jamari fox is selfish.
i use to be “nice”,
bending over backwards for everyone,
but i have realized that the nice foxes usually get left behind.
there is such great power in keeping that “nice” thing in check,
but it always seems to hard to activate it.
i had to wonder…
Why is it so hard to be selfish about what we deserve?…
many foxes have an issue that usually buries them.
before its too late,
they are some wolf’s din din…
…and not in the good way.
some foxes are willing to drop whatever they are doing for a wolf.
its one thing if you are dating the wolf and it is a consistent 50/50 thing.
these foxes will give it all to some wolf they met yesterday.
he has proved nothing,
but he deserves your hole(s) in every which way.
once he realizes that you were pretty easy,
and not the challenge he had hoped,
he off to someone else.
a wolf likes when you can get under his fur.
he knows that you can put him in check with the quickness.
he also knows that if he doesn’t tighten up,
you will leave him and never look back.
“he is use to people giving him what he wants…”
“well if i don’t do this,
he will leave me alone…”
…and if he does,
good fuckin bye.
if anyone starts out not respecting you for who you are,
and that goes for everyone in your life,
then their time if officially up.
you have to be selfish with giving yourself to people,
from your body to your heart,
because not everyone deserves the full you.
if someone makes the mistake of taking you for granted,
you either need to:
a) let them have it
b leave them alone
i personally like option “all of the above”,
but i’ve learned the best exit is usually a quiet one.
i had to wonder why do we let people,
get away with so much?
is it because we want to be liked?
are we scared it will cause us to have a nasty reputation?
being a fox means we usually go against the grain.
we are not like everyone else.
wolves love us because we don’t do what the jackals do.
we end up trying to be this “nice” person,
and even though that is always good,
we don’t set boundaries and put out foot down.
wolves pick that up and try to test how far we will go.
we allowed him to get away with that today,
but what about tomorrow?
it ends up with a ton of baggage thrown in our u-hauls.
aren’t you tired of paying for it?
all that emotional clutter because you didn’t understand your worth?
so i had to ask…