in the supermarket tho…

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